Originally posted by: Doc.love
Nimaaaaa! 🤗 Thank you so much, my beautiful friend! You always motivate me so much and encourage me to write more and more. Thank you sooo much for your kind comments. 🤗
I am glad that you liked my choice of words... 😳 I was afraid that my vocab may make people uncomfortable here. I am glad that didn't happen.
Ani in my mind is always going to be the torch-bearer, the guiding light for Bondu. I am not saying that Bondu will need his guidance for a long time as she herself is really smart. But I think the dynamics of a husband and wife need that kind of reliance of a wife on her husband... In Ani's case, he is anyway a lot older than Bon, and he knows her inside out. His experience is more and his outlook is vaster. Even when Bondu becomes independent, I would still want her to have that kind of respect and reliance for maybe her emotional needs on her husband. 😳 It's just an orthodox and stereotypical way that I take this relationship between a husband and wife. You may not agree with me... 😳
Answering such questions and addressing these issues "in a proper way" is really important especially when the kids are growing and they get exposed to various topics like sex etc. If adults act weird regarding these issues, the kids will automatically believe that it is something taboo... or controversial. If the adults normalize these things and teach the kids the rights and the wrongs, the kids will automatically believe that these things are just normal parts of life and they will not put extra thoughts into such matters.
Thats what worked for me at least when I was growing up... 😆
Can’t agree more Ayesha🤗
I also think the same about a wife being emotionally dependent on husband.. actually that is the beauty of this relationship.. isn’t it? That’s why they are called each other’s better half!! 😊
And like you I also want grown up Bon to still emotionally rely on her patibabu :)
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