okay I have a slightly different view when it comes to papaG. 😆
like I said before in parent-conflict thread, my lens is different because I have seen real parent-child conflict.
1. once we start doing tally of who is wrong or who is wrong more, the conflict never ends. it not only goes on for years but keeps snowballing into bigger and bigger and bigger conflicts. it also gets uninvolved people into the conflict as people have to pick sides. serious headache.
2. it may not be obvious but papaG willing to come down and allow mamaG to invite katha and aarav itself is a huge step. it means he too wants reconciliation. so taking that first step is a lot harder than one thinks. you have to put aside your own pride, selfish feelings and hurt. you have to be willing to be hospitable. so that takes a lot more from a person than what we think.
3. while it may seem that papaG is not going to suffer, actually he is the type of personality that will suffer enormously when he realizes what katha has done to raise the money. he will take it personally and will hurt.
4. yes, papaG cursing aarav is bad but people say nasty things in heat of moment. to be honest, am not surprised because I have heard stuff on those lines and you are thinking "come on! 🤦♀️" ... and a while later, the same person is feeling awful and saying "but why are they fighting with me like this?!"... and again, you are thinking "come on! 🤦♀️"
5. papaG rejecting katha's request -- depends on your lens. if I just see it from katha's perspective, it seems heartless but then when I see it from the perspective of family conflicts, it happens often in different formats. when people are so caught up in their feelings, they don't want to have anything to do with the othe party. instead, it is indifferent "you take care of your own problem, am not getting involved."...
so before he didn't know aarav. now he does. so papaG will hurt whenever he thinks of how he behaved.
having witnessed real life family conflicts, will say that there is no such thing as instant redemption or reconciliation. basically some hurts cannot be undone and some distance will be there. it may take years to bridge those gaps and let those feelings go. and people feel bad later for the things they said and did. it can eat them up -- if we see a sensitive track (am just being hopeful for this drama), then we might see those feelings come into play.
if we are going through typical ITV shenanigans, then yes, it can seem like papaG didn't face any consequences. we will have to really wait and see how it plays out. a bit too early to call.
Edited by mango.falooda - 1 years ago
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