New mamma roshni - Page 2

Originally posted by: Jiss555

Celebration at Khan mansion means a disaster waiting to happen.We dont have to use much logic into it

Maybe aman will tell the family and like anniversary party roshni agreed to take part in the celebration

But what is wrong with roshni celebrating.she always wants to have kids.cant she celebrate for her own happiness. Why bringing aman in between

In my opinion every women should celebrate motherhood.her babies ,her celebration ,her happiness.and she considers his family as hers.so let her celebrate with her family

Aman can be a part after redemption

And disaster translates into bad things for roshni. Which is why redemption should be part of it. But let’s see what’s this time?

Of course every woman should celebrate her pregnancy but when the husband accused her of taking advantage of him and has kept her in the home to please his mum and still distrusts her, I am not sure how any woman can be happy in that scenario? Having a child is a joyous occasion where both parties are happy here with so many issues I wonder?

Sadly aman is at the forefront - his kids too and I hope before this some kind of guilt from aman otherwise I am not sure how this will go.

Originally posted by: vibha28

And disaster translates into bad things for roshni. Which is why redemption should be part of it. But let’s see what’s this time?

Of course every woman should celebrate her pregnancy but when the husband accused her of taking advantage of him and has kept her in the home to please his mum and still distrusts her, I am not sure how any woman can be happy in that scenario? Having a child is a joyous occasion where both parties are happy here with so many issues I wonder?

Sadly aman is at the forefront - his kids too and I hope before this some kind of guilt from aman otherwise I am not sure how this will go.

I am somewhat selfish regarding this I consider my kids as solely mine.That maybe selfish of me but for me husband comes second as I am their primary caretaker 🙄🤔

What aman did was wrong that's what I am trying to say atleast for pregnancy period aman has no say with regard to the kids.i am seeing the kids as roshnis

Hope redemption take place alongside pregnancy. Roshni can do a no of things like refusing to let aman accompany her to hospital or ultrasound. Oh possibility are endless

Originally posted by: Jiss555

I am somewhat selfish regarding this I consider my kids as solely mine.That maybe selfish of me but for me husband comes second as I am their primary caretaker 🙄🤔

What aman did was wrong that's what I am trying to say atleast for pregnancy period aman has no say with regard to the kids.i am seeing the kids as roshnis

Hope redemption take place alongside pregnancy. Roshni can do a no of things like refusing to let aman accompany her to hospital or ultrasound. Oh possibility are endless

No that’s not selfish that’s your opinion and belief. For me my husband is as much a parent as I am. Our kids - I didn’t bring them with me and it’s always us when it comes to kids so I never think as “my” kids. It’s about perception isn’t it?

Yes if we look like that then it’s totally Roshni’s children and her choice but do you think aman will allow that? Without kids he is super possessive and jealous now imagine him with kids? I shudder !!!!

True that would be joy to watch if roshni doesn’t give him permission- if you ask my personal opinion I would want dad to be present in every part of pregnancy and parenting but here I would love to see roshni doing that to him - does that make sense?

I want to see if the makers will do that? Redemption and pregnancy will be brilliant.

Originally posted by: vibha28

No that’s not selfish that’s your opinion and belief. For me my husband is as much a parent as I am. Our kids - I didn’t bring them with me and it’s always us when it comes to kids so I never think as “my” kids. It’s about perception isn’t it?

Yes if we look like that then it’s totally Roshni’s children and her choice but do you think aman will allow that? Without kids he is super possessive and jealous now imagine him with kids? I shudder !!!!

True that would be joy to watch if roshni doesn’t give him permission- if you ask my personal opinion I would want dad to be present in every part of pregnancy and parenting but here I would love to see roshni doing that to him - does that make sense?

I want to see if the makers will do that? Redemption and pregnancy will be brilliant.

me also loved when husband accompanied me but it was rare.His job demands travel all over India.so he was not much present during my pregnancy and totally absent during 2 deliveries.only my parents were with me during the entire journey. In laws was there during delivery but I badly want my hubby to be with me.so that may explain my mentality regarding kids

@ bold true .I agree but just hope roshni will give him a hard time.Ya given amans character he wont give roshni much choice.hope he knows better than to rile a hormone induced pregnant women

Originally posted by: Jiss555

me also loved when husband accompanied me but it was rare.His job demands travel all over India.so he was not much present during my pregnancy and totally absent during 2 deliveries.only my parents were with me during the entire journey. In laws was there during delivery but I badly want my hubby to be with me.so that may explain my mentality regarding kids

@ bold true .I agree but just hope roshni will give him a hard time.Ya given amans character he wont give roshni much choice.hope he knows better than to rile a hormone induced pregnant women

Totally understandable hun and I agree if we look like that then what you say makes sense. In my case at times I think hubby is more a parent than I am as I sometimes focus too much on my job and don’t come home until very late and he manages kids. In fact our first was not well planned but he was over the moon and used to write reminders all over the house lol 😂 so that’s why I always think of co-parents. Perception is the key we can’t take general behaviour and think everyone is the same.

True he better not rile hormonal pregnant woman it’s not in his best interest and he better remember Ayanah can kill the jinn 😂😂😂😂 that’s my problem the choice - it pisses me off when that gets taken away and I hope he is gentle as if he forces her or makes her upset I will be genuinely pissed and blast him - more than I usually do 😉😉

Today Roshni told Aman at Minare- ishq that ki usse chakkar araha hai when Aman asked her is she fine. Chakkar Ana in ITV means sabko pata hai i wonder Roshni ko Aman ko ye barane ki.kya zaroorat thi ki usse chakkar araha hai.

Originally posted by: vibha28

Totally understandable hun and I agree if we look like that then what you say makes sense. In my case at times I think hubby is more a parent than I am as I sometimes focus too much on my job and don’t come home until very late and he manages kids. In fact our first was not well planned but he was over the moon and used to write reminders all over the house lol 😂 so that’s why I always think of co-parents. Perception is the key we can’t take general behaviour and think everyone is the same.

True he better not rile hormonal pregnant woman it’s not in his best interest and he better remember Ayanah can kill the jinn 😂😂😂😂 that’s my problem the choice - it pisses me off when that gets taken away and I hope he is gentle as if he forces her or makes her upset I will be genuinely pissed and blast him - more than I usually do 😉😉

I think roshni will agree to stay given she would also want her kids to be safe.who could provide it better than aman.so forcing to stay is not altogether necessary I hope

I think aman is bending after that intimacy.aman was offering peace and when roshni blasted him in the office (I am with roshni here)his ego got hurt hence the class taunt.its my POV

His ego is so huge it almost reaches the moon.i dont want roshni to relent even if they are forced to cohabit together for babies

Originally posted by: magicalM

Today Roshni told Aman at Minare- ishq that ki usse chakkar araha hai when Aman asked her is she fine. Chakkar Ana in ITV means sabko pata hai i wonder Roshni ko Aman ko ye barane ki.kya zaroorat thi ki usse chakkar araha hai.

Didn’t he ask that are you okay? So she answered but being dizzy doesn’t mean pregnant as only us, Aman, kabir, and those twins know that. She fainted during Parveen hypnotic time too remember the sugahraat track? So I wouldn’t think much of that.

Originally posted by: vibha28

Didn’t he ask that are you okay? So she answered but being dizzy doesn’t mean pregnant as only us, Aman, kabir, and those twins know that. She fainted during Parveen hypnotic time too remember the sugahraat track? So I wouldn’t think much of that.

ya roshni faints all the time remember the first meeting she fainted then also😁😁😁☺️

Originally posted by: Jiss555

I think roshni will agree to stay given she would also want her kids to be safe.who could provide it better than aman.so forcing to stay is not altogether necessary I hope

I think aman is bending after that intimacy.aman was offering peace and when roshni blasted him in the office (I am with roshni here)his ego got hurt hence the class taunt.its my POV

His ego is so huge it almost reaches the moon.i dont want roshni to relent even if they are forced to cohabit together for babies

I think so too and I hope that’s not the redemption. I want roshni to be clear that it’s only for the kids. Nothing more nothing less and let him repent and she can consider then.

Aman has zero self control and his weakness means roshni gets punished. That’s my biggest issue - after the night together when he asked her she answered and he didn’t believe her. There was nothing after that which would have changed his mind. He needs to realise he cannot talk to his wife like that and he has two sisters so he should be very careful how he speaks.

His ego is there but it’s ill placed as on the one hand he kicked roshni out and on the other he still wants her to line for him? I agree I don’t want roshni to relent and want redemption.