Samrat is right

Samrat is right regarding Kashvi doing house work

It is patriarchal mindset that wants girls to do house work while boys enjoy their life after collegte or office at home without doing anything at home

First a girl as daughter is expected to do house work at parents home although shes in school or college studying. While boys the brothers only go to school and college and sit and play or study or go to tution after school/college. Majority daughters not even sent to tutions or coaching because its waste of money still girls get better results in exmas. The reason is they know only these marks can get them out of this prison of patriarchy so irrespective of encourgaed by parents or not they put 10 times more effort than boys as its their life and future

Than a girl marries and goes to husband house again expected to go to work bring salary home but also do all house work. While husband comes home and enjoys watching TV. Very few men help at house work. Maids are only afforded in rich family or upper middle class 80% cannot afford maids in india or USA.

I think Samrat is right Kashvi should not be doing house work but study. Once in a month making kheer or biryani is different matter that all girls do even in richest amabni or bill gates home their wives will cook once a month for hubby and kids. But expecting a girl to do jadu/pocha/cooking/cleaning than study or work is atrocious.

Like that Arjun also married newly why hes not making biryani and giving to kashvi and her parents? Why only girl has to cook after wedding? While husband will sit and enjoy life studying than working this arun? Hes not even good in studies and dumb so Kashvi only will teach him than she only go to work and handle full house work? Nitya has cleverly trapped Kashvi as she knows Kashvi will work hard become big person get lots of money home plus do house work also unlike Mahima plus she has Samrat million dollarss as his heiresss. What a clever idea sirjee?

Who marries at 19 years as in this serial? How Nayan/Samart allowed this marraige at such young age? Even in villages in india girls are marrying at 23-25 years after finishing college and working some time. The major reason you should not marry while studying or working for few years is you need more time to study or give on work in initial years of life establish yourself.

If you are in mom dad house while studying school or college times atleast they will be more helpful and lenient on house work etc during exams they will do all themselves not allow daughter to do house work and only study at exam times. After all no matter what we say a mother and father love is greatest and no mother in law, father in law or husband or relatives etc will help or sacrifice for a daughter like a mother/father will do. Hence girls usually finish all study and marry unlike what Kashvi has done here.

The way samrat brought servants is wrong but his point is so right. Since hes brought up in london hes seen man and woman both do house work there unlike india where 90% times only woman doeshouse work at home. So he may be feeling why only kashvi has to house work than study too so got servants. I know it does not look good. Ideally Samrat should not have allowed Kashvi marraige till 25 plus years finish all study than marry. Till than stay with mom dad house so she can study nicely and not do house work etc. Thats what most educated woman do not marry till after finish college. Even in USA/UK women do more work than men of house but not as much as asia

Nowadays expectation from girls is too much first do house work plus study than work in company 10 hours plus do house work while men only study or work never do anything much at home and watch TV

Before times only men went to work so girl had to do all house work kids work but now its not same.

This serial is getting highly regressive and patriarchal first Sabharwals than Bajwas

Its sending wrong message to society and people who watch these shows

Why are arjun and his 2 cousins sitting and enjoying while Kashvi doing sweets let them help her no or do other house work like cleaning, cutting veggies or mopping

Why only Kashvi should work in house when 3 other young adult boys there sitting simply that means bajwas do not consider men and women equal

Traditionally women do house work yes so no one expect brother or husband or son to do 100% house work but atleast 30 to 40 % they can do when women do 60 to 70%? But expecting a woman to go to college and study too or work 10 hours plus do 90% house work is wrong. Thats what Samrat is trying to say may be but not in right way. Gettng servants for Kashvi is not solution to this patriarchal mindset

Also men who help their wives or sisters at home in cooking or house work at ridiculed by own relatives or neighbors called jhoru ke ghulam and what not? That is not right mindset should change as now even women go to college/work and sharing of house work is a must. I do not find anything wrong in what Samrat saying his views but way he got 4 servants home is wrong.

Ideally arjun/bajwas are not suitable family or hubby for Kashvi Khurana and Samrat family. Rudra and Samrat both are highly progressive in thnking allowing wife all kind of freedom even to stay as other stranger mens wife or widows yet forgive them and take them back as wives. Who in india is so nice as Rudrakh was or Samrat is as husbands? None 0% but expecting arjun and bajwaas to be same is too much high expectation