You explained really well Rimi 👍🏼
I won't be able to comment much on this sensitive topic as I'm still stuck on those disgusting talks..I literally had my face covered while watching the epi as I couldn't see Bon laughing unknowingly with those devils😡
You have done a good job Rimi..Try writing such reviews often as you seem to be very good with it👍🏼
Rimi a hearty thanks to you for writing this important review with much needed awareness regarding current track.. After months, I thought about writing reviews on BB episodes just yesterday.. But after seeing your reviews, I fell short of words.. You said it all beautifully. You have penned it down so delicately that a reader can feel the pain of a girl on those pre independence era… !! The title itself is a best and symbolism of our dark history..
Shaheen 🤗 so good to see you here. I am glad you understood my point and also the thing which makers want to show. To be honest, when I first saw the episode I immediately knew that there needs to be an explanation for this episode because most people might not get what they are trying to show. 😒
Yepp!! Hats off to makers for bringing these sensitive issues into limelight which existed in our very own country where our ancestors in the name of customs and traditions pushed every girl into the hell of fire subconsciously owing to cherish happiness..
Very apt 👌 they way makers are showing hasti khelti women who are having fun about the custom, it is bringing out a painful and dark truth ...🥺 not one person is telling Bon what it means, nobody is guiding her.. she has just become a tool now 😭 and people are celebrating it
You can never heal completely. The scars will always stay behind, just to remind how cruel the time was once to you. But someday, you will learn to see beauty in the world that gave you these scars. And your eyes will shine with no lies in it. That day, you become beautiful. With bearing all the scars, Which you always tried to hide from everyone. Kudos to makers for showing this reality of women's destiny in a delicate yet subtle way. They clearly showed how cruelly sweet are the echoes that start, when memory plays an old tune on the heart!
Very well said Shaheen 👏 specially the last line here 👏 Makers are showing it with hidden meanings and dark humor. Not everyone will get it but those who do, will know and feel the pain 💔 to be honest, I feel broken from inside when I see Anirudh's helplessness and Bon's innocence in this situation 😭 Ani knows what everyone wants him to do and is shattered, frustrated and angry from within. Bon who doesn't know what people are asking her to do is carefree because she knows her Patibabu is there 🥺
It was cruel. Like opening a birdcage to let the bird fly out, whilst all the while it's tethered by the leg, and freedom is only an illusion.. In the four walls of customs and rituals, the girls have been imprisoned and caged all through these decades. Nature can be cruel. Predators are everywhere. Those who don't need to be protected from outside forces often need to be protected from themselves. In society, women are referred to as "the fairer gender". But in the wild, the female species can be far more ferocious than their male counterparts. Defending the nest is both our oldest and strongest instinct. And sometimes, it can also be the most gratifying.. All these years, girls ferociously taming themselves to keep
them alive amidst this brutal male chauvinism….
True. The way females exist in the wild explains so much about us. When a cat gives birth to her young ones, my parents always tell me to stay away from the kittens initially. Because a protective mother can be the most ferocious thing ever. Male chauvinism has indeed suppressed the true nature of female.
"Aapne hi kaha tha na Patibabu, Mahavari se kuchh nahi badalta... fir aap kyu aise badal gaye.." This line forecasted the cry out of an innocent heart whose mind is juggled with numerous questions.. Innocence tinctures all things with brightest hues. Sometimes unintentionally cruel is the worst cruel of all. And that's what society has been to girls those days. Within a period of dawn and dusk, a girl's life sets in forever forbidden darkness.. We've let the blade of our innocence dull over time, and it's only in innocence that you find any kind of magic, any kind of courage. But, here our Bondu's innocence is like a polished armour which will be adored and defended by his saviour ARC, a man who can draw his sword and slit the throat of his tormentor. This little kid is longing to understand the sudden changes in her life overnight, her questions are reliable but answers are still inconclusive..
Agreed! That is so so true.. just few days earlier Bon was considered to be an little innocent kid and now all of a sudden she is being told to happy do something which needs a very mature mind, and body to comprehend. 😭
I am glad that Bon has ARC for her ❤️ I don't know if he will be able to answer all her questions entirely... but I am sure he will not let her innocence suffer.
People tend to forget the fact that The shedding of blood has historically been seen as a male act of heroism: from right-of-passage fistfights, to contact sports and combat. Infrequent, random events seen as standalone milestones; stories to tell once the pain - and enough time - has passed.
Wow I never thought of it this way.. Brilliant thought 👏
Female bleeding is more mundane, more frequent, more getwithit, despite its existence being the reason that every single life begins.. They tend to forget that there's a right time for everything.
They tend to forget that there is no formula to relationships. They have to be negotiated in loving ways, with room for both parties, what they want and what they need, what they can do and what their life is like. They tend to forget that Love is when you are as concerned about someone else’s situation as you are about your own.
Exactly! They fail to understand the true essence of love.
The custom of consummation which these people force on little underage girls could actually be a beautiful experience if it is done at the right mental and physical age, between a couple who understands and respects each other and most importantly with love, consent and feelings ❤️
But unfortunately since ages this has been taken up in the wrong way and most women have been forced into it unwillingly. That is why in today's world it is considered a taboo.
That little kid is getting ready to pave her destiny to some undesirable destination.!! And sadistically those victims are paving way for another innocent predation with cheers!! I pity those young souls who are unaware of things happening to them in the name of rituals and guardians order.. Their desires are buried within their heart.
Yes I felt pained to see Bondita laughing away at all the jokes unaware of what they meant 🥺
Yep!! Bondita, an innocent soul who always dreams of flying high, step ups to bring a change and set an example and who sings a melody of warriors are just now bound to cherish his husband's wish and happiness.. Mens who spike girls' desires to their wants, saying they're true assailants will be understatement.. Think of those girls who had never given wings to fly. !!!!
The world is little, people are little, human life is little. There is only one big thing - desire. Desire is the kind of thing that eats you and leaves you starving. People quickly change their desires as circumstances change.. The people who always shut girls' spell of words saying that they're kids all of a sudden want the same girl to walk past the most difficult pasteurs of life.. Wants young girls to dump under the desires of mens to bear some peace. Desire is a powerful force that can be used to make things happen. And for the sake of their ruthless desires, they want girls like Bondita to give up their happiness to stimulate others' wishes..
You're right. It is Kaka's desire that he now suddenly wants Bon to go through a process which requires immense mental as well as physical awareness and maturity. In tomorrow's episode he tells her not to come out of the room at any cost. Maybe he knows she won't like it ? 🥺 I don't know but it is really disheartening 🤔
The saddest tragedy is that the biggest pains we receive from our cherished circles. They love and live with us but fail to endure the pain of each other.. Kaka and the entire RC's love Bondita but they want the little soul to get dwell under their dreams and wishes.. They tend to mould nature according to their wills in case of girls and demould nature's will for mens.. These are some prejudices that existed before.. Still, today men's success is rated with his achievements and women's by their rate of keeping their family happy but their sacrifices are not measured in fact not even accountable.. Here, Kaka wants children from Bon as the cause of her life and happiness.
That is exactly what I wanted to say! 👏you have put it down beautifully 🤗 Here Kaka is doing all this thinking that it is good for her. That's the painful part, people never even considered a woman's say in all this. They never thought how a woman would feel and that her say is equally important. She is considered to be a tool for bearing a child and brining the next generation into the family. It is treated to be her prime motive of existence and happiness. Basically she is not treated as an individual at all 🥺 and in this case I must say even the boys like Anirudh were not spared. Their wishes were also not considered and they were somehow forced into all this. As Kaka talked to bihari about jadi booti ka laddu.. it felt as if it was a well known way to make the guy do what the society wants him to even if he himself is not ready for it.
"Sajne me bahut khushi hoti hai, par baad me jo hota hai, saari khushi gayab ho jaati hai" , this line from the girl who was already a victim of such cruelty portrayed the sad reality of that era where's girls minds were dwelled with sweet and unknown fantasies and allow their innocent soul to get cremated in the lust of others desires and quest. Bondu is getting ready happily, unaware of the fact that people giggling around her are the ones who will push her to the grievous grave where her happiness will be buried within the falls of miseries. She is unaware of the fact that her hallucinations of flying high are going to get tore into ashes of tears and repentance forever. Kudos to Aura for portraying this very well beyond excellence..
Yes it was so heartbreaking to see that little girl , she looked devoid of any happiness 🥺 what all she might have expected before entering into that room and what horror she might have faced after that...I can't even imagine 🥺
Regarding aurra I must say she is a very brave and skilled actress. Great actors who do method acting often live few months of their lives as the character they want to portray in order to get it right. Whether it is the role of a drug addict or an autistic person, they live and feel the characters before they put it on screen. So we can say that acting always requires you to push yourself a bit and a true actor is an artist who readily accepts what is given to them. Same way if the track is about child abuse , in order to show it on screen a child has to be involved and Kudos to Aurra for not only understanding the issues so well but also presenting it beautifully on screen.
Yesss!! The episode is uncomfortable and disturbing to watch with those dialogues being dictated to a girl who is unaware of anything happening around.. We looked and encountered the episode with our mindset and present era.. On the other hand, it's a really bitter truth that the girls of the same age were made to sit in the same venture all deck up only to sacrifice their childhood, happiness, dreams and cremate their soul and aspirations entrapped by others imperations.. We can't even imagine those girls' worries and agonies.. Fortunately, we are not in that darkness.. But the question is, even after decades and independence, are girls allowed to fly free? Are girls' aspirations reaching their destination?? Are girls secure in their places? Are girls allowed to be artists of their own picture, writers of their own story??? The Answer is NO…
Yes! Agreed totally! 👍 the answer is still no 🥺
Societies and communities change, dictionaries are rewritten; people and ideas die off. The point is for us to develop so much that when we outgrow the awareness of the community, we willfully reach back to pull others forward with our knowledge. When this will be established, then girls can fly high flapping their wings high owning their dreams…… … ..
Very true and well said Shaheen! 🤗
Sorry for the long post!! 🤗
Sorry??? I should be thanking you for jotting down this beautiful peice of writeup on my review 🤗 you have added your own flavor to what I wanted to say and your thoughts and words create magic! ❤️
I feel so much better after reading your post...
Sorry for long reply 🤣🤣🤣
My replies in non italics 🤪 🤪
Originally posted by: Scarlett_15
You explained really well Rimi 👍🏼
I won't be able to comment much on this sensitive topic as I'm still stuck on those disgusting talks..I literally had my face covered while watching the epi as I couldn't see Bon laughing unknowingly with those devils😡
You have done a good job Rimi..Try writing such reviews often as you seem to be very good with it👍🏼
Fifa tune padha 🤣🤣Vo bhi 1 din me hi 🤪
Thank you behen 🤗
Seriously those aunties talks were 🤢😡🤬
Nah nah mai nai likh sakti.. mere khurafaati dinaag ko serious karne ke liye episode me tagda element hona chahiye varna I cannot be serious 🤣 u know that 🤣
Please post this MF ma so that everyone can view easily
Rimi a hearty thanks to you for writing this important review with much needed awareness regarding current track.. After months, I thought about writing reviews on BB episodes just yesterday.. But after seeing your reviews, I fell short of words.. You said it all beautifully. You have penned it down so delicately that a reader can feel the pain of a girl on those pre independence era… !! The title itself is a best and symbolism of our dark history..
Yepp!! Hats off to makers for bringing these sensitive issues into limelight which existed in our very own country where our ancestors in the name of customs and traditions pushed every girl into the hell of fire subconsciously owing to cherish happiness.. You can never heal completely. The scars will always stay behind, just to remind how cruel the time was once to you. But someday, you will learn to see beauty in the world that gave you these scars. And your eyes will shine with no lies in it. That day, you become beautiful. With bearing all the scars, Which you always tried to hide from everyone. Kudos to makers for showing this reality of women's destiny in a delicate yet subtle way. They clearly showed how cruelly sweet are the echoes that start, when memory plays an old tune on the heart!
It was cruel. Like opening a birdcage to let the bird fly out, whilst all the while it's tethered by the leg, and freedom is only an illusion.. In the four walls of customs and rituals, the girls have been imprisoned and caged all through these decades. Nature can be cruel. Predators are everywhere. Those who don't need to be protected from outside forces often need to be protected from themselves. In society, women are referred to as "the fairer gender". But in the wild, the female species can be far more ferocious than their male counterparts. Defending the nest is both our oldest and strongest instinct. And sometimes, it can also be the most gratifying.. All these years, girls ferociously taming themselves to keep
them alive amidst this brutal male chauvinism….
"Aapne hi kaha tha na Patibabu, Mahavari se kuchh nahi badalta... fir aap kyu aise badal gaye.." This line forecasted the cry out of an innocent heart whose mind is juggled with numerous questions.. Innocence tinctures all things with brightest hues. Sometimes unintentionally cruel is the worst cruel of all. And that's what society has been to girls those days. Within a period of dawn and dusk, a girl's life sets in forever forbidden darkness.. We've let the blade of our innocence dull over time, and it's only in innocence that you find any kind of magic, any kind of courage. But, here our Bondu's innocence is like a polished armour which will be adored and defended by his saviour ARC, a man who can draw his sword and slit the throat of his tormentor. This little kid is longing to understand the sudden changes in her life overnight, her questions are reliable but answers are still inconclusive..
People tend to forget the fact that The shedding of blood has historically been seen as a male act of heroism: from right-of-passage fistfights, to contact sports and combat. Infrequent, random events seen as standalone milestones; stories to tell once the pain - and enough time - has passed. Female bleeding is more mundane, more frequent, more getwithit, despite its existence being the reason that every single life begins.. They tend to forget that there's a right time for everything. They tend to forget that there is no formula to relationships. They have to be negotiated in loving ways, with room for both parties, what they want and what they need, what they can do and what their life is like. They tend to forget that Love is when you are as concerned about someone else’s situation as you are about your own. That little kid is getting ready to pave her destiny to some undesirable destination.!! And sadistically those victims are paving way for another innocent predation with cheers!! I pity those young souls who are unaware of things happening to them in the name of rituals and guardians order.. Their desires are buried within their heart.
Yep!! Bondita, an innocent soul who always dreams of flying high, step ups to bring a change and set an example and who sings a melody of warriors are just now bound to cherish his husband's wish and happiness.. Mens who spike girls' desires to their wants, saying they're true assailants will be understatement.. Think of those girls who had never given wings to fly. !!!!
The world is little, people are little, human life is little. There is only one big thing - desire. Desire is the kind of thing that eats you and leaves you starving. People quickly change their desires as circumstances change.. The people who always shut girls' spell of words saying that they're kids all of a sudden want the same girl to walk past the most difficult pasteurs of life.. Wants young girls to dump under the desires of mens to bear some peace. Desire is a powerful force that can be used to make things happen. And for the sake of their ruthless desires, they want girls like Bondita to give up their happiness to stimulate others' wishes..
The saddest tragedy is that the biggest pains we receive from our cherished circles. They love and live with us but fail to endure the pain of each other.. Kaka and the entire RC's love Bondita but they want the little soul to get dwell under their dreams and wishes.. They tend to mould nature according to their wills in case of girls and demould nature's will for mens.. These are some prejudices that existed before.. Still, today men's success is rated with his achievements and women's by their rate of keeping their family happy but their sacrifices are not measured in fact not even accountable.. Here, Kaka wants children from Bon as the cause of her life and happiness.
"Sajne me bahut khushi hoti hai, par baad me jo hota hai, saari khushi gayab ho jaati hai" , this line from the girl who was already a victim of such cruelty portrayed the sad reality of that era where's girls minds were dwelled with sweet and unknown fantasies and allow their innocent soul to get cremated in the lust of others desires and quest. Bondu is getting ready happily, unaware of the fact that people giggling around her are the ones who will push her to the grievous grave where her happiness will be buried within the falls of miseries. She is unaware of the fact that her hallucinations of flying high are going to get tore into ashes of tears and repentance forever. Kudos to Aura for portraying this very well beyond excellence..
Yesss!! The episode is uncomfortable and disturbing to watch with those dialogues being dictated to a girl who is unaware of anything happening around.. We looked and encountered the episode with our mindset and present era.. On the other hand, it's a really bitter truth that the girls of the same age were made to sit in the same venture all deck up only to sacrifice their childhood, happiness, dreams and cremate their soul and aspirations entrapped by others imperations.. We can't even imagine those girls' worries and agonies.. Fortunately, we are not in that darkness.. But the question is, even after decades and independence, are girls allowed to fly free? Are girls' aspirations reaching their destination?? Are girls secure in their places? Are girls allowed to be artists of their own picture, writers of their own story??? The Answer is NO…
Societies and communities change, dictionaries are rewritten; people and ideas die off. The point is for us to develop so much that when we outgrow the awareness of the community, we willfully reach back to pull others forward with our knowledge. When this will be established, then girls can fly high flapping their wings high owning their dreams…… … ..
Sorry for the long post!! 🤗
This is really beautiful.
You and Shaheen said it so beautifully.Originally posted by: ..RiMi..
Thank you so much! 🤗 I am glad you could relate ❤️
Yes I remember you Of course 🤗❤️
Originally posted by: RoyalDreams97
You and Shaheen said it so beautifully.
Thank you... even I want her to post that on MF as well 😳
Originally posted by: ..RiMi..
Fifa tune padha 🤣🤣Vo bhi 1 din me hi 🤪
Thank you behen 🤗
Seriously those aunties talks were 🤢😡🤬
Nah nah mai nai likh sakti.. mere khurafaati dinaag ko serious karne ke liye episode me tagda element hona chahiye varna I cannot be serious 🤣 u know that 🤣
Yes I know Rimi..Mujhse behtar aur kaun jaan sakta hai🤪🤣
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