Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 19 Nov 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 5

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

Very irresponsible statement to suggest that mothers can't feel pain, just because they are mothers their feelings are secondary, about time we wake up and read about post partum depression, mothers end up hating their own lives and kids, they go through millions of changes post pregnancies, how difficult it is for people to give someone the time they need to heal and grieve the loss?

Again, being a mom and having suffered through PPD myself, I can definitely say that no matter the situation, you cannot wish that someone else's baby is unalive, even if you are grieving for your own. That doesn't make your pain any less and only makes you look like a bad human being.

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Originally posted by: ambika02

As a mother I can say that a real mother would never see any other baby in pain. Let alone grieving, having lost her own baby. I’d do everything in my capacity to give anything to save that tiny life if I can! Heck we have real stories of bishnoi women feeding babies of deer who need feeding. So yes, Ruhi is a heartless and selfish woman who is able to sit while a defenseless child is dying of hunger. No sympathy for such a person

Everyone has a different grieving process and coping mechanism. Being a mother doesn’t mean you get to be the selfless person every time and not choose yourself. That’s a wrong message. To Ruhi, her child died. Simple. Let her grieve, let her lactate more or less, let her cry, but let her do it. Why choose it for her and when she doesn’t wish to, judge her?? Pretty sure if the situations were reversed, everyone would have jumped at Ruhi’s throat for even suggesting it including both the poddar brothers.. ! It’s sad we are judging a grieving person.

Can't believe that the hottest topic of discussion for two days here is......... Lactation. That too in the most messed up way possible.

Originally posted by: Honey-Friend

Mujhe bhi ehi laag raha hai! I don't think there is any intentions of telling the truth regarding the baby!

This will 💯 be a phuski reveal like all the others and will want us to bang our head somewhere, coz these 2 brothers are never going to get any kind of fallback for their stupid decision

Originally posted by: ambika02

Don’t put words in my mouth. Show me where I have said ‘Mothers can’t feel pain’?

And yes, it IS about time we read about postpartum depression as well as human empathy!

Exactly

Empathy is not only limited to one person, human empathy extends to everyone. You said "Real mother can't see someone else's baby in pain", when the reality is that real mothers when depressed can't even do anything about their own baby. These people need help, support and time to heal.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

See I get her resentment, I do. I even understand her nit feeding the kid, as many would not be able to do such a thing, especially if they're in depression which looks like Ruhi is suffering from.

But yes, wishing another's baby wasn't there - that is in no way justified, even if you lost yours.

Thank you! This is exactly what I’m saying. Yes she may be in depression (which they haven’t mentioned btw) but that doesn’t justify a cold blooded narcissist behavior!

Originally posted by: Ambajee

Entire family stood at her doorstep and watched the tamasha! Not one person came forward to tell, it’s ok feed the baby formula and leave her alone. And don’t even get me started on Rohit! That MF is gonnna have to face some hard slaps to put Ruhi through the bullshit! She took a good decision to leave! But sad the baby is suffering becos of Bacha stealing brothers!

Ruhi is just baccha making machine for Rohit so yeh baccha apne bhai/bhabhi ko de diya and bola ki woh Ruhi ke sath dusra baccha kar lega.

Socho like kal ko iss bacche ko kuch ho gaya toh Rohit ruhi ke sath second baby kar ke woh baccha bhi apne bhai bhabhi ki gift wrap kar ke de dega and bolega ki woh ruhi ki body se tisra baby nikal lega ! Bahot ghatiya act kar raha hai rohit right now.

I am so glad ruhi ne koi juthi mahanta ka nonsense drama nahi kiya and she stayed true to herself in front of everyone and Rohit ko bhi bahot sahi bola ki usko maayka chale jana chahiye kyunki abhira Armaan and Rohit koi bhi usko Shanti se grieving time bhi nahi dega.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Yrkkh4 makers have expertise in writing rubbish.

medical aspects mein toh PhD in writing rubbish

I am actually just glad Doc suggested formula varna I would not put it past these dumbass writers to write some stuff about no option other than breast milk and showing Abhira beg every new mom in the hospital to share breast milk for her crying baby

There is medication available for aiding lactation and for stopping it but ofc doc had no suggestion for that either.

There are breast pumps available if the issue is to do with baby latching on

But we cannot expect these makers to do even a google search on things to write a decent script that actually discusses all these things in a factual way to spread awareness so that new moms arent judged.

The worst part is they have a woman on the writing team.

nit watched aaj ka episode yet...aap ke updates read kiye❤️

IMO makers 2 purposes saath serve kar rahe hain...ek to ruhi ka bad side sab ke saamne alaana....and second abhira ke thru new mamma ke problems/anxiety etc dikhana...

as a new first time mom, defo v become so anxious with little things....and v dont think straight....wohi abhira ka haal hai....

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

Can't believe that the hottest topic of discussion for two days here is......... Lactation. That too in the most messed up way possible.

I know - watching today's episode made me thankful to God that the people around me were good & supported formula feeding, else I would also have gone stabbing people in my PPD like how some people accuse our previous gens ke FL of doing