YRKKH: BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread # 32 - Page 4

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

Is this Poddar house ka basement

Thank goodness the kidnapping has happened right now …..Jo bhi karna hai karo .. finish this endless track of nonsensical waiting for KP ka ashirwad

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

Is this Poddar house ka basement

So the question now is if Abhira is in on the plan or not Its so ridiculous that this show can produce one right episode and then for the rest of the next week produce crappy, illogical ones just like madhav.. can only handle one thing right at a time

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

So the question now is if Abhira is in on the plan or not Its so ridiculous that this show can produce one right episode and then for the rest of the next week produce crappy, illogical ones just like madhav.. can only handle one thing right at a time

They can also write only one of the leads appropriately at once, the other one has to become insane for some reason

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

They can also write only one of the leads appropriately at once, the other one has to become insane for some reason

That's... Actually sad.. very sad

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

They can also write only one of the leads appropriately at once, the other one has to become insane for some reason

I disagree with this assessment.

Abhira's writing is not "insane" . her concerns and insecurities are valid and consistent to who she is as a person . She is being naive and idealistic perhaps in expecting Kaveri to come around given how cruel she is recently, but its not stupid or improbable thought. Few months ago Kaveri had unwillingly accepted her as bahu and armaans wife so she only hopes for that again and over time she hopes she will come to see her acchai too. Kaveri never loved her, always found faults but she had tolerated her and even sometimes been caring to Abhira in the past. so Abhira only hopes for that status quo to be back -if nothing, just out of care for her grandson Armaan and because the whole family has accepted her too.

the concerns she has of being the sole reason for her pyaar, for Armaan to be leaving his family home is valid. given the build up of how devoted Armaan was to the family and how much he valued them vs Abhira always craving family because she never had one, its not easy for her to accept that she cannot even get basic acceptance that she had earlier as his wife and bahu. the man who never in his wildest dreams would think of leaving his house is doing so just to be with her- that is as terrifying to her as it is emotionally overwhelming. she is ofcourse super emotional and happy to be his priority and be so loved by the man she loves unconditionally but she has never wanted him to have to pick between her and his family. family is also more than just Kaveri. moreover before her, Armaan had a place in the house and things were peaceful .he always deserved more, he deserved better but before her entry, he was also happy with what he had. so the fact that she is constantly told that she is the reason for disrupting the peace of the house and for making Armaan "rebel" and leave PH is not something she will take pride in. we as audience are happy to see Armaan's growth and are cheering it. but Abhira is not gonna feel like us about Armaan leaving his home.

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

That's... Actually sad.. very sad

Today you are team Armaan. Waise to aaj everyone is in his team. Aaj ke liye dil lelo Armaan sa..

PS: I will take it back as soon as you start achchi Sachi Ruhi

Originally posted by: strancho

Today you are team Armaan. Waise to aaj everyone is in his team. Aaj ke liye dil lelo Armaan sa..

PS: I will take it back as soon as you start achchi Sachi Ruhi

Haan I'v made it very clear I'm his team today only warna tho dil aur dimaag jaanta Hai that only phuphu is Mr.Dependable

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

Haan I'v made it very clear I'm his team today only warna tho dil aur dimaag jaanta Hai that only phuphu is Mr.Dependable

Yet to watch the episode but yeah Mr Phupasa is the only one we can count on

https://x.com/flozzcandyy/status/1823204190543400978?s=46

Originally posted by: Pinecone

I disagree with this assessment.

Abhira's writing is not "insane" . her concerns and insecurities are valid and consistent to who she is as a person . She is being naive and idealistic perhaps in expecting Kaveri to come around given how cruel she is recently, but its not stupid or improbable thought. Few months ago Kaveri had unwillingly accepted her as bahu and armaans wife so she only hopes for that again and over time she hopes she will come to see her acchai too. Kaveri never loved her, always found faults but she had tolerated her and even sometimes been caring to Abhira in the past. so Abhira only hopes for that status quo to be back -if nothing, just out of care for her grandson Armaan and because the whole family has accepted her too.

the concerns she has of being the sole reason for her pyaar, for Armaan to be leaving his family home is valid. given the build up of how devoted Armaan was to the family and how much he valued them vs Abhira always craving family because she never had one, its not easy for her to accept that she cannot even get basic acceptance that she had earlier as his wife and bahu. the man who never in his wildest dreams would think of leaving his house is doing so just to be with her- that is as terrifying to her as it is emotionally overwhelming. she is ofcourse super emotional and happy to be his priority and be so loved by the man she loves unconditionally but she has never wanted him to have to pick between her and his family. family is also more than just Kaveri. moreover before her, Armaan had a place in the house and things were peaceful .he always deserved more, he deserved better but before her entry, he was also happy with what he had. so the fact that she is constantly told that she is the reason for disrupting the peace of the house and for making Armaan "rebel" and leave PH is not something she will take pride in. we as audience are happy to see Armaan's growth and are cheering it. but Abhira is not gonna feel like us about Armaan leaving his home.

I just use hyperboles like insane a lot, I'm not usually that serious about it

I get Abhira's concerns, however, her adamance on this dream of happy family seems too far fetched to me, especially when she has pointed out the multiple toxic stuff about the family herself at some point or the other in the story. I know she never wanted Armaan to ever make a choice between him and is family. But this choice is more than just about her. She has seeing first hand how Armaan himself is treated in the house, how he feels that she is the only one who truly loves him, how Armaan has to hear stuff like ganda khoon and suetela on matters that are not even related to Abhira. Kaveri ka choro, even Rohit and Charu have called him sautela and their issues had nothing to do with Abhira. I really do feel that Abhira needs to introspect and think if she and Armaan could ever be happy and peaceful in such a space. She herself said that she cannot bear anyone being unfair to Armaan, and she knows that Armaan does get a lot of unfair treatment in that house. She will not be able to subdue that defensive part of her ( rightfully so), it would lead to more clashes. Abhira herself at told at one point that she is tiered of crying all the time and simply wants a happy and peaceful life, and imo there has been nothing that shows Abhira that she could achieve that living at PH.

And its not like leaving the house means breaking off with the loved ones. People who care about them can always meet them.

yes but the same Armaan had also come to terms with his place in the house and supposedly all the unfairness has amped up only after her entry into his life and home. until then he never complained, he was supposedly "happy", he had made peace with everything and everyone.

And its not just Armaan who was treated unfairly, Charu had no permission to work, Krish had no permission to follow his dreams, kids were made to feel stifled, even Manoj was made to feel small as a lawyer, Manisha was less liked as bahu than V, Madhav had a strained relationship too. so no one in the house had a very hunky dory existence. Even the favorites- V and Rohit had their own issues. both had an absentee husband and father in M respectively. in Abhiras mind, everything that she raked up or called out as being problematic- stepson treatment of Armaan, girls not working, kids not having freedom to pursue their passion, VM not communicating with each other and letting Kaveri dictate their life- all of these were told to be joint family dynamics that are par for course but supposedly Abhira made too much of a "tamasha" out of. Armaan himself used to feel that way until he realized his love for her and recognized her intentions and where she is coming from and how overall its healthier to talk about things than live in ghutan. Today Armaan sees Abhiras influence as something that has made him call out what he always felt but didnt have the courage to question or stand up to. but Abhira is made to feel as if this rebellion and speaking up is something that is making him leave his own home and family behind which he never would have done and she is the root cause

Abhira cant introspect and accept this decision to move out to be a good one unless everyone unanimously supports her and says out loud that no one blames her for being the reason for Armaan moving out. And infact supports her and says they appreciate her perspective that has made them question the stuff they should have done a long time ago. As long as she is called family wrecker by Kaveri and everyone mutely watches that and Armaan doesnt continue to reinforce that he is leaving as much for his own self as he is for her sake, she will feel guilty and not happy about going to a toxicity free zone outside PH.

Right now she is made to feel as if without her in his life, he'd be having a peaceful existence in his family with perhaps some intermittent issues where people get angry or say something untoward but everything goes back to normal.

its tough for her to accept that for 20-25+ years he was happily coexisting with his family but in the 1+ year she has been in his life, suddenly today he feels that their peace and happiness is only outside PH. We as audience know its true and they should leave but Abhira cant know that and accept it so easily.

Abhiras "dream" stems from watching how extra sweet and affectionate Kaveri is with Ruhi-Rohit. Her dream is idealistic and extremely happy but her expectations are much more realistic. she just wanted basic acceptance even if it was a reluctant one to begin with.