Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 23rd Jul 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 31

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

We can agree to disagree there. In my opinion, If Ar really had immoral intentions like Ruhi, then they could have had full fledged EMA because Ruhi looked more than willing. That did not happen and he had asked her to back off also multiple times when Rohit was there.

But Ar is guilty of not drawing his boundaries firmly with her due to his misplaced guilt ( which Ruhi intentionally kept fanning) and people pleasing attitude which enabled Ruhi further. He is guilty of not letting Ab know the truth even when Ruhi interfered and insulted her which at the end made her look like a fool. And Rohit has every right to be angry because he is the biggest victim and he had every right to know and he if had known would have have put a stop to it ( I don't believe anyone else in family would have done, they would have expected Ar to sacrifice for Ro which Ar himself knew) . But the way he is lashing out at Ar bringing up sautela, pushing him multiple times , no flicker of emotion even when Ar was at his feet and absolutely no ill feeling to the others in the family makes it difficult to continue to root for him. And we have to forget whatever happened between him coming to know to realizing that Ar had made a sacrifice in the earlier episodes.

I agree actually! Armaan's intentions have been pure but the impulsive decisions he had made like the promise he had made to ruhi suggested that he did in the corner of his heart wanted ruhi to be close to him even as his bro's wife. That's what makes it wrong. It was ruhi who went more than a step far in acting on her immoral intentions.

What sets them apart is armaan has realised his faults. As you said he is guilty for it. He knew he strung ruhi along with his promises and not being able to draw a line between them and allowing her to interfere in his relationships.

Rohit is justifiable in his anger yet i agree he went overboard with his suthama bhai taunts. Both abhira and rohit had been wronged by armaan and ruhi. While armaan is willing to atone for it, no one is even acknowledging ruhi's mistakes. As i already said, as long as rohit shows his out of control anger towards ruhi as well with as much bitterness as he had shown armaan, he ll be justified.

But according to rohit, it's not sacrifice because he still ended up getting hurt. Rohit had loved armaan a lot so even if the family would have forced armaan to give up on his love, rohit would have backed out and no one would have forced him to do otherwise. It is armaan's actions that rohit sees rather than his intentions.

Originally posted by: Nephy1

I get that...

But a person who can wish so bad for her..

Why to bother about that person

Because the person she is bothered about truly aka Armaan bothers about that person

Dadisa still holds that power over armaan. Previously armaan used to express it by accepting everything dadisa says. Now even though he thinks he is doing what he wants and not caring about what she feels, even his anger stems from the disapproval of his grandmother. As long as that power exists in any form, armaan can change anytime. Abhira can see it.

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

Ganda khoon aur wahiyaad ladki kie beta/beti ko kyun chinega KP? woh bachha to uski logic se bohut ganda khhon wala bachha hoga.

Tab tak abhira fix kar degi na armaan ki place in poddar family. Dadi ka pyara dulara ban jayega armaan & his child would be dadi ka "apna" khoon

Originally posted by: Rainbow_Girl

Tab tak abhira fix kar degi na armaan ki place in poddar family. Dadi ka pyara dulara ban jayega armaan & his child would be dadi ka "apna" khoon

fix karne ke liye yeh screw nahi hi ya tyre nahi hi 🤣🤣 ar ka rista hi. Dadi ko abhira nahi chahiye isiliye ar ko alag kar rahi hi bas

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

Ar really did not understand Ab insecurities with respect to Ruhi when he picked up Ruh'is cases. But today he is immediately insecure how Ruhi being back will impact repairing his relationship with Rohit.

So now we have both Ab and Ar insecure of Ruhi albeit different reasons. After balancing of ddp, now it is balancing of insecurity😀

Hai na..

Rohit ke time jhat se samjh gya vo ruhi aur uske rishte ko lekar insecurity..

Tab nhi guilt hua ruhi ki zindagi barbaad karne ka..

Lekin abhira ke time, he was like abhira galat hai aur vo samjhe ki he is guilty about ruhi...🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Nephy1

Hai na..

Rohit ke time jhat se samjh gya vo ruhi aur uske rishte ko lekar insecurity..

Tab nhi guilt hua ruhi ki zindagi barbaad karne ka..

Lekin abhira ke time, he was like abhira galat hai aur vo samjhe ki he is guilty about ruhi...🤣🤣🤣

rohit will be insecure next what's extra 🤣

Originally posted by: All_A_MooPoint

Because the person she is bothered about truly aka Armaan bothers about that person

Dadisa still holds that power over armaan. Previously armaan used to express it by accepting everything dadisa says. Now even though he thinks he is doing what he wants and not caring about what she feels, even his anger stems from the disapproval of his grandmother. As long as that power exists in any form, armaan can change anytime. Abhira can see it.

Oh I know dadi is imp to armaan..

And in future he can again kick out abhira becoz of dadi .

But now he was clearly willing to marry abhira and than manao dadi but obviously abhira is again one hypocrite person who otherwise challenge dadi and says pyaar ki aankhon mein aansu nhi de sakti but don't wanna marry to him even after he wanting it. .

Originally posted by: Nephy1

Oh I know dadi is imp to armaan..

And in future he can again kick out abhira becoz of dadi .

But now he was clearly willing to marry abhira and than manao dadi but obviously abhira is again one hypocrite person who otherwise challenge dadi and says pyaar ki aankhon mein aansu nhi de sakti but don't wanna marry to him even after he wanting it. .

if Armaan kicks out abhira due to dadi or anybody else in future ..he’s out of abhiras life..believe me..Dkp will definitely bring a new man for her..because Armaan has messed up big time already and kaveri is no innocent..she’s a fully fledged villain ..so dkp will never let them win over Abhira. So one more time of Armaan insulting or hurting abhira..he’s out.. he’ll never get her back and will pine for her the rest of his life.

I dont see season 3 repeating here.....and Achha admi 2 coming up

But if the same happens due to lack of plot then atleast Arohi's death due to Ruhi's negligence needs a final closure for Abhira to be accepted in Goenka house

Abhita needs to stay in the same city for story to run its turtles pace

Originally posted by: All_A_MooPoint

I agree actually! Armaan's intentions have been pure but the impulsive decisions he had made like the promise he had made to ruhi suggested that he did in the corner of his heart wanted ruhi to be close to him even as his bro's wife. That's what makes it wrong. It was ruhi who went more than a step far in acting on her immoral intentions.

What sets them apart is armaan has realised his faults. As you said he is guilty for it. He knew he strung ruhi along with his promises and not being able to draw a line between them and allowing her to interfere in his relationships.

Rohit is justifiable in his anger yet i agree he went overboard with his suthama bhai taunts. Both abhira and rohit had been wronged by armaan and ruhi. While armaan is willing to atone for it, no one is even acknowledging ruhi's mistakes. As i already said, as long as rohit shows his out of control anger towards ruhi as well with as much bitterness as he had shown armaan, he ll be justified.

But according to rohit, it's not sacrifice because he still ended up getting hurt. Rohit had loved armaan a lot so even if the family would have forced armaan to give up on his love, rohit would have backed out and no one would have forced him to do otherwise. It is armaan's actions that rohit sees rather than his intentions.

Armans fault was that he wasn't clear on ruhi ..he never was..and it took him 9 months to see what's he doing and what are the implications..I won't bring abhira into the picture...he could never draw lines with ruhi ..he never called her bhabhi ....he never asked her to accept rohit n its over between them when she got married ...he did not bec he didn't want to ...that's why this love track with abhira is even more ridiculous ..he had to backtrack on a lot of stuff and ekdum ek ghatiya qism ka character Banta hai..indecisive , impulsive , weak , and immoral..things r different after he rejected ruhi ..there's arman 1.0 and Arman 2.0 and they don't look like the same person , same with abhira ..

That's the whole thing..he's ready to atone for his sins , now he has drawn clear cut boundaries ..so I will only take arman 2.0 under consideration ..he's had enuf of redemption ..