Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 03rd May 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 50

Originally posted by: Randomlurker

I have my doubts about Armaan's mom and Madhav's backstory with Vidya. TBH, I find Vidya's character very much like Ruhi; they both lack self-respect and love playing the victim. I'm not disagreeing that Vidya got wronged by Madhav and Kaveri too. When they hid that Madhav was already married once and a father of a child, what I don't understand is why Vidya stayed even after knowing the truth about Madhav's first wife and knowing about Armaan. Was she already pregnant with Rohit at that time, or had he already been born, and Kaveri manipulated her not to go? I clearly remember early epi Dadisa said Armaan's mom trapped Madhav and she did everything to separate them, even got him married to Vidya, but Armaan's mom was shameless that she didn't break her relationship with Madhav... I think there are so many missing pieces of Armaan's mom's backstory that the makers still haven't cleared up yet

Did they clear this in the episode? I skip a lot of Vidya's nonsense because I cannot stand her screeching like a nibbi who got ditched by her crush. Unless they clearly state that Madhav hid anout his first wife and child from Vidya, I'm not going to believe it. Because Vidya is fully capable of playing the victim and pushing her wrongdoings on others.

I do have some sympathy for Vidyas insecurities and her state. She didn't deserve to be the second woman and its really big hearted of her to accept Armaan. But the issue is that she's undecided about what she wants. If she's resigned herself to only being bahu and mother and not ever wanting more from Madhav, thats fine. But she cant keep on bringing up the first woman who is gone. If she feels Madhav isnt sincere and keeps breaking her heart she has only 2 options - leave the house or just continue the facade.

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

I find Kaveri Poddar to be a complete failure as matriarch of the family. That

woman lives a window dressing life, everything looks great from the outside

then when you go inside you see all the dirt. Armaan says dadisa is senior so

she always right. How did she allow her own daughter to stay in such a toxic relationship

and she doesn't know what's happening. How you got Vidya married to your son but never

tried to help heal their wounds but help in taunting your son, keeping him from having

a relationship from his wife. Dadisa don't like the mirror, cause her enemy is truth

in any family jo dikhta hi woh sahi nahi hi. The head of family gets all respect in society because they have a facade for outside world. If you see in the real problems will be seen. Who dares to say it out openly as every house has similar setup. I have a big family from both sides so i can easily connect to these characters. Until marriage everything is bookish and feels like a simple thing. Real life starts then only . If you fight with your parents Or siblings they will excuse or understand you as you are blood related. Why will others accept you as its what you are . Sasural is bonds formed through heart understanding and acceptance. So none will excuse easily. Its for lifetime to maintain the relations.Because seeing you your next generation will understand them and behave accordingly. Sorry for my rant.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

I do have some sympathy for Vidyas insecurities and her state. She didn't deserve to be the second woman and its really big hearted of her to accept Armaan. But the issue is that she's undecided about what she wants. If she's resigned herself to only being bahu and mother and not ever wanting more from Madhav, thats fine. But she cant keep on bringing up the first woman who is gone. If she feels Madhav isnt sincere and keeps breaking her heart she has only 2 options - leave the house or just continue the facade.

This is why I want them to actually clear what happened between Vidya, Madhav and his first wife. If Madhav was a widower when he married Vidya, then she's just being absurd with her insecurities. Because there are many people who remarry and their spouses don't go around acting like Vidya. If she was cheated by Madhav, then she could have walked away. She chose to stay and he takes all the effort to make the relationship work. But this woman cannot look past his first wife. Agar itni hi problem thi toh either leave or just shut up. However, this woman wants to have her cake and eat it too. And I don't feel she accepted Armaan. Instead, he was a part of her husband's past she cannot get rid off. So she raised the child. But even then, she did manage to convey that he can never be her own and is a charity case she took up. I might be sounding very cynical. But after seeing other step-parent/child bonding in this very show, Vidya comes across as very fake.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Did they clear this in the episode? I skip a lot of Vidya's nonsense because I cannot stand her screeching like a nibbi who got ditched by her crush. Unless they clearly state that Madhav hid anout his first wife and child from Vidya, I'm not going to believe it. Because Vidya is fully capable of playing the victim and pushing her wrongdoings on others.

She keeps taunting him for hiding things , she doesn’t know Madhav is married and had a kid with her , she was kept in dark by both her fav maa sa and Madhav. She is not wrong in feeling cheated , also she needs to be appreciated for accepting Armaan though she differentiated btwn both the kids which is fine too ,not everyone can love others kids as their own esp when it’s her husband’s 1st wife’s kid she only accepted Armaan after Abhira came but i still doubt she will disown him anytime if things are not in her favour just like how Ruhi flops .But then why stay with that man who cheated u ? Or accept the reality and mend ur relationship with him when he is trying hard to fix things . She is jealous of a dead person’s photo and ruining things further in their relationship. She is complicating everything for her and Madhav, now she will start hating Abhira because she thinks Madhav leaving her for Abhira and relating Abhira to Armaan’s mom. She is dumbo and Ruhi will manipulate her more.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Madhav toh matlab puri nautanki hai. Apni first wife/ex-wife/lover jo bhi thi uski death ke baad uske bete ho poddar house mai sabse pehle laya he kyu? Akele raise kar leta apne bete ko kahi dusri city mai. Yaha poddar house mai la kar bacche ko ehsaan ke niche palne chod diya. Kya bekar admi hai!!! Uper se agar pressure mai vidya se shaddi kari toh shaddi ke baad vidya se baccha bhi kyon kiya??? Aise toh bada usool wala banta firta hai.

Agar madhav jo bann raha hai woh hota toh apne bete armaan ko uski maa ki death ke baad akele kahi raise karta jaise Sai ke father ne ghum mai sai ko raise kya tha like single father. Poddar house mai bacche ko dusro ke ehsaan ka boj uthane nahi deta.

Dushmukh urf hasmukh he hai yeh admi !

madhav is never grateful to what vidya did to arman as a step mom but accepted him as own mother raised him. Ar is very good man pleasing all wants everyone happiness. Why cant madhav credit vidya for that Instead giving divorce for a just come bahu . He is also a ziddi man who doesn't care relations does his manmani and returns home when his hands are empty it seems.Dadi once said to vidya , i have given madhav freedom and because of that your life is this miserable.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

I do have some sympathy for Vidyas insecurities and her state. She didn't deserve to be the second woman and its really big hearted of her to accept Armaan. But the issue is that she's undecided about what she wants. If she's resigned herself to only being bahu and mother and not ever wanting more from Madhav, thats fine. But she cant keep on bringing up the first woman who is gone. If she feels Madhav isnt sincere and keeps breaking her heart she has only 2 options - leave the house or just continue the facade.

Vidya at times behaves like madhav is still in contact with armaan's mom & cheating on vidya, lol

What is this about some RP interview where he says that they won’t disappoint fans ? I mean the actors can’t be held responsible with tracks being changed overnight but just curious ?

I think its realistic that she can never really love Armaan as much as she loves her biological child Rohit. She does care for Armaan a lot too but its been shown that she was also mute all her life and let Kaveri do her puppeteering.

She recently found her voice due to Abhira and was genuinely caring for them too but suddenly she's flipped too much. I don't understand why she feels SO betrayed by deal shaadi revelation. Aisa kya hogaya hai that she can't pause and recall Abhiras state when this deal shaadi happened and why she's so mad at Madhav for caring about Abhira and saying Abhira made Armaan smile. Thats true. She knows it. She can't deny all the things Abhira did.

If her issue is with Madhav leading her on and betraying her with doing something insensitive every time she thinks they are moving forward as spouses to emotional intimacy phase- why is that on Armaan and Abhira?! If Madhav is using Abhira as a bait to dump her because he's always wanted to do that- then she should let him go . Where's her self respect?!

She was actually the only one who was sympathetic to Abhira in charu matter. But now she's so pissed for no real reason

They can show like Madhav and Ar's mother were separated coz of Dadi - Dada's planning and meanwhile Madhav got married to Vidya and when at Ar's birth his mom died, 'Madhav got to know & he tried raising Ar for 5-6 years but eventually brought Ar to PH' OR 'AR was raised in orphanage or by someone else and Madhav brought him to PH when he got to know few years late.'

Except last season none of the fil was a cheater. So they can give clean chit to madhav, vidya and Ar's mother as well.