Originally posted by: lilmssunshinee
I really don’t understand the characterization of Ruhi. For someone who has deep rooted abandonment issues and fear of people leaving her, WHY is she still clinging onto Armaan when he has shown her in every possible way that she is not even close to being on his list of priorities. He only cares for her as an extension of his guilt for hurting her and dumping her at the altar, which is also now slowly fading away since Rohit’s return. She has Goenkas who love her so much, Rohit who loves and cares for her despite her betrayal to the point where he is literally waiting for her to accept him wholeheartedly and she is the favourite bahu of the Poddar Fam yet her sui is stuck on Armaan. What is it? Zidd, Psychopathy, desperation? It is so effing annoying seeing a woman so hung up on a man that does not want her in the slightest. Armaan basically gave up on her despite her pleading and begging because he could not go against his family and Rohit, then refused to talk to his family about them and chose to get drunk asf rather than say ILY to her yet everyday in the past few months, he has gone against the family and Dadisa for Abhira, has spent every waking moment declaring his undying love for Abhira and is constantly pushing for marriage. He is actually LEAVING the Poddar House for good because he wants a peaceful married life with Abhira and that too after a major confrontation with Dadisa jinke saamne iska muh tak khulta tha. What more signs is Ruhi waiting for that Armaan does not love or care for her beyond what anyone feels for an extended family member? I cannot even call what she feels for Armaan “love” since she gives no f-s about how Poddars treat him, where his happiness lies or what he wants. In fact she is making plans to sabotage his already fragile relationship with his younger brother for her selfish goals; she cares about nothing and no one. What is the endgame for her character cause hum saath saath hai after all this would be terrible.
very logical post.
but thats why I always said that these claims of Ruhi's so called "abandonment issues" and past "trauma" is all a sham. She is just an entitled brat who wants everything to go her way. she cant take no for an answer. she is obsessive, stupid, vile. thats who she is. her innate personality is trashy and there is no great psycho analysis that can explain why she is this way. inherently some people are just bad humans who have no Fs to give for others feelings, and she is one of them.
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