Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 30th May 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 32

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Abhira is just a 22 yrs old girl who never lived in a big family , who lost her only family her mamma and she unwillingly entered into poddar’s house , she always craved for a big family but here she only got humiliations,insults ,false blames and accusations ,even her parents were not spared. Did anyone of those so called elders from the poddar’s try to understand her pain or even cared if she ate or not ? Did they allow her to sit on the dining table along with them ? But still she tried to adjust ,made breakfast for all and she changed herself a lot to to fit into that house . she always stood for the right things against Dadi or anyone, who doesn’t allow their daughters and DIL’s to go out and work? ,they say age doesn’t make anyone wise ,that’s exactly who egoistic KV is, for her ego is more important to her than her family and their happiness.

We are all humans and no one is perfect,so is Abhira she have own flaws but she is way much better than anyone else in the show.

Why should she allow that man to take her side? Did she take a stand for her when his family is accusing her for deal marriage as if he has nothing to do with the deal? She can talk for herself, and did we not see how that Ruhi being shameless and hypocrite talking how not to come into their personal space without knocking ?? I don’t see any ego there.
Even that sindoor seen when he can remove the mangalsutra what’s his problem to remove sindoor ?? He acted spineless so I don’t see anything wrong or ego there too. If he stood for her and didn’t remove the mangalsutra then I would have felt Abhira is egoistic for asking about sindoor.

this isn’t relevant to the post, but how is Armaan’s room “Ruhi’s personal space”? But her giving lecture about personal space comes from her own experience of standing and lurking outside other couples’ rooms

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

There was 1 bts iv of the actor playing MG.. He said sthg like Abhira is the FL we all love, but inquilab is not always the right thing.. When I wrote earlier that Ab is well written but she also has her flaws, this is what I meant.. She is way better than all other characters, but I hope her journey shown also includes learning some of these life lessons

this is Abhiras journey..and her growth..and she will Learn….after this whole track is over,.they need to show us the change in her…because fact is in life we all grow and change,,our thought processes..beliefs, behavior..etc also change and grow as we do and experience life. Life experience is the biggest teacher…

Originally posted by: Naya_31

this isn’t relevant to the post, but how is Armaan’s room “Ruhi’s personal space”? But her giving lecture about personal space comes from her own experience of standing and lurking outside other couples’ rooms

and the wedding hasn’t even happened yet and armaans room has become her room already…fact is Bhabi was desperate with lust for her jeth that she can’t wait to get into her jeths bedroom and bed 🤮

You know all 3 competing shows have similar tracks but the major difference is that the other 2 third angles are innocent women who were actually cheated by the heroine and heros marriage..the heroine took their places..but here this disgraceful Bhabhi is a conniving vamp who destroyed her husbands life.sent him to his death.,lusted after his brother..broke up his brothers marriage and grabbed his wife’s place. Here in rishta…the third angle is stealing the heroines place.. so here Ruhi has to fall hard and big..she’s no innocent party..so Ruhi getting dumped at the mandap will be well deserved 😈.. but the other 2 third angles don’t deserve it… like Ruhi does..

Originally posted by: libran90

Akshara and Abhira did live independently, I agree. Lekin har koi sab kuch sikha to nahi sakhta. Akshara ne socha hi nahi ki uska time with Abhira would be shortlived. So usko bhi waqt nahi mila.

And lets not keep blaming Abhira. Poddars are responsible for their behavior. Saari expectation sirf ke ladki se, aur khud koi effort mat dalo, ye total bakwas hai. They could have been more accommodating to Abhira, but woh bhi ussi mentality ke hai ki bahu ko nibhana hoga, hum apna taur tareeka nahi badlenge. No wonder ladkiyan aajkal shaadi se katrati hai. Kyunki saare expectation ladki se hi hote hai. Abhira ek to was in a position where she could not trust Armaan or his family. And jab karne lagi to unhone bhi dikha diya ki Abhira ka darr bhi jaayaz tha.

Main manti hu ki Abhira ke growth ki kaafi zarurat hai, lekin unwarranted badtameezi jhelni ki bhi koi zarurat nahi.

poddars are gobars with regressive dadi. no need to talk of them. And she wants all under her legs. Why we speak of abhira is she has to learn all this about life and go settle ahead. She is the main in story. It will be her learning process in story through poddars.if they want poddars to change dadi could have accepted abhira step by step slowly. When that side is unable to accept change this side is not needed. And what if they show another family for abhira who are modern and adjusting accepting. I want that type of family always which is only in reel but that also they show in reality all these characters in poddars remind us one or other in our families. Well said that age is not suitable for shadi as it suits settled in job first. I prefer 25 as starting age for marrying as till then they study settle in career growth slowly and understand the outside World. There is no wrong in teaching kids. But when it comes in reality they need to think wisely orelse backfire hojayega.

Ar se sare friends pee rahe hai,ar toh drink nahi karti.Toh woh chapri log ar ke friends kaise bane?Writers are showing gadha ar sharif in that chapri friend gang.Kuch bhi nonsense dekhate hai.

Originally posted by: libran90

Akshara and Abhira did live independently, I agree. Lekin har koi sab kuch sikha to nahi sakhta. Akshara ne socha hi nahi ki uska time with Abhira would be shortlived. So usko bhi waqt nahi mila.

And lets not keep blaming Abhira. Poddars are responsible for their behavior. Saari expectation sirf ke ladki se, aur khud koi effort mat dalo, ye total bakwas hai. They could have been more accommodating to Abhira, but woh bhi ussi mentality ke hai ki bahu ko nibhana hoga, hum apna taur tareeka nahi badlenge. No wonder ladkiyan aajkal shaadi se katrati hai. Kyunki saare expectation ladki se hi hote hai. Abhira ek to was in a position where she could not trust Armaan or his family. And jab karne lagi to unhone bhi dikha diya ki Abhira ka darr bhi jaayaz tha.

Main manti hu ki Abhira ke growth ki kaafi zarurat hai, lekin unwarranted badtameezi jhelni ki bhi koi zarurat nahi.

in real life..every home is run differently..and when you marry and live in your in laws home..you need to be taught how that house is run..what are their rules and regulations etc..because every home does have it…So the appropriate thing would have been for vidya to teach abhira all of this..but the podaars never bothered with it because they never fully accepted abhira from the beginning..if they taught her and showed her some love and respect..she would have not been so defensive and argumentative…but they also just criticized her instead of teaching her.

Originally posted by: HappySharma

She lost due to her words and actions... seriously what were they???

Who valued her there ? Is this how people VALUE others ? Like akkad thodenge blah blah ?

I think we both watch show from different perspectives.. so there’s no point in discussing .. let’s just go with the flow!

Originally posted by: Susi26

I think we both watch show from different perspectives.. so there’s no point in discussing .. let’s just go with the flow!

Okay peace ✌️

Originally posted by: Indira1211

You know all 3 competing shows have similar tracks but the major difference is that the other 2 third angles are innocent women who were actually cheated by the heroine and heros marriage..the heroine took their places..but here this disgraceful Bhabhi is a conniving vamp who destroyed her husbands life.sent him to his death.,lusted after his brother..broke up his brothers marriage and grabbed his wife’s place. Here in rishta…the third angle is stealing the heroines place.. so here Ruhi has to fall hard and big..she’s no innocent party..so Ruhi getting dumped at the mandap will be well deserved 😈.. but the other 2 third angles don’t deserve it… like Ruhi does..

Rooh-i maybe vile, but the Bhaddaars gave her leeway to forward her agenda.

Parakh nahi hai inn logo ko kisi ki bhi.

Why should Bhaddaars be let off so easy bro?? Unko bhi sehne do Rooh-i ko. Pata chal jayega kaun kya hai. Jab Rooh-i magarmach ke aansun bahake Armaan ko manipulate karke unke khilaaf khada karegi, tab pata chalega woh "kitni achchi, kitni bholi hai".

Aur kyun Armaan chod ke jaaye usko mandap pe. Vaada boy hai na. To Abhira ke patni rahne dauran jo zaleel vaade kiye, woh ab nibhaye.

Insaaf yahi hai, ki Bhaddaars dekhe kya ho sakta tha aur kya mila hai. Bhaddaars ko pata chalna chahiye ki unhone kya khoya hai.

Abhira ke saath insaaf ye hai ki usko uski udaan mile, aur saath dene ke liye layak log.