Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 03rd May 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 49

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

I find Kaveri Poddar to be a complete failure as matriarch of the family. That

woman lives a window dressing life, everything looks great from the outside

then when you go inside you see all the dirt. Armaan says dadisa is senior so

she always right. How did she allow her own daughter to stay in such a toxic relationship

and she doesn't know what's happening. How you got Vidya married to your son but never

tried to help heal their wounds but help in taunting your son, keeping him from having

a relationship from his wife. Dadisa don't like the mirror, cause her enemy is truth

Yeh sach jo ap ne likkha hai woh armaan ,vidya , manisha sab ke sab bahot acche se jante hai ki dadi kaisi hai lekin fir bhi unka choice yeh hai ki unko har haal mai dadi ke sath dadi ka bann kar he rehna hai. Vidya/armaan dono ko dadi/family above everything/everyone he rakhna hai. As I said aise bahot log duniya mai hote hai and aise life partner ke sath agar ap tactfully reh sakte ho toh raho otherwise apni personality ke hisab se move on to next one.

Isme agar ap moohfutt ho kar dadi ko aina dikhaoge toh ap ka he energy/time sab kuch waste hoga. Better to deal with her tactfully or leave the place where she lives.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

@bold : woh isilye kyunki personally usko dadi ki chamchi bann kar life spend karne mai zyada fayda nazar aya hoga kyunki dadi ne already madhav ko sideline kar diya tha so vidya ko toh kuch karna he nahi pada. Uper se madhav ne uske sath bhi ek baccha paida kiya tha jisko dadi price ka treatment de rahi thi so woh kyun jati ghar chod kar!! Vidya ke maayke mai ya dusri shaddi kar lene se uske bete rohit ko aisa prince treatment milne ki koi guarantee thodi na thi!!

Vidya ka poddar house mai pade rehna samaj aata hai lekin madhav ka itne saal poddar house mai pade rehna banta he nahi tha kyunki uska toh separate income bhi aata hai being police officer. Isse acha police headquater mai akela reh kar armaan ko raise karta toh baccha dusro ke ehsaan ke boj ke niche raise nahi hota.

Ahar madhav ghar se chala jata hai toh sab ka bhala he hoga. Pata nahi kyun usko rokne mai itna energy daal rahe hai sab.

Armaan was attached to the family .. dadi Vidya had accepted him and he also had another son Rohit .. remember.. he did love Rohit too

I think they'll follow typical itv route by showing Ar realising his feelings for Ab and can even think of ending the contract and Ab will remember her love for him again, they'll live in their happy bubble till completion of the year ending and then boom soulmate truth out and Ab ending the marriage by following the previous contract.

Rohit can come in between and they can show random chaos too.

Originally posted by: Aadi04

Armaan was attached to the family .. dadi Vidya had accepted him and he also had another son Rohit .. remember.. he did love Rohit too

Pehli baat toh armaan ko family se tab attachment hui jab madhav usko mother ki death ke baad ghar le kar aya! Kyon le kar aya poddar house? Madhav ko pata tha na ki uski maa armaan ki maa se nafrat karti hai, uski second wife bhi armaan ki maa ko bardasht nahi kar sakti hai fir iss bacche ko waha sabke ehsaan ke boj niche kyun daala? Akela bhi raise kar sakta tha na?

Dusri baat jab vidya se itne problems the toh vidya se baccha kyu paida kiya? Chalo vidya se baccha paida kiya toh bhi yeh kaise dekha bhool gaya ki armaan poddar house mai dusro ke ehsaan niche raise ho raha ho aisa atmosphere hai toh bachpan mai he strict action kyun nahi liya?

Jaise abhi ghar chod kar jane ki baat kar raha hai waise barso pehle armaan ko kisi alag house mai raise karna chaiye tha toh yeh baccha aise dadi and step mother ki ehsaan niche raise nahi hota.

Ab armaan ko kosne ka kya fayda ki tum dadi and step mother ko priority dete ho, aise ho, waise ho!!!! Armaan ko bachpan se yeh sab madhav ne he toh diya hai.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

No she didn't look interested in going back.

She obviously is freshly getting over heartbreak and craves , misses the concern, compassion, warmth Armaan has always given her because thats what made her fall in love. Now that its only anger he gives- she's hurt. But she's clearly shown to be telling herself to snap out of it and accept reality.

She refused outright to go back and gave him tashan, taana until he mentioned Madhav wanting to leave. He said i was guilty that my parents weren't close due to my existence and now I will be unable to do anything to keep them together. He requests she returns for them. That struck a chord and then she reads mom ki diary too which makes her emotional and thats why she will return.

Did u watch the bts where the dupatta gets stuck in Ar’s button. It was before the puppet topic came up. When Ar wanted to take her back home she was hopeful that Ar might have some feelings for her but that was soon shattered. I just found a tellychakkar video too right now where the voiceover also stressed on that. But anyways my inference is not from the. voiceover but from the bts scenes.

I don't think it's interest in going back but just a softening of expression when he speaks in a soft civil tone after only yelling all this time. She misses his affectionate gestures. She's fresh from heartbreak afterall.

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

I find Kaveri Poddar to be a complete failure as matriarch of the family. That

woman lives a window dressing life, everything looks great from the outside

then when you go inside you see all the dirt. Armaan says dadisa is senior so

she always right. How did she allow her own daughter to stay in such a toxic relationship

and she doesn't know what's happening. How you got Vidya married to your son but never

tried to help heal their wounds but help in taunting your son, keeping him from having

a relationship from his wife. Dadisa don't like the mirror, cause her enemy is truth

only because of Kaveri Poddar Madhav and Vidya is in love less marriage ,and she is the reason Armaan ia being treated as an outsider ,it’s all because of her ego and money. She rejected Armaan’s mom just because she is poor ,she cheated Vidya of course Madhav is equally wrong in not disclosing about his 1st marriage and kid but as an elder and the person who pushed them both into that relationship is more responsible.

Vidya should have left him as soon as she got to know the truth but she chose to stay there to enjoy the spl treatment she and her son is getting from her fav maasa , IK it’s not easy for any women to come out of the marriage and live alone or marry someone else but it’s always better to come out of the love less marriage rather than crying and dying every day or try to mend the relationship with the partner but here Madhav always tried to fix things but this women always kept taunting him ruining it further so no point she stay with him making his life a hell. She should have left the house , and nothing wrong in bringing Armaan into that house what’s his mistake to stay alone when he have such big family ? It’s their mistake to not able to accept a kid who is their own blood ,Madhav married Armaan’s mom and she is his 1st wife so he is legally elder son of that house.

Madhav’s mistake was hiding his 1st marriage and then letting his Ma and wife manipulate Armaan and making him feel he is indebted to that house but looks like this pendulum never cared about his papa.

I have my doubts about Armaan's mom and Madhav's backstory with Vidya. TBH, I find Vidya's character very much like Ruhi; they both lack self-respect and love playing the victim. I'm not disagreeing that Vidya got wronged by Madhav and Kaveri too. When they hid that Madhav was already married once and a father of a child, what I don't understand is why Vidya stayed even after knowing the truth about Madhav's first wife and knowing about Armaan. Was she already pregnant with Rohit at that time, or had he already been born, and Kaveri manipulated her not to go? I clearly remember early epi Dadisa said Armaan's mom trapped Madhav and she did everything to separate them, even got him married to Vidya, but Armaan's mom was shameless that she didn't break her relationship with Madhav... I think there are so many missing pieces of Armaan's mom's backstory that the makers still haven't cleared up yet

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

only because of Kaveri Poddar Madhav and Vidya is in love less marriage ,and she is the reason Armaan ia being treated as an outsider ,it’s all because of her ego and money. She rejected Armaan’s mom just because she is poor ,she cheated Vidya of course Madhav is equally wrong in not disclosing about his 1st marriage and kid but as an elder and the person who pushed them both into that relationship is more responsible.

Vidya should have left him as soon as she got to know the truth but she chose to stay there to enjoy the spl treatment she and her son is getting from her fav maasa , IK it’s not easy for any women to come out of the marriage and live alone or marry someone else but it’s always better to come out of the love less marriage rather than crying and dying every day or try to mend the relationship with the partner but here Madhav always tried to fix things but this women always kept taunting him ruining it further so no point she stay with him making his life a hell. She should have left the house , and nothing wrong in bringing Armaan into that house what’s his mistake to stay alone when he have such big family ? It’s their mistake to not able to accept a kid who is their own blood ,Madhav married Armaan’s mom and she is his 1st wife so he is legally elder son of that house.

I have no sympathy for Vidya. She chose this life for herself. And she's the one making things difficult for herself. Madhav is ready to mend this relationship and do anything for that. Now he cannot go back in time and reverse things. Only thing he can do is repent and make efforts to salvage this relationship. And he's doing that. Vidya's problem is, Madhav loved another woman with his whole heart and Armaan is the symbol of that love. She wants to compete with a dead woman. And since she can't harm her, she's taking out all the frustration on Madhav and Armaan. We can argue that she raised Armaan. But look at the damage she and her MaaSa did to his psyche. It is ingrained in his mind that he's a burden for Poddars and they are doing some sort of ehsaan on him. And this was fed by these two women and no one else. Kaveri Poddar has done nothing but ruin all her kids lives. First she destroyed Madhav's life by not accepting his wife and child and forcing Vidya on him. Then she ruined Kajal's life by turning a blind eye to Sanjay's behavior because he handles the firm. And not to forget Manoj.. the constant comparison with the SIL and putting him down at every given chance. Now she's doing the same with her grandchildren. Truth is, Kaveri Poddar only cares about what she wants. Her ego is more important to her than her family, her kids and her grandkids.

Originally posted by: Randomlurker

I have my doubts about Armaan's mom and Madhav's backstory with Vidya. TBH, I find Vidya's character very much like Ruhi; they both lack self-respect and love playing the victim. I'm not disagreeing that Vidya got wronged by Madhav and Kaveri too. When they hid that Madhav was already married once and a father of a child, what I don't understand is why Vidya stayed even after knowing the truth about Madhav's first wife and knowing about Armaan. Was she already pregnant with Rohit at that time, or had he already been born, and Kaveri manipulated her not to go? I clearly remember early epi Dadisa said Armaan's mom trapped Madhav and she did everything to separate them, even got him married to Vidya, but Armaan's mom was shameless that she didn't break her relationship with Madhav... I think there are so many missing pieces of Armaan's mom's backstory that the makers still haven't cleared up yet

I think Vidya was already mother to Rohit when madhav introduced arman to her. Because in the flashbacks when arman entered the house and when he was shown playing with Rohit, he looked the same age in both fb's