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Not to sound insensitive but Ruhi ko therapy sessions bhi zyaada karne padenge.. cos maasi is after all the root cause of the anxiety in the first place
Haan, toh therapy ke paise ke liye bhi maasi ko laana padega na
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Not to sound insensitive but Ruhi ko therapy sessions bhi zyaada karne padenge.. cos maasi is after all the root cause of the anxiety in the first place
Haan, toh therapy ke paise ke liye bhi maasi ko laana padega na
Wohi tho 
ye kya din dikha diye khud ke delusion ne! On the other hand Dekha Jaye tho - Sab Armaan ki galti Hai
All Ab wanted was space and to be left alone, so she's begging Armaan to let her be. But what kind of man will he be that the woman he love is hurting and he don't tried to console her but walk away. I don't have a issue of Abhira saying she wish Armaan didn't come to Mussoorie, she give all the example of all she experience with him and his family since they married. Everyone had those moment where they wish they can turn back time, but that doesn't mean her mother would've still been alive but nothing wrong in wishing it. Armaan acknowledge one way or the other intentional or unintentional, he has been responsible for her pain.
It reminded me of the time Rohit when missing and Ab when to console Armaan, and he said he wish he never met her and meeting was the biggest mistake of his life and now his family is suffering cause of her. Even Ab, reflected on those moment too, and felt she was burden on him and because of her Armaan, was having difficulty with his family.
It's easy to pick sides on this show but is also important to keep it balance here. Neither of them is perfect, and that's what make them Abhimaan, they can tell each other things and not be malicious and also be forgiven too.
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Unfortunately.. they're just like their name..abhimaan .
Agree with everything except the bold part.
How can she expect arman to give her space & left alone when she's living in his house ? It's obvious she will run into him and his family everyday.
What's this lamest of all excuse of saving madhav vidya shadi ? The person who climbed ladder to meet his wife & wife is going nuts to stop him frm taking up a dangerous mission , what's there to mend between them..they're abs fine , whatever the issue is , it's between madhav and dadi , not madhav and vidya ..madhav is only pinning her down so that she doesn't leave arman n she doesnt know...is her self respect, Career , her decision to leave arman , her ddp more imp than this ? Of all the ppl who claim to be her well wishers , madhav is stabbing behind her bk but she believes her ddp is bec of arman ?
If there is a choice between love & respect, one should pick respect coz it's possible to live without love but not respect..else learn to live like vidya .
When you're hurting you ask for space in that moment even if you live
in the same house with the person and you know they have your
best interest at heart, you just want to be left alone. I do it when I have
argument with people, a stressful day at work or for what ever reason it's
nothing wrong with asking for Me Time. Husband and wife do it, children do it with
there parents, you just want to be left alone that space to clear your head. You go in room
locked the door, you take a walk to reflect and clear your head. Armaan has that
special place the bench. It's not permanent, you asking for a moment.
I find Vidya and Madhav toxic so, my day is just started so I'll leave that alone
and say I agree.
Wohi tho
Yeh show armaan ke galtiyon pe hi chal raha hain
satyavachan
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Satyavachan satyavachan
Aare IK u didn’t say she is guilt tripping. All I want so say is if she really holds him responsible for Ak’s death she would have said it on the day Armaan said he married Abhira because he mom asked him to marry and he have no option but marry her , but she didn’t , she gave him freedom and left the house.in fact she told him he should not feel guilt about it. What she meant was all these things wouldn’t have happened if she didn’t lose her mother. She loves her mom more than anything.Originally posted by: Solitudelover
I am not saying that she is trying to guilt trip.. My point was somewhere inside she still holds him responsible just like the way she had spoken immediately after Ak death, trying to push him away during cremation etc... Irrespective of whether to Ar she has said not to hold himself responsible.. Else it would not have come out when she was broken today 10 months after the event... And nothing Ar do can change the circumstances of Ak death.. How can there be a true relationship when you hold the other person responsible for the death of the person you loved the most somewhere in your heart.. And the other person also hold guilt for the same.
It is not even like the other white day blames which I am thinking is something like immediately after the event you blame, there is mu and separation even. But mu gets cleared and then not brought up again
Abhira was always shown as a brave and furious girl who can deal with any kind of situations , she protected herself from Yuvi on the night of Puja when Ruhi locked Armaan and herself in the room , protected Ruhi and Kiara from goons , she fought with gonna recently ,so may be she would have dealt the situation on her own or she is also ready to get married to Yuvi to protect her mom , so she is ready to sacrifice her life for her mom, She could have lost her mom even if Armaan was not there too but these are all ‘ WHAT IF ‘ that didn’t happen kind of thoughts which everyone of us will think too when something goes wrong but we wish that didn’t happen.
Originally posted by: sharadrocks
Armaan has been called out for about six months on his small and big actions ..I have been one of his fiercest critics myself ..when people were going crazy over Matargashti, I hated it that he burnt the dance floor with one woman and then the car parking to make another feel better ..I hated Shivshakti and the fact that he could even consider discussing divorce with a girl who was already heartbroken …now when I find Abhira’s behaviour unacceptable, I don’t see any reason to pull my punches ..you can’t go hammer and tongs at one character and then practice restraint when it comes to another ..blame the writers and global warming for the reason why the much favoured character is behaving the way it does …if we start talking of trauma and heart break, Armaan has endured far worse humiliation and pain in his life than Abhira has ..granted he did not go hungry probably but we don’t really know what happened in his early years ..but anyway who’s to say whose pain is greater …anyway, not having cut Armaan slack in the past for whatever he endured, I will not cut slack for Abhira in the present ..tomorrow if Armaan does stupid things, I will call him out again ..if I am watching the show still by then ..anyway, if calling out Abhira is a crime on this forum, I’d be happy to bow out ..selective rules and moderation are not for me !
Bow out for who and why, this fictional show and characters.
Let me tell you I got block cause I made a comment, knowing me
it was probably a joke, I posted I wonder what Armaan will get blame for today
and some other stuff. At that time there used pages of Armaan bashing deserving
or undeserving it happen. I know how to differentiate between legit criticism of
the individual character and downright hate for the character for reason I'm not going
to get into. If bashing is warranted for Abhira then you do it, balance criticism is great
Armaan bashing has calm down a lot, I expected worst during the divorce track
to my surprise it was actually timid compare to before
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