abhi is wrong

I find this whole arranged marriage thing to be quite stupid and very immature behavior on the part of Abhi. He is tangling not only himself in a web of lies but ria and her parents as well. Its distasteful him getting ria and her parents to lie to his mom. Its 1 thing him doing it but its another thing him getting them all to lie so that he can get his way and make mummy happy for the moment. He is her son so eventually she has to forgive him but really I wnt blame ruki if she is always distrustful of ria and her parents no1 expects their future in laws to behave in the manner that Abhi is getting them to act. Really in his innocents he isn't realizing the far reaching consequence of his actions. Really beautiful acting by Kinshuk, the dialogues they are all getting makes the situation understandable but unfortunately I just dnt see the logic in what's happening. And really I dnt care whether the show is a few weeks old or if the show will eventually get better this is just my views which I am allowed to have.

Nice view Sandia and I understand what you mean, as it all seems like it's lying to the ones you love for love, and even when I was watching yesterday's episode with Sheetal trying to hide Ria on her way out I wondered why does she have to hide her, they've already seen her pic and accepted her, and I don't think they know she and Abhi know each other. Anyway let's give it a while to see how it enfolds

Sheetal seems to have the habit of hiding all her devars mistakes lol so I guess since she and him do this all the time just hiding stuff so I think hence her reaction to the situation. I will have to watch wednesdays episode when I get a chance coz of sheetal really she and her devar are adorable. And how it will unfold will be that the flower girl has a twin and she marries Abhi lol

Isn't that the whole show and Abhi is all about? The story is about these lil things. Does Boyfriend change after being a husband. (I can't believe this is coming from me since i believe my husband has changed 😆) but on a serious case. Everything was fine between Ria and Abhi till they were bf and gf...because Abhi didn't have that pressure on him about telling his parents about Ria. But at no cost does he want to lose Ria and neither does eh want to hurt his mum's sentiments. and I think before the show started in one of Kinshuk's article he mentioned that Abhi is a person who believes a little lie can do no harm if it's for a good cause. in this case here he is lying to his parents just so that he can get married to Ria. Abhi is kinda a guy who believes in today and not tomorrow. He doesn't think about the future at all that's one thing i noticed. He believes in doing the deed and not worry about the consequences. Yeah, if after marriage Rukhmani finds out about these little lies, she will eventually blame Ria's parents. Ria is aware of this, but Abhi is the kinda guy who will be like "Tab Ki Tab dekhenge" he believes in living today and worry about tomorrow, when tomorrow comes. He isn't wrong in his place either...no one is! neither the parents, nor ria and nor Abhi...it's all about how to overcome the situation without making things worst! Abhi wants to get his mum to meet Ria before any more alliances come for him and he has to go through all the trouble again that he went through during meenakshi period!

Abhi is wrong...and I'm waiting for a rocking twist in the show to convince us on why he is doing what he is and I hope I am not disappointed here!

Lovely discusions , Rukmini is all for arrange marriages as that is the
tradition in her house and there is absolutely nothing wrong in arrange
marriages as I like them too .
but Abhi is in love and want a love marriage and he is right too .
problem is Abhi has just thought about the moment not about future
consequences and that already is wrong but he feels he is fighting for
his love and his lies will not hurt anybody .
Abhi asking Ria's family to also lie and I just felt that Abhi was very wrong
to even suggest it but Ria' parents been elders should at least tell him
that lies will create bigger problems and Rukmini will think that Ria and her parents has planned all this just to trap Abhi in marriage

Originally posted by: KinSanj

Isn't that the whole show and Abhi is all about? The story is about these lil things. Does Boyfriend change after being a husband. (I can't believe this is coming from me since i believe my husband has changed 😆) but on a serious case. Everything was fine between Ria and Abhi till they were bf and gf...because Abhi didn't have that pressure on him about telling his parents about Ria. But at no cost does he want to lose Ria and neither does eh want to hurt his mum's sentiments. and I think before the show started in one of Kinshuk's article he mentioned that Abhi is a person who believes a little lie can do no harm if it's for a good cause. in this case here he is lying to his parents just so that he can get married to Ria. Abhi is kinda a guy who believes in today and not tomorrow. He doesn't think about the future at all that's one thing i noticed. He believes in doing the deed and not worry about the consequences. Yeah, if after marriage Rukhmani finds out about these little lies, she will eventually blame Ria's parents. Ria is aware of this, but Abhi is the kinda guy who will be like "Tab Ki Tab dekhenge" he believes in living today and worry about tomorrow, when tomorrow comes. He isn't wrong in his place either...no one is! neither the parents, nor ria and nor Abhi...it's all about how to overcome the situation without making things worst! Abhi wants to get his mum to meet Ria before any more alliances come for him and he has to go through all the trouble again that he went through during meenakshi period!

I think it is quite a smart idea...my cousin did the same, she loved this guy but till now they all assume it's an arranged marriage, obviously we as youngsters knew the true story...😆

it's actually not a bad idea...but with Abhi lying too much that's only because his mum is way too choosy when it comes to choosing a bride for her sons.

PS: About his in laws playing along...it's actually the best way to get out of a situation. here they don't want rukhmani to know that Ria is a Dr, which i see no point in hiding as kiran and pinky are aware(and Abhi and sheetal are aware of this too that the girls know) but yet they decided to play along. I remember how my in laws played along with me and my husband when we wanted my parents to agree for our marriage. you have no idea...that phase is like (families and love marriages are just too hard to handle 😆)

Sanju U said it all .Very very Well Said . I don't have much to add in it 👏👏

The show is all about this only . Had this not been the case than What will be the difference between TAHR & Other shows ? I can't choose and say that One Particular Character is totally right or totally wrong . They all are doing something from good intentions only . May be there way might be little twisted But their intentions are not . And So I can't say anyone wrong or right . Noone is Totally right or Totally wrong .

Also Abhi already promised Ria that They will not get married with any lie .How he will do that , that we have to see . But He never breaks his promises and Ria is totally aware of it .

agree avimanyu is wrong but he love so much Riya so i think he do some super plan so waiting..

Abhimanyu some wrong..but waiting coz he is hero..