Originally posted by: sharafah
Thanks for being positive Aisha🤗 And thanks for making me feel better 😳 Aisha Ani is feeling alone because he does not want to talk to Bon.. how old was Mini around 18... Ninja girl maybe 20... how is Bon around 12 to 13.... the age difference is not that big between Bon and Mini.... it is his choice not being open to Bon...Mini could not understand him when Bon did... right now the only thing Bon might not understand is his version of love which is romance and physical intimacy... to be honest seems like for Ani Love = must have physical intimacy if not that is not considered love.... then why did he refuse to marry Mini? Is it because he lost interest in her or cuz he felt bad for sending Bon away and maybe thought if Bon was in the haveli then it was fine to marry Mini if she was a positive character or he was really against polygamy?! Or is Ani trying to set a new definition saying that it is wrong to marry 2 times but can love more than once outside of marraige given the fact he can change his idea that he is married or not time to time? I am not getting an understanding about his perception... than why "apki Pati Bau ki Bondita..apki bati babu ki rakshak Babu?"... If he touches Ninja in any way I am not going to feel any better Aisha.... I will just be feeling more irked.. he should not preach if he cant follow it... that is what I am saying....sometimes I feel ARC feels like he can do anything first and then say sorry...
Hey buddy...
You are right...i agree with you. Just want to add a few things:
1- He is lonely because he chooses to. Agreed. However, I think at the moment, he doesnt feel that 'partner' wala connect with Bondu which should be present in normal husband and wife. Although we, the audience and even Bondu think that he has that connection with her, but Ani doesnt. He somewhere still feels that she is a small kid and shouldnt be burdened much...(altough that small kid was even smaller during the entire HM track...but anyway...)
2- Out of Bon and Mini, he would always choose Bon. He likes her honesty. Mini was all vanity. And Aniruddh learned that the hard way. However, in that case he didnt turn to Bon because he had suddenly fallen in love with her.No. He turned towards her because he felt that she was wronged. First by himself, and then by mini. I thought it then also that Ani's sudden develoment of trust which we loved so much at tht time was borne out of his guilt. So, again, I believe, the required 'connection' got overruled.
3- He had saurav then and he could open his heart out in front of him. He does not have any best friend now. I used to believe that he now thinks that Bondu is his best friend and confidante, but lately I have seen him only talking to her about her education nd her future only. For Aniruddh, in this relationship, everything revolves around Bon only. And that is somewhere making him lonelier too.
4- No one is getting the understanding of his perception. 😆 Its as flawed as it comes. 😆 We will have to wait for him to get his senses back and to learn what the real definition of love entails.
5- Touching Ninja is a big no no for me. However, ths Aniruddh once got so consumed by his emotions that he told Mini also that he loved her 🤢 That is where we see his 'crazy in love' wali side too. But then also, he realized his mistake and tried to do damage control. However, he was at fault then.
6- With Ninja, he may feel that instant attraction and that comaraderie tht his heart is seeking. But touching her would be way out of line. I will be angry too. But I really hope that the makers will not take us through that hell.
I dont know if I have been able to answer you satisfactorily or not. These are just my views. I dont mean to project them on you. 🤗
Edited by Doc.love - 3 years ago
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