Sab kuch vahin hai par kuch kami , writing mein consistency nahi hai , nahi hai 😛😆
Ok all right sorry for the dig but couldn't help myself 😆 Yesterday it slipped off my mind that we have episodes on Saturdays aa well and by the time I saw the episode, it was quite late to pen down my thoughts 😛 In my opinion the episode was pretty balanced from all corners , a loaded pool of emotions from all sides but quite entertaining 😃 some points that I would like to mention though:
1. This is a totally "Hero" centric episode, where abir and his emotions had the sole focus , right from his attempt to control his emotions when mishti announces that good news are around the corner to his panic to see his wife fall to his dilemma on how he is going to break the news to his wife and how she is gonna handle this ..to going to the doctor to re confirm the news to feeling left out and heart broken and entering the ultimate state of vulnerability, and bursting into tears calling it an unfair act by God, abir represented every emotion that a normal human being who gets devastated to hear that his most beautiful dream and now turned into an ugly nightmare, of course nothing should be considered as the end of the world untill you haven't lost your battles .... you feel lost but you do lose when you give up on fighting ...there comes a moment in life where we take a moment to express the pain , the grief and the internal trauma that makes us so vulnerable that we aren't ready to process anything ..... the whole song sequence was very emotional, although the baby saving part was added for the dramatic effect but it elevated the whole scene to another level so more points there, Shaheer's mind blowing portrayal of emotions makes you go through all those vulnerabilities bit by bit , for him it's a pack of cards that have fallen so brutally, in these times he was more worried on how he will share this news with mishti than his own wishes going in vain , this aspect of the sequence makes abir even more enduring and loveable to us. 😳
2. Meenakshi Rajvansh was on a roll today, I don't know if what she said was all genuine because i don't trust her character ittu sa bhi 😆 And I always believe her words have multiple meanings and her actions have multiple motives but for today I would just keep all that aside and appreciate the beauty of her struggles that made her a strong personality that she is , I think it's the struggles that has developed a never give up attitude inside her. Definitely life hasn't been that easy for her and in order to become Bapuji ki beti she somewhere lost abir and the emotional connect that a mother should have with her son, that fact that she decided to be the protector and parul decided to be the hidden nurturer changed a lot of equations in rajvansh house. Now she wishes to make up for her mistakes and make fair for abir's kid 😛 Well everyone has their own expectations from the upcoming kid 😆 Someone wants to relive his childhood, someone wants to correct her past mistakes 😆 meanwhile that little kid in heaven is thinking whether to land on earth or not 😆🤪 vaise I really liked the part where meenu says pota ho ya poti mujhe farak nahi padta 👍🏼 Well done on that subtle point makers !
3. Meenu's happiness has no thikana 😆 She is now ready to hand over her share of business to the chota baby already , arey duniya mein aane toh do 😆 That reminded me of 3 idiots sequence, when a kid is just born and is sleeping in his pram , dad comes n says mera beta engineer banega 😆 And the kid says my fate is sealed , is meenu trying to ensure that little baby joins the family business no matter what 😆 I won't let baby be a banjara, big no 😆 I felt it was completely okay to decide whom she wants to give her share to , just like kunal's share belongs his own kid ...plus I always had a feeling that meenu wants more for abir and his heir, I had a big theory in my mind and looks like its playing now 😉
4. Mishti's basic nature is to live life for others more than she desires to live for herself, is it a good sign or a bad sign , well that is something would live it on you guys to decide , as long as someone is not successful in emotionally manipulating you and you can still enjoy freedom to take your own decisions without influences, Its good , otherwise i prefer an atmosphere where not just 3 or 4 persons can affect your affect your decisions , sometimes that makes you go in a shell , like a frog in the well and when you don't concentrate on external factors outside the well , you tend to succumb and forget your own individuality, off lately I do believe mishti is on the not so good part of the end, abir's dreams , meenu's over expectations too much amul butter by BM and BP have influenced her decision to be a mother , aise time pe yeh realise hota hai how important it is to have good set of friends and a promisong career and life beyond your family... those things don't matter in broader levels but helps us to retain the individuality and practicality...anyways mishti logo ki help karne ke liye hamesha ready hoti hai 😆 Log na chahe toh bhi help karti hai 😆 is baar uske closed ones ne itni badi help maangi hai wish declare kar ke , toh kyun na help ki jaaye lol 😆
5. This might be unpopular opinion here, but kuhunal scene was superbly executed, I like the seedhi baat no bakwas style in the convo , where kuhu was open about how jas and varsha are trying to influence her the wrong way and kunal says he isn't ready as his responsibilities and priorities are different at this stage of life but he won't deny if kuhu agrees , well it feels how easy it is for them to communicate on this level without much thought or filters , that's the constant this couple adds in the story telling, don't know what future holds for them though , keep it separate is what I want , don't merge it makers like you merged their divorce track 👎🏼
6. Varsha and jas are gone cases 😆 Whether it be first or second kid, that will still remain kuhunal ka kid and parul ka pota first, nothing is gonna change it 😆 Inspiring kuhu to enter the race for bigger motives, there can't be anything foolish than this 😆 I never felt before , but today I felt BP's speech for mishti was too OTT from his side , I feel to BP , kuhu reminds him of his bad upbringing to shaurya and his galti ,may be that's why BP is not able to openly express his love or even his disappointment with kuhu because the base of connecting with someone emotionally is missing with kuhu ...while mishti reminds him of the trust and confidence someone had on him with his upbringing ( devyani handed over mishti to BP and BM cuz she trusted them as mishti's parents ), mishti as his daughter reminds him of akshara and that's what makes him easily love mishti and get disappointed too at times.
7. And now let's come to the most amazing scene - The maa beta maha milan scene
I am short of words to describe the beauty of the scene , the screenplay, dialogues, acting , background score , the whole set up was so so on point ....a vulnerable broken child for the first time breaking down in front of his mother and the mother being the ever strongest makes sure she gives the comfort her son is longing for, makes us believe that there is so much love , admiration care and respect these two have for each other which was always hidden over the layers of difference of opinions and their different choices and methods of life. Kudos to makers for giving us abir - meenu dynamics, it's a refreshing take on complicated and realistic mother son relationships
I was in tears when meenu says " tum rona mat abir "
Though the convo was smooth and simple but there is always a after thought in my mind, especially because I know how smart meenu is when it comes to manipulating people when they are at their weakest, she did it with kunal when she made him believe mishti is a wrong kind of girl and he needs to protect his brother, she did it with mishti when she made her hide baba truth and proofs for abir making her believe she is doing it for abir's betterment, she did it with kuhu also by constantly reminded her that she parul's bahu and kunal is not meenu's son , and now another trick for abir ?
Well I hope meenu has left her planning plotting ways and it's truly a team meenu standing United with abir and mishti and she suggests something that is genuinely good for the whole family
If you are a saidst like me 🤪 Who love watching scenes that have depth of emotions that probably you will enjoy this one for a change.
I am honestly not surprised the world is suddenly revolving around a baby right now 😆 For some 200 odd episodes it was revolving around a shaadi of some 22 year old girls 😆 At the end it's a gharelu show , if we expect too much of practicality, fault lies in us cuz I think we pretty knew what we signed up for 😛 At this point when surrogacy track hasn't even started I won't comment on it ..track shuru toh hone do pehle 😈😆 If this one was for trp like many are hinting at , I seriously hope it works for the sake
Anyways,
How will the pregnancy complications affect mishbir as couple and as individuals?
Is meenu the protector or the real manipulator ?
Are kuhu and kunal going the right way or kuhu's insecurities and kunal's love for family and brother will change things for them ?
Will sisters dynamics get a real closure and balance or we have to live with band aids all our life?
How will surrogacy be introduced, and how will each character react to it ?
Too much on the plate , let's see how much can be eaten and digested by us 😆 Over all a good episode and I kind a enjoyed it not keeping in mind the annoying promo and sister equation in mind for my own sanity Kya din aaye hai dimag adjust kar ke show dekhna padta hai lol 😆
PS: kisi ne meenu ke earrings notice kiye? 🤣🤣🤪🤣🤣 Nahi kiye ? Arey nahi kiye toh karo na , episode mein kya dekha phir , kya choice hai apni meenu ki 😆
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