Originally posted by: ShahH8er
Would suggest you to read up basic concepts of matrilineal and patrilineal systems before further discussions on patriarchy and oppression. Preferably from educational sites/webpages and not social media. Worldwide, most societies are patrilineal though one does find isolated societies which follow matrilineal structure such as in Meghalaya
Can you recommend me a good source? or can you explain me?
Yes, even in some parts of South India matrilineal structure is followed.
Also, I have a question, it is veryyy long, toh please last tak padh lijiyega although in law books I have studied about domestic violence and harassment, but I have seen something new on social media.
I have a situation, will this be considered as harassment? No sarcasm, I am not married so cannot understand all this.
So it goes like this
Situation 1
after 1-2 days of marriage a MIL asks her DIL to take bath before entering the kitchen, DIL gets offended and says that she is dictating me
situation 2
After marriage a MIL asks her DIL to get her a glass of water, make tea for her, etc DIL says why should I do all this?
Situation 3
MIL has 3 DILs, she gets expensive gifts for her 2 DILs but a cheap gift for her 3rd DIL, the son gets offended and walks off with his wife
Situation 4
After marriage MIL asks her DIL to wear bangles or the "suhag ki nishani,"
The situation is same, however this time the DIL is working, matlab office going.
Situation 5
MIL asks her DIL to cook for everyone,.
Situation 6
MIL does not behave in a same way with her DIL as she behaves with her son, she discusses everything like about the relatives and all.
I found all this on quora, even you all can search and you will get all this, I don't know whether I chose right platform to go and search about harassment against DIL by in-laws and also about the issues between DIL and MIL in marriage on quora, but this is what I found, so please tell me, can we consider all this as harassment or not?
This question is for everyone, so try to reply
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