Originally posted by: Solitudelover
In yesterday Ruhi vs Ab episode, Ar had started to defend and Ab cut him off saying you need not talk from my side and i will handle. Some of Ab's actions/ words can be considered egoistic/ self respect depending on how you want to view it.. It is a very thin line that separates the two and she has often treaded on either side of the line. While calling out elders like Kv for her egoistic words/ actions, Ab has also acted out of ego to prove a point/ have the last word. Even the controversial MS/ Sindoor scene also is also on this thin line. Ab asking Ar to wipe out sindoor multiple times knowing very well he was not comfortable can be considered as self respect for some/ but also as an ego point to get the last word for some others.
Abhira is just a 22 yrs old girl who never lived in a big family , who lost her only family her mamma and she unwillingly entered into poddar’s house , she always craved for a big family but here she only got humiliations,insults ,false blames and accusations ,even her parents were not spared. Did anyone of those so called elders from the poddar’s try to understand her pain or even cared if she ate or not ? Did they allow her to sit on the dining table along with them ? But still she tried to adjust ,made breakfast for all and she changed herself a lot to to fit into that house . she always stood for the right things against Dadi or anyone, who doesn’t allow their daughters and DIL’s to go out and work? ,they say age doesn’t make anyone wise ,that’s exactly who egoistic KV is, for her ego is more important to her than her family and their happiness.
We are all humans and no one is perfect,so is Abhira she have own flaws but she is way much better than anyone else in the show.
Why should she allow that man to take her side? Did he take stand for her when his family is accusing her for deal marriage as if he has nothing to do with the deal? She can talk for herself, and did we not see how that Ruhi being shameless and hypocrite talking how not to come into their personal space without knocking ?? I don’t see any ego there.
Even that sindoor seen when he can remove the mangalsutra what’s his problem to remove sindoor ?? He acted spineless so I don’t see anything wrong or ego there too. If he stood for her and didn’t remove the mangalsutra then I would have felt Abhira is egoistic for asking about sindoor.
Edited by Chaitu.V - 5 months ago
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