Ria allowed to work at the hospital

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Finally, today all were happy with Ria and asked her to make a wish.
She asked them if she could go to the hospital till the clinic at home was inaugurated.
Dadi and most importantly Rukmini agreed.

That's good news!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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That's great news, thanks Shanti
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Yeah it was good to see the happy loving moments in the family after so much drama . Even Rukmani was also genuinely happy and was smiling which I loved for a change . She is a nice Woman But Only if she learns to understand other pov's as well and also to give some space to other family members instead of always enforcing her views and decisions on them 😊

I hope Ria gets full fledged permission of going to Hospital as well.
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Originally posted by: trinilisa

That's great news, thanks Shanti


Yes Lisa, it was such a relief to see some change in Rukmini.
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Originally posted by: moniluvskinshuk

Yeah it was good to see the happy loving moments in the family after so much drama . Even Rukmani was also genuinely happy and was smiling which I loved for a change . She is a nice Woman But Only if she learns to understand other pov's as well and also to give some space to other family members instead of always enforcing her views and decisions on them 😊

I hope Ria gets full fledged permission of going to Hospital as well.


Yes she needs to be flexible and allow everyone to be themselves.
Somewhere I feel had dadi not got a heart attack, she would not have changed so easily in her views...anyway all's well now.
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Originally posted by: kmfan_2

Finally, today all were happy with Ria and asked her to make a wish.

She asked them if she could go to the hospital till the clinic at home was inaugurated.
Dadi and most importantly Rukmini agreed.

That's good news!


Actually Ria wanted to work in the hospital. And they wanted her to stop working.

And Abhai suggested "ghar main ek clinic" and they half heartedly "agreed".

And then Ria asked if she could work in the hosptial till they opened "clinic" and Rukmini agreed

But only till Ria opens the clinic at home.

And Ria does not want to open clinic at home.

So (I am scratching my head). How does this solve the problem?

LIke Abhi does this is only for the time being. Not a permanent solution. So...? how does this solve the problem?

Meanwhile everybody is admiring Rukmini's smile.
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Originally posted by: pyaaribehna


Actually Ria wanted to work in the hospital. And they wanted her to stop working.

And Abhai suggested "ghar main ek clinic" and they half heartedly "agreed".

And then Ria asked if she could work in the hosptial till they opened "clinic" and Rukmini agreed

But only till Ria opens the clinic at home.

And Ria does not want to open clinic at home.

So (I am scratching my head). How does this solve the problem?

LIke Abhi does this is only for the time being. Not a permanent solution. So...? how does this solve the problem?

Meanwhile everybody is admiring Rukmini's smile.



Every Person needs some time to change . U can't expect sudden change in anyone especially in a middle aged Person . Right ? So yes This might be a temporary solution But I am sure Rukmani will slowly give Ria permission to go to Hospital as well when she will see Ria balancing between her professional & personal lives nicely . People and their Views / Decisions do get change but only with time . So We can expect in case of Rukmani also .
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Originally posted by: moniluvskinshuk



Every Person needs some time to change . U can't expect sudden change in anyone especially in a middle aged Person . Right ? So yes This might be a temporary solution But I am sure Rukmani will slowly give Ria permission to go to Hospital as well when she will see Ria balancing between her professional & personal lives nicely . People and their Views / Decisions do get change but only with time . So We can expect in case of Rukmani also .


I too hope that Rukmini softens up her attitude towards Ria and understands Ria's goodness.

Now Dadi is after "Nand Kishore" So what is going to happen I am wondering.
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Every Person needs some time to change . U can't expect sudden change in anyone especially in a middle aged Person . Right ? So yes This might be a temporary solution But I am sure Rukmani will slowly give Ria permission to go to Hospital as well when she will see Ria balancing between her professional & personal lives nicely . People and their Views / Decisions do get change but only with time . So We can expect in case of Rukmani also .

I too hope that Rukmini softens up her attitude towards Ria and understands Ria's goodness.

Now Dadi is after "Nand Kishore" So what is going to happen I am wondering.


I am just amazed at these stories about all these rich less educated families and having these palace like houses with servants and what not and then having 18th century thinking. My view points not to offend anyone on the forum but thought I should express them anyways:

A dedicated doctor falling in love with a businessman- first mistake
Marrying without full acceptance from the family- second mistake
Lying onthe real truths- third mistake
Bowing to the elders even if they are wrong- another mistake
Making compromises to your career- mistake again

I have closely seen a few doctors who wanted to have rich husbands and married right after their MBBS to business men, ended up in divorces after a few years. There is no balance ina doctor's professional and family life. Once you become a doctor, you have to depend on family and outside help to create that balance. You have to learn to have dinners packed to go, less sleeping hours, not being available to your family and not being able to make it to family functions many times- these are the facts of a doctor wife/mother.

Either do full justice with the character, or show the character having another kind of career like MBA/CEO etc. where you may adapt to a 9-5 job or work from home, have virtual meetings online and have Tcons for important issues.

I know that if I am told that I should stop going to the hospital and have a clinic at home, I would not agree if I love my job at the hospital as that's where is the real learning and contentment.

Then, on top of that another woman, how many times this happens in real life. And how many times these issues go as far as they show in the TV.

Then a medical doctor on one side and a ghost on the other?? What kind of story line is this?

So much away from the title? Should it not focus on how marriage changes us, how our expectations are changed, how we work through rough patches ( not ghost oriented but day to day), how a child brings more love and responsibility, mid age crisis, and many more. Why even today they have to show a controlling mother in law, century old traditions and the perfect bahu who can never go wrong?




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