Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan
Agree . Abhira has flaws no one is saying she is perfect. And this space chahiye aur space nehi dena hai argument happens between most couple and usually it happens when they are in the middle of disagreement etc. So what they are showing is very real. Infact actually they are standing up for each other is commendable. I was upset with Ab yesterday and I agree what Ar said to her today but today she did not continue the argue and had the common sense to pull Ar away from the fight too. So I dont find any reason to badmouth her today. She is a little jhagralu but because of her fighter attitude she has the capability to reply back to any and everyone when people are badmouthing Ar. Isnt that a commendable quality. Otherwise if she tried to be a perfect Bahu in front of Dadisa she should stay quiet even when people are saying 1000 nich things to Ar. Ar very well understands how Ab’s mufat characteristic is not just a disadvantage but it is advantageous in many scenarios. So he might be a little upset momentarily but willnot be seriously upset with her. So who cares what others think. As long the leads are happy and sort out their own problem why should we everyday keep on piling on them without any break I do not understand.
Ya thats what i also pointed out in another post. She was mature, understood Ros gussa, dragged Ar away today and deescalated matter. Thats growth. The Ab on day 1 would have retorted back. But shes still learning. She's a confrontational upfront person and thats both her flaw and strength. She spoke up not to be meddling but because she knows that if this Ru Ro thing goes south, Ar will be blamed again and he will feel guilty that Ro is hurt again. Armaan repeatedly says he wants Ro to be the way he used to be and be happy but Rus intentions aren't right. Thats why she is cautioning. She hasn't said dont be with Ru, only to be careful.
When both landed up at same hotel she immediately smelled a rat. She didn't doubt Ar.even for a sec though. Shows that she trusts ar but not ru.
She cooked breakfast and made him eat even during jhagda and went on date too. She's a sorted girl despite being inexperienced and she's being quite mature despite how insecure, fearful and upsetting the circumstances are in PH with Ruhis return and Kaveris toxicity.
I'm glad they are sorting out their issues or accepting that they both have some personality issues that are inherent. Armaan is too trusting and dumb, completely no perceptiveness. Abhira is mufat and meddlesome. Thats who they are.and both are dealing with it. ab gets annoyed by how blind he acts to people taking him for granted or using him, how over trusting he is. ar gets annoyed by her meddling, mufatness. Its real.
Edited by Pinecone - 3 months ago
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