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Actually watched the episode after many many days of Abhira bashing. Thanks for watching it for us and giving us synopsis.
I only hope Abhira doesn’t do a runner now and bring up the child alone like generation 2 and 3.
Originally posted by: Shinning_AD
Why is this thread dated 23 Oct and not 24th?
Oops , sorry .
I just noticed it . I have edited it .
One thing I wanna smack arman for..
If he knew baby / pregnancy can be a life threatening situation for abhira , why not take protection?
And mam abhira didn't want the baby for 2 yrs , now all she wants is the baby
I know vidyas taunts r the driving force behind all these stupid decisions..but that's what makes it ridiculous
There are 2 things consistent in this show, it’s Abhira hiding things thinking for the greater good from Armaan that could affect their relationship, which the whole world knows before him and makes him look like a fool in front of anyone. I can understand why he is angry and upset as no one likes to be made a fool of, especially when a spouse does that it feels like a betrayal. Also who even declares such a personal matter to the world first, especially if you have been hiding it from your husband. The other thing that has been consistent is Armaan leaving Abhira crying anytime he is faced with a difficult situation. I can understand why he is angry and upset, but his wife just fainted, the doctor literally forced her to eat, but he left her wailing behind him and locked her in the car demanding answers, which he deserves, but now wasn’t the right time.
This could have been a good track to show the lack of trust in their relationship. There’s a fundamental problem in their relationship. Abhira never has an emotionally available husband, which leads to her being left alone to make stupid decisions. Armaan never is emotionally strong enough to face a difficult situation, his first instinct is to hide and cry. Abhira who keeps saying I trust you to Armaan couldn’t trust him enough to share the biggest news of their life. Armaan who keeps saying you are enough for me, yet is unable to convince Abhira that she is enough for him or trust Abhira even after KP told him there must be a reason for Abhira hiding something. In today’s episode Armaan yet again left Abhira to go to the park and cry alone to pour his heart out, after declaring to not have the baby and proclaiming her to be the most important person in his life. It’s very conflicting as a viewer to root for this character. On one side you feel bad that once again he is being shown this dream, only to be cruelly snatched, which will just give him pain along with it. On the other side he comes as a hypocrite because after claiming Abhira is important, he cries seeing the sonogram saying I’m not bad, just because of my situation I have let you go, which completely defies everything he said a few minutes ago. It only makes you think maybe Abhira was right to decide to keep the baby, maybe it’s her fear that he might blame her at some later point. Abhira i feel has the biggest trust issue right now, despite her insisting she trusts him, it’s clear from her decisions she doesn’t believe she is enough for him, which is understandable given how Armaan treated her post marriage. Yet she isn’t seeing the bigger picture, what if Armaan turns out to be another Madhav and the child another Armaan as Armaan himself pointed out. I know the writers wouldn’t explore all these dynamics, it seems like they indirectly touch base on these topics, only to completely move on to another drama. Yet when you see snippets of these scenes, it makes you want to connect to these 2 characters.
I thought there was no thread for today. Is it my figment of imagination or this thread just suddenly appeared???
hi..I was wondering where you were ..😁..I tagged you in a few posts..I saw the episode but since I am traveling can’t dwell too much on it .. have fun guys
Originally posted by: Chaitu.V
His anger ,pain everything is understandable but once he realised why she did it he ran back to her leaving all his anger. Their love for each other is unconditional and pure.
But Situations forced Abhira to think that only baby can bring them close to that pagal family. Witch V n Vile Ruhi made her feel unwanted and unworthy because she can’t get pregnant. Ghatiya Ruhi also said because of Ak’s paap’s Abhira can never become maa. And Armaan too ignored her from last 3 months only thinking about his pain , she too was in equal or more pain as him but still she always kept him above everything and everyone. He shouldn’t have ignored her for last 3 months.So It’s ok if she wants to take time to tell him . She knows this is coming up and Armaan will ask her to go for the procedure. So she is trying to buy some time for the baby and her.
Am happy Armaan is the 1st person to know about the pregnancy, she planned the surprise but it didn’t work. But still he is 1st person to know. She tried last night but he didn’t hear so she had to go to Dadi but thanks to her medicines . Doctor will anyway know before anyone else. Now both of them will be hiding it from the family. Where did the velle gatekeeper go today ,they both r screaming baby baby but velle ne video nahi banayi .
abhira...ne armaan ko sab se pehle bataya....even though he did not listen...in his anger....
waise bhi ab bhi...only armaan knows...😂
If I think from abhira's POV.....it can b difficult to trust armaan.,, she knows he loves her....he has told her and she has seen that his family ka love is so conditional for her...he has mentioned that she is enough for her...
BUT his actions dont speak that way....
he just left her at the door....immediately after marriage....when he said he will marry her against his family ki wishes...BUT he was affected and that too badly....she stood strong...all alone ...for their relationship!!!!
again, thoda sa trust nahi dikha paya armaan.....how could he not wai for some time for abhira to me more comfortable to open up to him....this is even when dadi mentioned it to him.....
so I believe agar aisa hota raha..trust issues could b major...iss liye abhira would want the kid more.....as again it is quite easy to blame her....ki uski wajah se armaan ko khushi nahi mili....armaan needs to show that abhira is enough for him...not in words...but in action!!!!
armaan is a good person....but he becomes selfish when it comes to abhira...his DDP becomes major...abhira ke baare mein he stops thinking.....
The edt was wrongly titled as edt of 23rd Oct..suta just edited the date
Originally posted by: Indira1211
hi..I was wondering where you were ..😁..I tagged you in a few posts..
post Diwali I will be back in the forum ❤️
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