I am back to do my akshu jaap, abhi jaap, abhira jaap, band bajavu both and get a closure for my month long DDP. β½β½β½π¦Ώπ¦Ώπ¦Ώπ¦΅π¦΅π¦΅
KUD SE KUD KA SAFAR
Akshu at the start of the serial told to manish she wanted to explore herself and learn her own expectations in life before sharing her life and trying to know the other person's expectations when manish asked about ak and ar opinion on shadi.
Later when abhi asked her what is her opinion In love. Ak told love is like her music it's her soulmate. For the one who I loose herself is my victory. And before that one should fall in love one self to love someone.
During dhanteras swarna told akshara that what ak wishes is also right but in life when one cannot connect to oneself it is done by someone else. Tht doesn't mean we should stop life we might meet someone at some point.
ICCHA KUND WISHES
In udaipur kairav, neil, abhi, akshu and aarohi all prayed for their wishes.
Neil coin slipped on own and told he has everything in life with a family who gives him lots of love and a brother like abhi and he wishes everything to stay the same.
Don't know God would take his wish so strong bandha like his coin fell in iccha kund went and slipped on own to his fate and birlas are still same as he wished for. Mata is still the same as day 1 wishing for ar shadi. π We have manju and harsh 2 in parth and shifali who live in a abusive life for their son. Tauji is still waiting for a coffee from mahima hand. Abhi is still the old abhi who lived a lonely and pian filled life even with his whole family beside him. Mahima the evergreen dominating woman for power and position.
Aarohi wish and obsession is to get a equal partner like her in her life. Partner as in she asked someone who is equal in studies and work so she got one in abhi with who she works equal now.
Akshara with her first coin wished for her family to be happy, aarohi to be no. 1 always and whatever the feelings she is having for abhi to be taken care by destiny. Just like how she wished with ak absence families are happy now. Ar is no. 1 in everything be it work, bahu, widow etc and etc.
When aarohi told her wishes won't be fulfilled akshu went and threw another coin asking God that she doesn't need anything and fulfill all her sisters wishes. And today ak lost her everything her love, her family. Which all is now aarohi's. Birla bahu even though she is a widow. Abhir ka papa becoming ruhi ka poppy, Abhi even though still working as a doctor we can see he isn't doing a full time job that way ar is no. 1 in work too which she once wished to beat abhi up when her MBBS results came out.
Kairav wished for bridge the gap between his sisters. Akshara and aarohi together is a disaster. Both of the girls should have been married in different sasural ak too said the same and tried to tell birlas but who listened to her words. Starting from one day shadi, one day pregnancy, one day widow everything went down in ar life with her own obsession to beat ak up in life. Kairav only wished for a bridge between them. Which is abhi. Both the sisters need to cross that bridge to make another chaos in their life.
Abhi banda asked for a very complicated wish. Like a one line poem he quoted let me tell he practically ordered God " mujhe sirf akshara chaiye " And now God is like it is very complicated man you are the last in line wait till your turn comes and along with him we too need to wait now. π₯³π₯³π₯³π₯³
AKSHARA
Akshara born as daughter to karthik and naira sister to kairav, step daughter to sirat and step sister to aarohi. Though sirat gave her a love of a mother she preferred her uncontrollable daughter and told ak to adjust with her. In future this same adjustment turned into a daily life routine for akshu. Aarohi was the one she loved the most and she was ready to give her everything to her sister. As life took a turn for worst ak giving and giving everything only gave more hurt for her abhi came her showed her what she is doing isn't right and made her to love and live for her own self.
When she told manish she wanted to explore herself we can feel how lost ak is in her life. Her words to abhi became right when she fell in love with herself prioritising her own self choosing her love and acknowledging abhi love.
AAROHI
As much as aarohi told she hates akshu her life rotates around akshu . More than us this girl does her akshu jaap. When she knew ak is not her own sister she vowed herself to not share her mother and In latter life it turned out her seeing her own sister as her competitor in anything and everything. Be it ak love life, shadi, pregnancy anything she saw ak as her competition. Knowing this nature of ar ak wanted to keep her away from birlas as she was afraid ar would shake their peace like she did in goenkas. Finally end of story ar husband died, ak was thrown out of house that too by her beloved husband who she trusted the most. And even though widow ar is above all and got everything that she wanted their. She just as promised to ak got everything of hers but the price was the death of her husband. People might think how ar is being good and happy in birlas even after the death of her husband. Her sole reason is she lost her competitor with whom she fought since day 1. She got good doctor in work place, best bahu in house which she couldn't get when ak was working in that hospital or was birla house bahu.
ABHIMANYU
I want to I really want to write something great about this guy and when I search it's like needle in haystack πΎπΎπΎ and I finally found this.
1. Abhi once promised akshu that he will forever love only her and even without kid their love will be for 50 more years and bandha kept it. Being the best lover.
2. He is the best son any mom ( unfortunately can't say the same to his mom) could ask for but is the worst hubby any woman won't dream off.
Saying his anger gets the worst out of him is puski. He can be angry only on his wife but can give hundreds of lame excuses for his toxic, suffocating, selfish and brainless family.
After math of neil death.
Let me recount what happened back then.
Ak wanted to save those girls and neil chose to fight those goons. That way both neil and akshu fell on the hands of their fate. One wrong choice by both one lost his life and the other lost her everything in life. Next akshu comes to know she lost her kids too and tells her husband. Any sane husband would have held his wife and cried with her but our hero chose to throw his wife out of house listening to his mom and sister in law words blaming her for the death of her brother, kids, their complicated love life and the low blow of it all is to call on her mother death. When she called him multiple times to tell the truth of their alive kid he in anger kicked her away through phone.
CO- PASSENGER
A completely lost ak enters a bus and reaches pathankot in her dead state where she meets a co-passanger and he takes her to hospital and later to his home in her weak heath state as he is an accha aadmi. Fast forward 6 years ak lives with abhinav and her son abhir in a fake shadi.
Swarna words of ak finding herself with someone and when she can't her life won't stop and she will meet someone at some point who will help her in finding herself.
Abhinav told akshara a happy journey and to take break from problems for some time when she needs it. Apart from her own family ak met abhimanyu, birlas, Kunal, maya and now abhinav, neilma and muskan. These people have made her learn things in life in one way or the other.
1. Kunal and maya made ak to show her love for abhi is above everything to the world.
2. Ak when she entered birlas in her innocence she thought they all need a little love and guhmar to stop being all uptight but they proved her otherwise that they are happy the way they all are.
3. Abhinav as he said he gave a happy journey to her with the safety and security he provided for her and her son as a friend.
Is it wrong for ak to make abhinav abhir papa?
Maybe Or maybe not. Her husband kicked her out right after she had a miscarriage. Told he never wanted to see her face again. She later realised she is still pregnant with one of their kids and tried to reach him for that again and again. When abhinav asked even if she was pregnant with their kid won't he meet her and he right out told them off. She had a complicated pregnancy with a life and death delivery. Their is always a saying that a woman can never forget how she was treated during her pregnancy and after it. When ak was almost dieing here with her son her husband was in his self pity party mode. And then their is this man who held their son and gave him life which a father should have done. That way ak giving him that place is her sense of gratitude for what he did to her son. Abhi rejected her first later didn't even hear out or acknowledge their might be something about their kid in way rejecting their own son. Until he acknowledges them like how he had rejected them he can't get that place.
Should ak have gone to goenkas after being kicked out?
Abhi closed her off by touching sirat death knowing what was the impact of it in akshu life. And those people who know gonekas history must know the are best in being jail wardens to people who are labelled as criminals with or without crimes. They kept ar on head to pacify her for sirat death and made ak to bend and loose her own life. What's new will be now. Ak along with her son would have got the same fate. Both maa and beta would have bent to aarohi and their ladli ruhi and again lost their own self. Instead she chose her own life and security for her son. Finally ak did what abhi had always wanted her to do. Not interfere in others life, live your own life, take care of yourself. Top it manish too held ak responsible for neil death in front of her friend that kicked her last hopes of going to her grandparents or calling and keeping them with her. She isn't even using their money for her livelihood.
FAKE SHADI THE PAST
Ak could have chosen to have nav as her friend and abhir a mamu. But na she entered a fake shadi with him and gave her son a father. Ak herself dipped in a dung. In other side she clearly chose not to go back to her past which has nothing more than DDP in her life. Rejection after rejections. Her sister never acknowledged her and rejected her a million times, she was conditioned to live a sacrificial life for others, her own husband rejected her and didn't acknowledge the presence of their son. Entering their again is a nightmare filled life for her again. When ak told manish she had come far away from that place doesn't simple mean that city but that life filled with sorrows, disappointment, unfulfilled promises too.
From her words to manish how far she had come from their their is no turning back for akshu to her past life. It's her journey followed by her son with nav, neelima and muskaan being part of her journey. Whoever joins them happily they welcome and accept them.
ABHINAV and AKSHARA
Abhinav as a kind hearted person and being an orphan himself gave shelter to two other orphans akshu and abhir. They now live as abhir ki maa and abhir ki papa in front of the society. Internally their relationship is one that of friends, two business partners, two people sharing a house. Ak had always shielded from nav as a angry woman so that she won't let him near her. Nav doesn't even know maa and beta favorite food as ak told him once specifically what abhir and her like. And regarding taking care of her son it's always her who does that above abhinav. Showing her own independent life and single mom status. Unlike aaru doll who handed her kid in that kid poppy hands and trying to be best doctor of the year. The way nav told to put money in kid school fees and the way how ak told she has to contribute in nav buying a new car shows their shared life with no attachments and only responsibilities.
Nav feelings for ak is an added masala to the story. The other day ak asked him was he expecting anything from them as he had given so much to them but guy chose to tell ak he is happy being abhir ki papa. He should have told ak their only how he wants to marry.
With abhi in the mix akshu angry shield had been diverted to abhi which makes abhinav to think ak had dropped her guard against him.
MATAS OF YRKKH
Manjari, Swarna, Sirat, Akshara and Aarohi are examples of selfish mothers in yrkkh.
Manjari though along with abhi she brought up neil, parth, anisha and nistha the kids fate tells the parvarish she gave to them. In start of episodes if we see abhi was always the demanding one through his thod phod to his family which we can see in ruhi too now how she gets her way with everyone in family. Manjari kept royally one kid on throne and fulfilled all demands never teaching kids from right and wrong. Parth son of 2 successful surgeons can't even attend a simple conference. Another girl turned into a runaway and suicidal, neil was the lost fellow in his own life going in everyone else flow of desires, nistha looks like junior parth holding her chachi.
Swarna being herself a second wife she kept all second wife and their kids in royal throne over first wife and their kids. Her support to aarohi and sirat had always been above what she gave to naira and akshara.
Sirat though she took kairav and akshara as her own when it came to her own daughter instead of trying to mend her daughter ways it's always sirat telling akshu to adjust as aarohi is choti, adamant and uncontrollable.
Aarohi with her daughter told her life is fulfilled. How come she can't be with her daughter in tummy she achieved what she can never do. She had wanted to compete with ak and win over her in anything. In her obsession she chose neil a hospital md above what she dreamt of getting a doctor who is successful. Now through her daughter she got a royal place in birla house, hospital and the best part of it all is abhi leaving his own family life and doing non stop servant work to her daughter.
Akshara when abhir was born she clearly told herself that she is a selfish mom and would do anything for her son and asked abhinav consent to be abhir father.
Shifali chose her bad karma for her son so that he can get a full family instead of a broken one.
ABHIRA
Not talking much about them now. Maybe another day another big post and jaap by me. π€π€π€ For now let me make it simple. Abhi met nav an accha admi who told his family jaap again and again and kicked abhi in heart. This had always been abhi dream family with akshu. Ak on the other hand the moment she saw abhi one side she is afraid of her past hunting her. And her worst fear is abhi rejections be it for her son Or herself on the other side she don't want to distrub her and her son safe and secure present life. In iccha kund ak wished to explore her feelings for abhi. Her journey for their love started with her trying to understand their love, their marriage until she lost her own self in her love.
LADIES IN BLUE
Ladies in blue are kicking as uniters of abhira and their family.
Mata in blue kicked abhi for shadi and banda ran to himalayas next day. π₯³π₯³π₯³
Aarohi gave in gate way for it as conference and sent him away.
Next mahima kicked abhi twice how important conference is and he can't leave it in half way.
Akshu in blue kicked nav for coming home getting cheated which in trun made baap beta meet in keechad wala football β½ground. π₯³π₯³π₯³
FINALLY
I see people everywhere around since a month talking about aarohi and abhi shadi. Now added with it is ak and nav shadi. If shadi is what they wanted to do why should abhi waste his petrol money and come this far to shimla and see a happy married ak and go back to marry ar. Doesn't he know ak married already he could have done that then only or when his mata told to marry ar. He could have invested his petrol money on shadi mala. π€π€π€
Akshu could have married for real 6 years back not to sit with a fake shadi and damage herself in front of society.
Not come and meet each other and go back to kachra.
Both in a way did penance for neil death. Both learnt responsibilities in life. Abhi always told ak to tc of herself and live for herself instead of helping others which ak is doing now. Ak told abhi to take family responsibilities and abhi learnt how to do it in all these years. Top it all he always fought with ak how can she bend for others and do everything for aarohi now with his very own hands he realised what sort of life ak lived back then.
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