Guys honestly I do not understand what is there to bash Kuhu if she is being genuinely supportive of her new family. Why is it that we try to see and understand Kuhu only in terms of how she behaves with Mishti or what she feels about MishBir.
The fandom feels so strongly about the fact that Kuhu should be made to apologize for trying to separate MishBir. Something which wasn't even like trying to separate in the literal sense. All that she wanted was that Mishti stays away from the family because having Mishti around makes Kunal react in a certain extreme manner which she feels could prove to be detrimental for their already fragile relationship. We can debate whether her thinking so is right or wrong though she is only going by what she has herself seen and experienced a number of times.
On that day when they went shopping, on her wedding day, on the Visarjan day.
Am sure with time Kuhu's perspective in that regard would change. She would genuinely try to make amends as and when she feels she needs to.
Moreover for her to be made to feel the burden of a relationship the importance of which was never really explained to her, is quite unfair. Mishti and Abir have no idea what Kuhu goes through in trying to deal with Kunal. BP and BM have no idea either. It is very easy for them to think that they can talk to Kunal and make him understand. But guess it is not so easy after all.
Mishti being with Abir bothers Kunal a lot and makes him react in a hostile manner thus pushing away both Abir and Kuhu. There would surely come a day when we'll see Kunal outgrowing his dislike towards Mishti. But it is something that has to be given time.
Originally posted by: beguiling
Guys honestly I do not understand what is there to bash Kuhu if she is being genuinely supportive of her new family. Why is it that we try to see and understand Kuhu only in terms of how she behaves with Mishti or what she feels about MishBir.
The fandom feels so strongly about the fact that Kuhu should be made to apologize for trying to separate MishBir. Something which wasn't even like trying to separate in the literal sense. All that she wanted was that Mishti stays away from the family because having Mishti around makes Kunal react in a certain extreme manner which she feels could prove to be detrimental for their already fragile relationship. We can debate whether her thinking so is right or wrong though she is only going by what she has herself seen and experienced a number of times.
On that day when they went shopping, on her wedding day, on the Visarjan day.
Am sure with time Kuhu's perspective in that regard would change. She would genuinely try to make amends as and when she feels she needs to.
Moreover for her to be made to feel the burden of a relationship the importance of which was never really explained to her, is quite unfair. Mishti and Abir have no idea what Kuhu goes through in trying to deal with Kunal. BP and BM have no idea either. It is very easy for them to think that they can talk to Kunal and make him understand. But guess it is not so easy after all.
Mishti being with Abir bothers Kunal a lot and makes him react in a hostile manner thus pushing away both Abir and Kuhu. There would surely come a day when we'll see Kunal outgrowing his dislike towards Mishti. But it is something that has to be given time.
Abir - mishti are not random people. If she doesn't like mishti fine but Abir has been nice to her, cared for her, fought against his family for her. Can she atleast think of Abirs happiness. It's not just about kunal and herself and the whole world doesn't revolve around kunal and kuhu. Why does she think that just because kunal doesn't like it abir should not be with mishti and just because kunal doesn't want it abir should not look for his dad.
Kunal has used her to separate mishbir and cheated her. And she has helped kunal and cheated abir. I will not mention the cheating she did with mishti because she hates her so cheating her is no big deal. But she atleast likes abir. Cheating him should invoke her conscience.
And which fragile relationship between ku ku are we talking about. There actually exists no relationship except that kunal has cheated her. For a non existant relationship she wants to break a existing relationship of the person who has always supported her.
Kuhu should actually leave kunal and reveal to everyone how kunal only married her to break mishbir. And abir should know the truth that kuhu released the pictures on kunal insistence. I hope that day comes. He deserves to know the truth of the two people he is supporting .
Abir - mishti are not random people. If she doesn't like mishti fine but Abir has been nice to her, cared for her, fought against his family for her. Can she atleast think of Abirs happiness. It's not just about kunal and herself and the whole world doesn't revolve around kunal and kuhu. Why does she think that just because kunal doesn't like it abir should not be with mishti and just because kunal doesn't want it abir should not look for his dad.
Kunal has used her to separate mishbir and cheated her. And she has helped kunal and cheated abir. I will not mention the cheating she did with mishti because she hates her so cheating her is no big deal. But she atleast likes abir. Cheating him should invoke her conscience.
And which fragile relationship between ku ku are we talking about. There actually exists no relationship except that kunal has cheated her. For a non existant relationship she wants to break a existing relationship of the person who has always supported her.
Kuhu should actually leave kunal and reveal to everyone how kunal only married her to break mishbir. And abir should know the truth that kuhu released the pictures on kunal insistence. I hope that day comes. He deserves to know the truth of the two people he is supporting .
Kuhu would have walked out of the marriage the very next day if she strongly believed in doing so. She finds it worth fighting for for her own reasons and that's fair enough I feel.
Honestly none of the characters have been entirely truthful. When Abir was pressing for Kunal and Mishti's rishta he told a number of lies. Had he been truthful probably the talks would not have reached a point where the engagement got called off on the engagement day. He took his time to assess the situation, took his time to come to terms with his own feelings and then after running away, returned.
Mishti or her family or Abir don't yet consider it worth sharing with Kuhu that why she was called illegitimate publicly on her Haldi day. Abir is not entirely honest to Mishti either because he kept on hiding from her that Kunal had run away on the wedding day even when Mishti admitted to him what Kunal had told her during bidaai.
Kunal is also hiding from Kuhu that that entire plan to trap her was actually that of his Mom and he blindly followed it with the hope that that would help in "saving" his brother from a relationship they do not deem right for him.
The photographs incident is so done and dusted. Kuhu framed Mishti, Mishti held her accountable and put her to task for it. I think that should more than suffice because it was Mishti who was wrongly framed and Kuhu told her whatever she had in her heart honestly even back then. Also it wasn't as if Kuhu kept on trying to deceptively separate MishBir after that. Until recently when she felt the situation demanded she does so because she dreaded how MishBir's relationship would affect her marriage.
Abir is supportive of Kuhu yes, as and when required she is also supportive of him (for instance when she keeps on trying to make Kunal understand that he should learn to value his brother's efforts in trying to making it upto him) She is also there for what is Abir's family first, trying to support them all in the best possible manner she can even though she only recently became member of the family. Yes it isn't necessarily out of love for Abir, because she now considers the family her own too.
Kuhu does not have that self-sacrificial streak where she would want to give up on something or someone dear to her just so that it ensures other's happiness. Kuhu doesn't claim to be that mahaan person either. With time am sure her perspective towards MishBir's relationship would change because unlike Mishti and Abir who show a lot of ignorance towards a lot of matters they shouldn't be ignorant about, Kuhu is rather receptive and well aware of her surroundings and how her actions affect others. That is why we also see her admitting to Jasmeet that we can't stay happy by taking away others' happiness.
I have had very bad experience of following actors offscreen which is why I used to refrain from watching any offscreen segments of the YRHPK cast also. But yesterday out of boredom, I ended up watching some of their offscreen segments and much to my surprise it was quite a discovery to know that our 4 protagonists actually have a persona which is closer to the characters they potray on-screen.
Shaheer is this insanely crazy ball of energy. He is legit so full of life and that's something about his personality which is so infectious. Also seems pretty down to earth. I know for a fact he is very mood having followed KRPKAB but it's really nice of him to be so dedicated and professional and not throw his weight around despite of being so successful.
Rhea is cute and gives the signature Maharashtrian girl vibes 😳 I truly admire and respect her talent having seen how amazing she was in TSMSP (a show which I really want to catch up on as and when time permits) And I also know for a fact that it must not have been easy to build chemistry with Shaheer but she manages to pull it off in such a seamless manner. She does have a bit of Mishti like persona to herself too.
Ritvik is pensive and seems like a slightly closed off person. I can't help but think about Kunal whenever I see any interview of his 😆
Last but definitely not the least, Kaveri is SO like Kuhu. Bubbly, talkative, outgoing, LOVES dancing and has an ease with people. Loved the bit with Shaheer in her day out segment and unlike what the bashers often suggest, I feel Kaveri and Rhea share a great bond. They don't necessarily project it on social media (because I guess Rhea ain't much into social media anyway) No wonder the chemistry translates so well on-screen. It sucks then that Kuhu and Mishti haven't had a proper scene together in ages unlike the earlier days when we used to see them bickering, dancing together all so often.
Kinda makes me miss them sisters :(
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