Moral Lessons from Anupama for our Society

1. A woman should never divorce her toxic husband because your husband is your destiny; and because 'Pati is Parmeshwar." A woman is nothing without her husband.

#I am sure that is why Kinjal is hesitant to divorce Toshu because she knows that she will end up like Anupama. She is staying back because she is thinking "at least my present is better than my future."

2. If you are lucky to get love again, do not give any importance to it. Try as much as possible to sabotage and ruin this new happiness in your life.

3. A second marriage at an old age will never be successful.

4. If you are a divorced and a mother, you will never have a successful second marriage.

5. Think 10000× times before adopting a child because according to the show, you will never be happy with an adopted child and the child will not be happy either.

6. Never be grateful to people who do good to you. This lesson we get from the "Shah" gang.

7. Lick the feet that stamped you a hundred times. This lesson we got from how Anuj and Anupama always lick the feet of the Shahs.

8. Never stay away from toxic people.

9. Let your children be around toxic people.

10. Devil is holier than "Dimpy."

If you have more, please add.

It is just a soap lol. Do not take it to serious

Plus Anupamaa is also a good example for modern society also despite the show flaws.

Despite facing years of neglect and emotional hardship in her marriage, she refuses to let her circumstances define her self-worth. Anupamaa's journey from a devoted housewife to an independent woman showcases the importance of pursuing one's dreams, standing up for personal dignity, and balancing responsibilities with self-care. Her character emphasizes that a woman's identity goes beyond traditional roles, and that embracing one’s individuality and passions is essential for true fulfillment. Anupamaa's compassion, inner strength, and ability to rise above societal expectations make her a role model for modern women, promoting the values of self-respect, empathy, and empowerment.

Wow, that's unexpected. But okay!

Always let abusers get away with everything, if they're older because 'Bade Bhagwaan Hote Hai'

Originally posted by: Jefen

Wow, that's unexpected. But okay!

It's a chatgpt answer

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

It's a chatgpt answer

it’s also what was sold to unsuspecting viewers before it all fell off a cliff… literally and figuratively

The only 2 things the show teaches are:

1. Anupama is the only Maa ever born.

2. Shahs are the only family worth revering.

Huh.

This show also teaches us not to help strangers beyond a certain limit. We saw what did Dimpy do to Anupama after Anupama had rescued Dimpy from her molesters. Anupama and Anuj had given shelter to Dimpy in the KM.

This show teaches that Murphy's law is absolutely true - "Anything that can go wrong will go wrong". So,

1. If your first marriage was not successful, high chances that your second marriage will not be successful either.

2. If you were not successful professionally for 45 years of your life, you will not be successful for remaining part of your life either.

3. If you were not able to bring up your biological children well, you will fail at upbringing the adopted child as well.

4 If you never had finances in your hand for the first half of your life, you will be devoid of any money in the second half of your life, in case you get it, if you will yourself give up on it.

5. If you were orphan as a child, you will grow up as an orphan too.

6. If you idiotically waited for love for 26 years of your life, you will be waiting for another 26 years for it as well.

7. A dysfunctional family will remain a dysfunctional family.

8. If you were abused, you will keep getting abused because ultimately you will fall in love with abuse.

9. One who doesn’t find success or luck in their personal or professional life the first time, does not find it the second time either.

10. One who makes bad choices, always makes bad choices.

2. If you are lucky to get love again, do not give any importance to it. Try as much as possible to sabotage and ruin...

I absolutely loved this one.