Originally posted by: Xenubia
Every story is what YOU CHOOSE to believe... every practicing Muslim knows Sucide is Haram death... every Practicing muslim knows we should not go against Allah and bring the wrath of Him...
The problem with today's society is especially the young generation is they dont have any sense of right and wrong.. thats what Umera depicted in her novel... i am in a profession where i intereact with all sort of people and get to know abt their lives... trust me.. 99.9 % of the girls think... modelling, acting is an amazing profession , somoking , wearing sleevless, is really "cool"... and showbiz is an extremely awesome feild to enter. Had Umera shown Zainy to have gotten married to Karam THEN it would have given out the msg "you can do anything u want and then Allah can forgive you"..
My dear friend you didnt notice one thing the character Zainy NEVER repented she did regret doing all what she did but she never repented or seek forgiveness. She did all this to take revenge and take out her spite but the result was she spoiled her duniya and Akhraat too..!
In a place like pakistan .. the lower middle class girls fantasize about getting rich through coming into showbiz, becoming actress/actor ...
Its a sad dilema ... but my friend the point is its what ONE CHOOSES to think.. if an uneducated person with no sense except fantasies watches this drama he/she might get no msg and say.."crap.. she did what she want and in the end committed sucide? what the heck? she had a good going"... but see it in a broader way... like for me the msg was "no matter what the cirsumctances are we should trust and believe Allah coz he knows the best for us.. whatever Zainy did was Haram in every way ".. Had she trusted what her father said "Allah k Haar kaam main koi na koi Maslihaat hoti hae" (in everything Allah does there is a betterment for us) she would have known the result... if she had married her cousin/faincee.. even after marriage he would have resorted to Haram earning and it would have created a rift between them.. but she choose to follow the wrong path ..
And as for the sucide part... sucide is Haram..she didnt say go commit sucide... she just showed that.. Zainy spoiled her duniya and akhrat.. with doing haram things and now dying a haram death..
I already know that how many girls fantasize about becoming model and that was the point. Umeira shows it all to be a fun ride drinking , smoking etc....and immature minds are ready to admire her till the ending of her non-sensical dramas.
It's very easy to say it's how one chooses , one has no control or may be little control over that. And when at such time one is shown such misleading stories one is natural to strangle and mess up.
And ya your point dat if Zainab goes on to marry Karam den it means u can do anything and Allah can forgive you"
Can you count and tell me how many times Allah has mentioned forgiveness in Quran , almost every surah has verses mentioning Allah's forgiveness , how many times does the word "Gaffur" come in Quran. In surah Al-Imran it is mentioned that there are people who do wrong and den remember Allah and seek Allah's forgiveness. Ayat 135.
To me the point was fine what ever that Zainy did she should'nt have been given the haram end. We all face dark moments in our lives when things simply slip out of hands, and we head in the wrong direction. But one day comes when the darkness is eaten by the light and Allah does hold our hands.
Kya Allah kay Rasool(SAW) nay Taif ko nahi maaf kar dea tha , jo rasool khud itna generous hai uska Allah kitna Raheem ho ga.
Any thing dat will misguide me and seems to misguide others I will oppose.
U sit and think how many times u wud have sit and choosen dat what "ONE CHOOSES" theory and it all worked wonders.Dont say so boldly what ONE CHOOSES. Bahut mushkil hota hai. Na ankhon ko kuch nazar ata hai na kaan kuch suntay hain.
Nyways whatever u guys want to think, think. I have said my part ab ny1 agrees or not I won't drag this debate.
If you guys are possibly thinking +ve stuff out of something like this ,does'nt mean every1 else in world is too.
Edited by pillowwillow - 16 years ago
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