Reposting here as per Anusha Madam 🥰🤗
I so relate to this two sides of a human being ...
Doesnt we all have two sides ...I am not telling we are bipolar ,no , but the two shades of us .
A shade of us who wants to do so many things for us .. but another which does things to make others happy , even if it hurts us .
Aren't there real life people who chose to sacrifice their biggest happiness for the sake of their family specially maa...
When we just look at them we feel, why they are doing this , cant they just grab their opportunity and move ahead . Yes ,from far we can assume things , we can decide so many things for others ..why cant he / she , why is she /doing this , why not that , what a stupid girl / boy ...etc etc
We can judge .
But when you are in the situation , it becomes really hard to let go your loved ones. To hurt them . And at that point we feel its easy to give up on our dreams and move on.
The same is Anirudh , he is not weak .He is torn between his love . Love for family and love for Jhanak.That is why Anirudh is so real unlike the normal ITV leads .I can always relate to so many things he does .
For us his family is evil , selfish , but for him its his Family , his loved ones , close to his heart. The way he looked at happy faces of his family during that Kashmir garland scene , it tells all about how he loves them and dont want to spoil their happiness ,even if it means losing his world .
Life becomes easy if the other person realise you are sacrificing for them and does things to make you happy.
But then is it not that easy , they are assuming their choice and decisions are best for you .
Whom do we blame here ???
Didnt your mom failed to read your face or mind atleast once in your lifetime ...
For me , yes , I have experience it , when we mask our feeling not even maa can indentify our feelings.
Its a human trait .We can easily mask our feelings .
Anirudh' eyes might be sad , but his actions and words are being considered by his family , including his maa
I am so against these death being refereed million times in this show ...
But yes , that is also human nature , when we feel nothing works for us , its an easy escapism .
And at that moment we become selfish and dont think about anyone or anything .
Our mind is our biggest strength and so is the weakest point , which makes us think the easiest way to escape is death than to live.
Little does it know it requires half the courage to live than take life .
I didnt go through the entire discussion and have no idea where it started. Just read two posts of Asmita and guessed the rest.
Sorry if my post is not in relation to your discussion .🤗🤗
Edited by MayaFruitbae - 3 months ago
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