SORRY Abir but there is no excuse for what you did to Mishti. NONE - Page 2

echoing my thoughts exactly ...

i think it is more of love towards Shaheer which is stopping many from pointing fingers at Abir ....purely my thought !!

if it had been other way round - Mishti ripping Abir n family n tearing wedding card n trying to get away from him after discussing kunal's birth truth with Bade papa n her family ...rajeswari parivaar deciding to call off mishti wedding with Abir i think almost the entire fandom unanimously would have turned against all of the mishti parivaar...the sadist in me wish to see a girl ditching down the guy at least once for the sake of family n siblings in a daily soap !! ...wink wink....

coming to Abir ...such a huge let down and how !!

as soon as i saw the humiliation n tearing up d card in the episode i recalled the episode where Abir promising Bade Papa n it hit me straight .......did Abir even try to give an explanation to Mishti or her BP BM ? it was brutal for him that he couldnt think beyond Kunal n Parul maasi throughout this fiasco...

the girl doesnt deserve it at all .....he should have at least given some hints when she tried asking him in last episode but no he had to snatch the pendant n manhandle her to get her through a shock..would have cost less tension if it had been a private breakup or a mutual one !

As a girl am totally disappointed how the writers have got this impactful by chossing the angry young man route...its a story but it hurts ....i think this is what they wanted viewers to feel d impact n they succeeded ....but cant deny the man who once promised he would protect had to let it go for his own selfish reasons n step brother .....he loves nanko more and lets hope Mishti doesnt fall easily for the trap once again post leap .....fingers crossed !!

I don't know but I feel more bad with real people opinion in forum

How they can justify abir

His nanko has never seen pain but mishti had already gone through a lot in her life still he chose to give her one more

And sorry it should have been abir who himself should have disclosed or asked parul mask to tell as everyone has right to know their birth truth

Anyway I font know how some people r asking for kuku to play cupid or mishti to go back to abir

And I know exactly these thing will happen

As it's ITV so fl or ml can't or never move on if they do so then don't know their love become impure but doing these type of violence humiliation and leaving don't impure the live

No doubt in real world even beauty is praised more

I would prefer mishti to actually move on but its ITV so nothing will happen

Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

Word!! for everything you said. This is exactly what I’m going through.. I read every possible justification my behnas penned down in this forum... but couldn’t come to terms with Abirs actions. Unfortunately I saw mishbir private breakup clip on Insta.. there was nothing romantic about it. I fail to see the angst, passion in that scene like everyone is talking about. It just broke my heart.. they ruined Abir for me. I guess I deserve this for getting attached to a fictional character.

How does one expect Mishti to trust this guy again? What is the guarantee that he will not choose his family over her again? What is the guarantee he does not humiliate her in public again? I know this is a daily soap.. but unfortunately I cannot stomach this kind of illogical crap.

\BOLD, Can't agree more..

I have only one question ..why Wasn’t this asked when Mishti did the same thing to Abir ? If Mishti cannotvtryst Abur after this then what did Mishti do that Abir trusted ,supported her when she did the same instead of breaking up with her .

Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

Word!! for everything you said. This is exactly what I’m going through.. I read every possible justification my behnas penned down in this forum... but couldn’t come to terms with Abirs actions. Unfortunately I saw mishbir private breakup clip on Insta.. there was nothing romantic about it. I fail to see the angst, passion in that scene like everyone is talking about. It just broke my heart.. they ruined Abir for me. I guess I deserve this for getting attached to a fictional character.

How does one expect Mishti to trust this guy again? What is the guarantee that he will not choose his family over her again? What is the guarantee he does not humiliate her in public again? I know this is a daily soap.. but unfortunately I cannot stomach this kind of illogical crap.

Can Mishti guarantee that she will not chose her family over Abir like she did during KuKu marriage ? What is the guarantee she won’t disrespect their relationship by taking all the decisions alone ?

This was a classic case of a perfectly baked dish spoilt by the writers.They completely messed it in the end. Have they realised what a big blunder they have done by playing with the core essence of this story? There could have been a thousand other ways to bring in a separation but this was plain idiotic.The guy who has been shown to be so sensitive that he removes even a flower petal which has fallen on Mishti's head with so much care at the confession time is actually manhandling her is something which is so out of the character. They have actually shown that a guy who was like a shield is the one who has backstabbed her. How do they want us to relate to this character now. No reason in the world justifies this action by Abir. He has actually burned all the bridges to even remotely get back to her .What face will he show her ?Im just not convinced with what this guy has done and he deserves to suffer and the sadist in me would want him to repent and regret because he did this to the purest soul,someone whose life ended with him. No amount of redemption can actually soothe our burning hearts as we had put Abir on such a high pedestal that our own faith has come crashing down. Why writers why ,why were you being so cruel that you have suddenly woken us up from this fantasy land with such a jerk. To us Abir was nothing but perfect but look what you have done !!!!

I know what Abir did was very sad..I can't say it is wrong...becoz whenever I see Abir I don't see this one scar that he brought but those tyms when I saw him fighting..fighting with his mother,fighting with his brother, fighting with his family all for the girl he loved..he fighted so much that he is tired...he is tired of everything....and as I mentioned many tyms..it is not just Mish who is suffering,a decision Abir took and he admits his mistake too..for once Abir chose Kunal what would have happened if it was the other way around..Mish getting blackmailed...what would hv happened then...will Mish choose family over Abir... definitely yes..inorder to protect kuku's wedding she defamed herself...to protect his Bhai ....Abir simply died a thousand deaths...for those who think I'm biased ,let it be....he truly deserves this.all will say...I want to say just one thing..plz try to feel his pain...plz try to see his turmoil....it's a request..plz

Think of the situation if Abir had chosen Mish over kunal.would it make sense..his brother all along was made known that he was big ben's son and now when he will hear that he was not just paruls son and he was an illegitimate kid as pointed out by bb..he would have shattered beyond repair...Abir knew it that his Bhai would have shattered..and if he opted Mish..that means he would have to let his brother go... Abir didn't even get tym to think...for once his emotions were overpowered by bb's manipulations and he succumbed to that....he failed miserably this tym...the turmoil he was going through.🤗

Originally posted by: yyyy

I have only one question ..why Wasn’t this asked when Mishti did the same thing to Abir ? If Mishti cannotvtryst Abur after this then what did Mishti do that Abir trusted ,supported her when she did the same instead of breaking up with her .

Oh Mishti did get to hear a lot but I am sorry, you asking this question just disregards the development that they had between then and now.

Mishti was being blackmailed by an outsider, who was threatening to leave Kuhu at a stage where no one would want to marry her (the society sucks, yeah). Abir and her hadn't confessed yet, and someone from Abir's family showing their absolute distaste for Mishti, threatening to leave her family shattered was something that triggered Mishti into doing what she did.

Abir is being blackmailed by his mother, who he knows very well and also knows she has done one too many things to not let Mishti and Abir unite. She has put forth the simple condition of telling Kunal the truth. Abir spent all that time from the mandir to his house with his brother, alone in their car. He had time to choose, he had time to explain to Nanko. I get that he didn't get enough time to process, okay.

Mishti, at the airport was wishing for Abir to come. Even before she knew he came, she let the flight go and walked to him. When she saw him, she broke down and hugged him. She did not tell him because she didn't have to. She went ahead and confessed love to her as soon as he did. Despite Meenakshi's threat.

So she offered Abir the same chance, somewhere private where he could trust her. Not only did he not do that, he insulted the love they had. He had given her the necklace after their confession and had asked her to stand up for herself and that she will always find him behind her. So now, he took away that very locket, threw it around and not only did he vanish from behind her, he left her stranded. He had many ways to go about this breakup. Simply tell her that he had to choose between Kunal and Mishti and this time he was choosing him. Even a little bit of pushing in that direction and Mishti would have simply agreed to it.

Between then and now, Abir went around and promised her family to teach her to throw tantrums and let her love herself. To pamper her and always be there by her. So not only did he go to the worst lengths to humiliate her, he broke whatever trust she had finally let herself have. Mishti did not want to trust anyone, he made her and then he tossed it aside.

I also think it's okay for Abir to do it and not totally out of character. Please know I am vouching for the break-up not the manhandling. He has always been the emotionally weaker one. Time and again he has reminded us that he admired that Mishti could step up for herself when needed. She was strong and everything he was not. So yes, him falling weak as soon as presented with a 'situation', he did the worst. I simply think the break-up by the lakeside was not needed to be so over the top. They could have showed it in a lot of ways but him totally having her come undone was not fair. He did not have to break her so bad that the poor girl would take away a lesson to not trust anyone again.

Abir's mental issues come from his baba running away. Mishti's mental issues come from the fact that everyone she has loved push her away. He did the same thing after making a thousand promises of always being by her side. The only 'running away' he mentioned was to get married. I feel terrible that Mishti has to go through this. So terrible.

I really want her to outright reject him at least once. Once.

I still love both these characters ( I mean, I still stand by and hope for Kuhu and Kunal to develop as individuals even though the makers use them as side pieces) and I am on both their sides. Just a little bit more on Mishti's. Our girl deserves it :)

Originally posted by: yyyy

Can Mishti guarantee that she will not chose her family over Abir like she did during KuKu marriage ? What is the guarantee she won’t disrespect their relationship by taking all the decisions alone ?

I don’t recall Mishbir being in a relationship during Kuku pre wedding ceremonies.. so breaking Abirs heart was not even in the picture. Did she humiliate her family? Yes!! and I was totally against that.

bold - I did not like Mishtis detective giri .. infant I skipped her Rajgadh scenes. I agree that she is at fault here.. and I can guarantee that she will continue to do soI guess she was doing this for Abir..On the other hand, Abir chose to humiliate Mishti to protect his brother. What was the need to show him yanking the chain of her neck? This broke my heart.

Again, im not justifying Mishtis actions here.. but Abir is the only reason i was still watching this show.. now they ruined it for me :(

I honestly think this drama was really not required and the Abir we knew would never react this way. And what Mishti was subjected to was brutal. From Mishti's perspective, more than a reunion or probably finding someone else, I'd only hope for her to heal at this point given everything she has gone through right from the beginning of the show. Having said that, I'd still maintain that the one guy who deserves happiness in this show is Abir. Yes he should go through hell before getting back with Mishti but given how sensitive and amazing he has been otherwise, I feel terrible that he has absolutely no one in his corner. He lost his father, he lost his mother and he had to push his fiancee away all in a matter of three days and I think he has had no time to grieve. He will live with this guilt forever that he pushed away his one chance at happiness with his own hands and he cant even fault Mishti if she refuses to come back in future. Mishti is at least lucky in terms of having BP and BM but Abir has none. And I hope they actually show Kunal redeeming himself and becoming that support for his brother. Maybe I am biased and I dont even wish to justify Abir's behaviour but despite everything, I will maintain that he deserves someone at this point just so he can cry his heart out if not for anything else.