Originally posted by: Ashi_Naksh
Since they are back in Moga, Fateh has never questioned or argued with Tejo hence there are rare instances about Tejo mentioning the affair things. But, when Tejo is put in a difficult situation, she throws the affair thing on his face directly/indirectly which makes me doubt whether she is ready to be in relationship with him. The horror of the past still haunts her. It is Tejo, who needs to be clear and sure in her head whether she wants to get back to her ex-husband who once cheated on her. Even Fateh knows he has f**ked up, he cannot undo his past and he is trying to be a better human being but if he is kept reminded by Tejo about this every time they argue then he will never come out of the guilt and they cannot move on with their relationship. She needs to speak with Fateh once and get over this or let Fateh know that they cannot have any relationship.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but it's happened only once...and that too T didn't start it. If she actually wanted to, there have been so many instances where she could have thrown this on his face. This is the second time T, and very clearly first time T reminds him, that too because F has cornered her, shouted at her. What you are saying, will happen, until now they hadn't gotten any chance at all between accident, atrangi shadi, and chamrik nautanki.
This is not how marriage works. If your partner keeps slapping you with your past mistake then one day the person is going to give up on you. If there’s unresolved hurt then it is necessary to address those past events, but if it’s just ammunition to use in a fight, that’s a very bad sign and a very bad move to make if you want that relationship to work. Right now, I believe Tejo is using Fateh’s past as an ammunition against him so that he just shuts up and don’t question her.
A marriage doesn't work that way. Rn it's not that. And T isnt 'regularly slapping him' with his past. This is the first time she's done it, and that too when he's accusing her of something horrible.
Their mistakes are different and so was their repentance then how can Tejo judge Angad and Fateh with same yardstick? It is not a right move in my opinion. Angad is obsessed about her and Tejo knows that he has mental issues. The mess that Virks and Tejo are in right now is somewhere Angad’s mistake, she knows that. Angad abducted her, took her to isolated place and was trying to impose himself on her, he had almost became physical with her by holding, grabbing and dragging. Is this same as what Fateh did? Nope, then why are they both treated same. Fateh is getting his karma and so should Angad. You can never have one solution for all the problems in your life.
First of all, Tejo has the same yardstick for everyone, if she forgives someone, she forgets also. So yes, she does not care about what Angad did, and for her he's her friend who made a mistake, but was also there with her when she needed him the most.
And Fateh... Fateh stood before her, lied in their bed after spending the days with her younger sister. he looked her in eyes, as she doted over him, did everything a perfect wife would do while he was parading her sister. He slept with her and pretended that nothing happened. He stood in front of her as she walked on glass and bled. He accused her of cheating, shouted at her, gaslighted her, humiliated her in front of everyone, put her down, kept his mistress in front of her, pda with her in front of her eyes. Angad physically abused her once, Fateh abused her for months emotionally.
Imo, even with all the Angad's shitf#kery, nowhere the damage is same. Fateh has done way worse things. It's not one mistake. It's not a can of worms. It's a whole ass warehouse of can of worms. Any one incident would be enough to be shitty on it's own when you realize it's Tejo, practically perfect who suffered all this. And he did all of this. Constantly consistently.
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