Watching old scenes reminds me exactly why Abhira is so right to be scared of Ruhis impact on their rishtaa and why she is unable to trust Armaan wholeheartedly.
If we recap all the moments there are WAY too many times where Armaan gave Ruhi leeway to interfere and supported Ruhi, the stuff he did/said when he divorced her in the most brutal way (mutually calmly bhi karsakta tha) , the stuff he did/said when he decided to marry Ruhi, the number of tears Abhira has shed, the loneliness and even physical pain, hunger etc she has faced and finally the revelation of the past happening in the most cruel way- all that is the reason she is unable to take a leap of faith.
Pyaar kaafi nahi hai yeh toh Abhira bhi bolti hai.
There have been way too many times he let her down and its difficult to trust now.
She wants to trust him. She wants to be his wife . She wants a happy together forever. She really does.
But everyday something happens to break her.
Even now she's at the cusp of giving in and she's gonna see him back to running behind Ruhi out of guilt.
Its never ending. Her heartache, discomfort and pain is unending.
She keeps on forgiving, forgetting, moving on. She never holds grudges. But people keep taking her for granted. Not just Armaan. Every single person treats her badly or is indifferent, then flips into pro Abhira, then flips back again🙄. Even Madhav , chorus gang, chachi have been indifferent/silent/negligent many times when Abhira needed them.
Its really gonna be sad to watch her look jealous and hurt by Ar-Ruhi interactions even now when she has clearly told Ar that she's uncomfortable with Ruhi and would like him to maintain boundaries. Aur kitna clearly bolein ?!
Kyun dena hai hanky, paani Ruhi ko jab uske ghar ke 3 log aur hai vahaan?! Kyun khaana hai uske saath lunch?
Until he learns the meaning of boundaries and also manages to actually enforce it when Ruhi crosses it, he is never gonna be able to gain Abhiras trust.
Sirf badi badi baatein nahi chahiye, she needs to see him do the little things that show her that he really knows what it means to enforce boundaries with an ex.
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