People are comparing Aadhya behaviour with Pakhi - Page 2

Adhya only misbehaved with Anupama and associates because Anuj forced her to meet them. She just wanted to stay away from them so how Adhya was wrong. 

She will be better if never got adopted by Anuj n Anupama because no kid deserves horrible parents like them. 

Anuj did 3rd mistake by bringing Shruti in their equation. He literally destroyed her life too. If he wanted to be a love sick puppy to Anupama than why bring an innocent girl in his life. Does he value anyone else life or are she was a play thing for him. Anuj never thinks about what impact it will have on someone’s life. 

Every single decision anuj made in his life always end up destroying someone’s life.all of his decisions were wrong though out his life. 

She’s a disrespectful, unkind, mentally disturbed young person. From a young age she was abandoned, she found and lost her birth mother and was then manipulated into thinking her adopted mother didn’t love her. Anupamaa should not have left, no arguing there. Anuj and Anupamaa should have worked on their relationship before adopting, but this is tv. Fast forward to now, and you have Aadhya who has major anger issues and is a spoiled brat who does vile, cruel things to the woman who sacrificed her marriage because she thought it was best for her. Shruti is her buddy and her father is her slave. Children need discipline in the form of structure and limits, they don’t need you to be their friend. She’s all over the place emotional and she needs professional help before it’s too late.

Side note: Toshu and Pakhi are indescribable and no one can compare to them-nor would anyone want to be compared to them. They are their father’s children!

Originally posted by: LoLo

She’s a disrespectful, unkind, mentally disturbed young person. From a young age she was abandoned, she found and lost her birth mother and was then manipulated into thinking her adopted mother didn’t love her. Anupamaa should not have left, no arguing there. Anuj and Anupamaa should have worked on their relationship before adopting, but this is tv. Fast forward to now, and you have Aadhya who has major anger issues and is a spoiled brat who does vile, cruel things to the woman who sacrificed her marriage because she thought it was best for her. Shruti is her buddy and her father is her slave. Children need discipline in the form of structure and limits, they don’t need you to be their friend. She’s all over the place emotional and she needs professional help before it’s too late.

Side note: Toshu and Pakhi are indescribable and no one can compare to them-nor would anyone want to be compared to them. They are their father’s children!

Anupama didn't sacrifice her marriage because she felt it was best for a little kid for her mom to run away. She is not so dumb. She sacrificed because she was obsessed with Shahs (and not just her children, but baa, babuji and her ex who lusts for her) and got angry when asked to prioritise current family also. The audience are not fool, we all saw what happened. 

We are watching the same show here.

Adhya was very well behaved before despite her trauma. She only behaved bad with anupama, no one else, not even Shahs. 

Adhya was again very well behaved when we saw her again after 5 year leap. She only behaved bad when faced with her evil mom.

We have never seen her behave badly with anyone else, she is not spoilt with Shruti at all, just anupama and Shahs. And behaving bad with evil people who hurt you is not being spoiled. 

Again we all are watching the same show

All doctors will say keep source of trauma away from child. Her trauma is anupama. PTSD is not rational, PTSD doesn't mean you are spoiled.or a brat. PTSD is not controlled. 

It doesn't matter what Anuj or anupama should have done before adoption. The fact is anupama agreed to adopt a little child. She is a selfish vile evil woman who abandoned a helpless orphan and gave her life long trauma. It was both morally and legally wrong. One of the worst characters in ITV history. And so are her blind stans who attack an adopted, abandoned child with trauma because of being abandoned by her own mom..

Once again we are all watching the same show and audience are not fools. 

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

Anuj did 3rd mistake by bringing Shruti in their equation. He literally destroyed her life too. If he wanted to be a love sick puppy to Anupama than why bring an innocent girl in his life. Does he value anyone else life or are she was a play thing for him. Anuj never thinks about what impact it will have on someone’s life. 

Every single decision anuj made in his life always end up destroying someone’s life.all of his decisions were wrong though out his life. 

To add to Anuj's mistakes.

04. Getting Forest King aka Vanraj's darling son Toshu released from jail even though Toshu had committed fraud in Anuj's company. Which sane business man will get a person who has committed fraud released from jail? Anuj should have left Toshu to rot in jail for his henious crime.

05. If no. 04 was a senseless act from Anuj, offering a job to Toshu, who had committed fraud in his company. Anuj offering a job to fraudster Toshu is like feeding milk to a poisonous snake. No matter how much milk you feed to a poisonous snake, it will bite you 1 fine day. Anuj realizes his mistake when he sees Toshu stealing the most expensive necklace in his event and putting it in Anupama's bag in his event. Which sane business man will offer a job to a fraudster?

06. Getting Toshu released thanks to that emotional fool Kinjal even though he should have been allowed to rot in jail for his henious crime of theft. Kinjal had also become an emotional fool like Anupama with this act.

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

Adhya only misbehaved with Anupama and associates because Anuj forced her to meet them. She just wanted to stay away from them so how Adhya was wrong. 

She will be better if never got adopted by Anuj n Anupama because no kid deserves horrible parents like them. 

Biggest blunder committed by Anuj was getting married to Anupama. I have always felt that Anuj and Devika would have been a good couple. Devika is more matured compared to Anupama and she is not like that mahaanta ki moorat Anupama. Devika is well educated compared to Anupama and Anuj would have been happy had he married Devika instead of Anupama. As if marrying Anupama was not enough, Anuj puts another burden on Anupama by adopting CA aka Aadhya from an orphanage. Why did Anupama, who had failed as a mother of 3 adopt CA aka Aadhya from an orphanage. Anuj and Anupama should have focused more on their newly married life rather than adopting CA aka Aadhya.

We are watching the same show but we are seeing it through different eyes. You won’t convince me, I’m not trying to convince you. I stated my opinion, you did the same. That’s what we do on this forum. Have a nice day.

Originally posted by: suresh555

Aadhya is anything but a victim. She has her poppsy mother india eating out of her palm, resulting into a mentally retarded tantrums filled idiot. She runs her mouth like garbage, disrespects whoever she wants to, is evil and sneaky like her dead mom and deserves to be shipped back to the orphanage, where atleast she was a well behaved sweet kid. The worst villain is Anuj K who has zero parenting skills. He is trying to beat Nargis from Mother India, except even Nargis punished her kid who did wrong. Maybe Anuj and Vanraj should fall for each other, marry and raise Aadhya

@bold- I agree with this 100%

Originally posted by: LoLo

We are watching the same show but we are seeing it through different eyes. You won’t convince me, I’m not trying to convince you. I stated my opinion, you did the same. That’s what we do on this forum. Have a nice day.

No one is trying to convince you, but such mentality being spread against adopted kids affects the most vulnerable people in our society. Different government have been working for decades to help adopted kids but such shows and their fans are dragging us back to the middle ages.

So every time these agendas are spread they need to be called out.

Originally posted by: prachetas2211

Biggest blunder committed by Anuj was getting married to Anupama. I have always felt that Anuj and Devika would have been a good couple. Devika is more matured compared to Anupama and she is not like that mahaanta ki moorat Anupama. Devika is well educated compared to Anupama and Anuj would have been happy had he married Devika instead of Anupama. As if marrying Anupama was not enough, Anuj puts another burden on Anupama by adopting CA aka Aadhya from an orphanage. Why did Anupama, who had failed as a mother of 3 adopt CA aka Aadhya from an orphanage. Anuj and Anupama should have focused more on their newly married life rather than adopting CA aka Aadhya.

anuj saw anupama is always at shahs and never at home and do not care for him much 

so to bind her to his home he adopted a child 

in india it is thought if hubby wife do not like each other or are not compatable have kids than all will be fine 

anuj did same he thoughut if a kid is there anupam awill spend most time at kapadiya mansion than shahs but his calculation was wrong 

also anuj realized anupama will never care for him only shahs he wanted a family someone his own as hes aging and alone so he adopted a child