Originally posted by: austen-eliot
Yes indeed.. Slapping is definitely what can be expected from a vulgar road rowdy like Abhimanyu..he already almost raised his hand on his father..so next after he slaps his saali for whatever reason, he will not hesitate to slap his wife when he is provoked to that point..
So Aarohi is getting what she deserves.. Keeping the question of whether that is true or not aside, I want to know when Abhimanyu will get what he deserves.. which is to be horse-whipped and run out of town..for his violence against random people on the road, for his depravity against his father who spent his earnings on him and made his way to achieving all his childhood dreams easy and who has been good to him always whatever his relation with his wife, for his selfishness and insensitivity towards his mother who is constantly torn between husband and son and who despite all the love and support she has poured on her son has still to ask his forgiveness for once considering her husband's honor..why couldn't that rowdy request his father again and again a few times to attend his tilak instead of just asking once and when he refused.. even though he did give his blessings.. he just told him to go to hell, and then expected the father's wife to meekly follow the son out after he had insulted her husband..for proposing marriage to the sister of the girl he loved bcz she rejected him and then two-timing between sisters, Aarohi was wrong to accept the indecent proposal..then what was Abhimanyu for making that proposal to a girl like her who he hates so much and doesn't respect at all.. knowingly to hurt Akshu and then rubbing salt in her wounds with all that blow hot, blow cold behavior, for never at any time caring two hoots for his father's wishes, for his insensitivity and selfishness against the brother Neil who has made it his life's work to be Abhimanyu's handyman..he couldn't even leave the poor fellow to sit peacefully and eat after breaking his fast that he had kept for his brother's happiness and let him be pampered for a little while by his bhabhi.. He had to come and drive him away so he could carry on some cheap romance with his akshu. And he should be driven out of town after his medical license being abrogated for his criminal negligence of a patient who had just undergone vocal chords surgery by subjecting her to extreme stress and causing her to shout and cry when even the sutures hadn't been removed, for his negligence against an elderly patient who was at risk of heart attack by again subjecting him to undue stress and finally bringing on the seizure.. These are only some of the sins of the great Abhimanyu Birla for which he deserves punishment too.
All the people who see this caricature as a hero and superhero even don't seem to understand the meaning of the word HERO. A hero has to first and foremost be a good human being. He should care for all men and women regardless of whether they are good or bad people. He should have compassion for even those who commit wrong and try to help them to be better people, not push them even more into the mire of their weaknesses and wrongdoing. He should have certain principles to which he sticks even against provocation. If he becomes immoral with people who behave wrongly and keeps his good behavior only for those he wants to impress, then that man is an opportunist, not a hero. If just falling in love and becoming a desparado behind that person is the only criterion for a hero, any common criminal, murderer, swindler who has a love interest can be termed a hero.
I don't think Abhimanyu behaviour warrants a ROWDY tag. He is right in showing Arohi her right place and opposing PB when he's being disrespectful to the people he cares, agree that Abhimanyu's emotional outburst during the wedding talk is uncalled for.
Also let's get this clear he alone is not responsible for the entire mess, the root cause being the muteness of Akshara. Arohi has taken akshara's kindness for granted and arohi despite being a doctor, with awareness of her condition tries to manipulate Akshara to cover up for her absence and that too on the day of wedding, arohi is not bothered to take her calls and never bothered about what's going on with Akshara and ironically this very girl attributes her mother's accidental death to Akshara but she cares a damn about akshara's health or post surgery recovery from an accident for which she is responsible.
Coming back to the father PB doesn't have to break things when his son is so excited about finally getting married to his love after so many struggles.
PB has seen Abhimanyu's love for akshara, still he mocks and provokes his son abhi by calling him majnu, making disparaging remarks about akshara his sons lover is not a respected adult behaviour.
Even before this marriage saga, PB comes across as a person who lacks respect for other people's emotions, he is only bothered about his reputation, selfish interests demanding his successful surgeon son to keep working without any break. Trying to postpone his son wedding in lieu of a VIP surgery, all portray him as a self centered individual.
Even during the molestation accusation on his son, the first thing he thinks about is the reputation of his hospital, then losing the license of their esteemed cardiologist and lastly his son reputation getting tarnished all are connected to the same person but his priorities make anybody despise him.
Regarding Abhimanyu's mother its a precarious situation from a female POV she can't leave her husband despite him being the perpetrator and from abhimanyu or those against mental harassment in the name of marriage think manjiri should leave PB and follow Abhimanyu out of BIRLA House. Manjiri herself is a victim of Stockholm syndrome and with a slight rational thinking it's ok to attend her son's tilak without her husband, because for tilak 2.0 when she was ill only PB went to goenkas.
Finally Abhimanyu warning Aarohi I think he should do that, because arohi has no character, values and self respect. Most importantly she is blinded by jealousy to her half-sister, she's a bully who tries to gaslight her half-sister causing panic attacks to akshara. Abhimanyu is well aware of her character because they both think alike and he's slightly ahead of her.
Examples are aplenty about Arohi cheap mindset, she agreed to marry Abhimanyu who is clear about his feelings to akshara and says he will continue to love Akshara forever.
Though she has the riches of Goenkas she is poor on moral values.
Marriage of convenience due to financial constraints is unavoidable but choosing it to win over half-sister I don't know exact name for such people.
Arohi is blinded in jealousy and ignored the warnings from her conscience during the drunken night episode, Abhimanyu never let her sit on his bike whereas he runs to look for Akshara when she's gone missing.
Abhimanyu comes with akshara to the temple and openly defends akshara, but he is never bothered about arohi.
Abhimanyu takes akshara name while selecting their engagement 💍, their engagement is half done because he never had her ring to his right finger, she didn't apply mehendi because she has to run to a surgery. If she is not interested that's different but wanting to have the best wedding without participating shows idhar-udhar behaviour.
Final nail in the coffin is her MD sham exam on the day of wedding and flying away from home for exam shows where marriage lies in her priorities.
Lastly kindness beyond a point seems stupidity which is akshara's forte and I'd appreciate if abhimanyu never joins that club.
So through all the above incidents the character arohi is justified to have her marriage cancelled at the altar. Akshara provided the much needed life support to arohi's alliance, but akshara became helpless when truth came knocking at her door and destiny forced her to breathe life into her real emotions for Abhimanyu.
Edited by Rsrockz - 2 years ago
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