I am comparing them only for their possessiveness for armaan. Both are equally possessive and madly in love with armaan. That's it. Peas of same pod is not what I meant.
Agreed with you on thing that she would be the happiest when she would come to know about their pending divorce..
She loves armaan way more,I don't think armaan loves her or would ever,from his side its more of protection and habitual feelings as they remained together for 10 months.
And if abhira wouldn't have come he would have happily moved on with ruhi and with time would have fallem for her as clearly from writer's pov ruhi suit more as his life partner and blend with his family..
She knlws tactics of living in joint family by manipulating or twisting words sometimes sugar coating sometimes straight forward as well as know to set boundaries if husband is not able to do so which is required in case of men like armaan who are pendulums without their strong stand...
As well as armaan respects her as well as very comfortable with her and not to forget he was also attracted to her once a time although he maybe towards abhira now but thats how men are...NO???
So yes writer's did a very dubious job here as in other shows mostly FL is portrayed as perfect match for family but here it is ruhi...
And both ru and ab are same in their love for armaan....
But But but..
Ruhi is manipulative,she did many things which unethical as well as im-moral for her love where as abhira keeps her heartbreak to herself and ready to let go armaan as long as he himself calls her than surely she will go running his arms..
So saying Abhira and ruhi are peas of same pod is wrong..
They match in their obsession for armaan but not in execution of that obsession,ruhi's execution was more on selfish and evil.side while ab's more on selfless and sacrificial side...
@bold : Hero ko hamesha heroine se he pyar hota hai ITV mai so armaan ki ruhi ke sath 100% compatibility ho and abhira se 0% compatibility ho fir bhi pyar abhira se he hona hai. Yeh bottom line hota hai ITV ka. 0% compatibility ko yeh log opposite attracts ka tag dete hai. Real life mai opposites kitna bhi attract ho le, 0% compatibility mai koi rishta tikta nahi hai.
Regarding abhira' sa sacrificial side, kaun sa sacrifice? madhav vidya wala? abhira woh sacrifice na karti toh bhi vidya dadi ke ek order par colorful saree pehen kar aa he jati madhav ke liya. Abhira is literally bewkoof jisko lagta hai madhav vidya uske sacrifice ki wajah se sath hai ek ghar mai
Bewkoofi and sacrifce mai bahot fark hota hai. Sacrifice ki zarurat tab padti hai jab bina apke action ke samnewale ka kuch nahi hona. Yaha toh clear tha abhira kuch nahi karti toh bhi vidya-madhav ka koi divorce nahi honewala tha ya dadi kisi ko ghar se out nahi hone deti
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