Mishti's sister issues

How can she solve this problem once and for all?

I thought she should ignore Kuhu but again Kuhu has history of getting violent when she sees Mishti Happy

After thinking through I came to a conclusion that Mishti should not hide Kuhu's wrongdoings, she should tell everyone about everything kuhu has done from email fiasco to Janmashtami attack

Let them know that in no circumstances, Mishti and Kuhu are on same level. Its because people don't know about Kuhu's wrongdoings that people think both are equally wrong. 

Even kids are sent to juvenile court and juvenile jail for doing what Kuhu did to Mishti, but here she gets to live a good life and torture Mishti more and more

Its not normal to live with someone like kuhu,it is exhausting and toxic in every sense

Mishti doesn’t know about Kuhu’s Janmashtami crime, nobody knows except us viewers. That push could have killed Mishti or Abir or any of the kids! But as usual Kuhu escaped undetected like most serial villains! 

And Yes, Mishti should tell everyone about Kuhu’s email hacking and putting sleeping pills in Mishti’s coffee which Abir drank and got really sick! 
And most recently Kuhu sent blackmailing letters to Mishti which is known to Mishbir and Kunal only, the other RJVs and Maheshwaris none of them know this.

All these three are crimes punishable by law 

But unfortunately Mishti and Abir have hidden all these crimes of Kuhu and now Abir and everyone else expects Mishti to compromise and adjust with Kuhu’s ugly false accusations regarding the magazine cover! 

It’s the absolute limit, Really! How far will they test the viewers’ patience with this continued ignoring of Kuhu’s crimes and abuses on Mishti? While Mish is expected to forgive Kuhu everytime and even say sorry for things she’s not remotely responsible for!

Kuhu is an unhinged character, consumed by her hatred for Mishti. She resents every happy moment of Mishbir and blames Mishti for any problem in her life. Mishti cannot stay in RJV house with this toxic bully, she and Abir have to move out! Abir won’t leave the house so eventually Mishti will be forced to bend before her bully and accept all the abuse for Abir’s sake! Is that love? When you expect your beloved to sacrifice her dignity and self worth to appease a *Edited by DT*? Instead of getting Kuhu treated for her severe behavioral problems, they want to send Mishti into depression! Wow just Wow! 

And here are some questions for Abir: 

Abir Beta, 

Don’t just prioritize your family, your brother and his wife, give some respect and value to your wife too! You married her promising to love and cherish her all your life!

CHERISH- not undermine her self respect and expect her to compromise everytime! 

At this rate Mishti will again lose all her confidence and become a punching bag for Meenu and Kuhu. 

Hasn’t Mishti adjusted and sacrificed enough already for Kuhu? She gave up wedding mandap on Kuhu’s insistence, you both gave up your room at the resort for KuKu, and all the other things she’s given up all her growing years to appease Kuhu for her adoptive family’s sake?

So now what? She should give up her dignity, her self respect for Kuhu just to keep peace in your family?

Kuhu ne kaha Mandap chhod do

Tumney kaha kamra chhod do

Ab Ben Ba kahengi Ghar chhod do?

Whatever is happening in the show right now is because of mishbir n them taking kuhus behaviour towards mishti casually.. Actually this show shud be renamed as 'Yeh Insecurities Hain Kuhu Ke' 🤪 bcoz the whole show has been dealing with this same issue /theme since the past one year

Originally posted by: Rashi23

Whatever is happening in the show right now is because of mishbir n them taking kuhus behaviour towards mishti casually.. Actually this show shud be renamed as 'Yeh Insecurities Hain Kuhu Ke' 🤪 bcoz the whole show has been dealing with this same issue /theme since the past one year

But why is Kuhu so insecure? Because she’s illegitimate? But Maheshwaris spoiled her rotten and never made her feel so!

It’s because Kuhu suffers from Narcissistic Personality disorder. Her behavior matches with many of the traits of this disorder. Such people tend to be bullies, can be dangerous and have an extremely inflated ego.

Here are characteristics of NPD

1) pathological lying

2) glib and superficial charm

3)grandiose sense of self

4)need for stimulation

5)cunning and manipulative

6) lack of remorse or guilt

7) shallow emotional response

8) callousness and lack of empathy

9)parasitic lifestyle

10)poor behavioral controls

11) early behavior problems

12)lack of realistic long-term goals

13) impulsivity

14)irresponsibility

15) failure to accept responsibility 

16)  criminal versatility

Originally posted by: pallavi25

But why is Kuhu so insecure? Because she’s illegitimate? But Maheshwaris spoiled her rotten and never made her feel so!

It’s because Kuhu suffers from Narcissistic Personality disorder. Her behavior matches with many of the traits of this disorder. Such people tend to be bullies, can be dangerous and have an extremely inflated ego.

Here are characteristics of NPD

1) pathological lying

2) glib and superficial charm

3)grandiose sense of self

4)need for stimulation

5)cunning and manipulative

6) lack of remorse or guilt

7) shallow emotional response

8) callousness and lack of empathy

9)parasitic lifestyle

10)poor behavioral controls

11) early behavior problems

12)lack of realistic long-term goals

13) impulsivity

14)irresponsibility

15) failure to accept responsibility 

16)  criminal versatility

I don't know why she is Insecure.. Someone else can give you a 'proper analysis'  🤪

Frankly they have stretched this issue way too much, that we don't even know what is her main issue 

First of all I am really pissed of with sister issue which every where ppl r screaming like hell.Bhai issue kya hain??? Mujhe yeh samjhao koi !!! Konsa issue hain bhai ??? 

R dey really 5 yr old 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀ insecurity 🤣🤣🤣 I should laugh  out loud 🤣🤣🤣now. Bhai konsa insecurity kis baat ki insecurity!! It's a plain jealousy when u know d other person is doing better dan you or being more happy then you. 

Ek photo kya nahi aiyi cover page mein toh pure ghar mein tandav kar diya. 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀ phir poore ghar mein  chilaa chilaa ke kisiko curse karna. 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀ she should be grateful meenu ne kuch zyada nahi kaha. Varsha seriously should know what kind of behavior her daughter is doing for just a mere photo jo uska tha hi nahi in first place . Kisiko dukh hona chahiye woh hain kunal 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀ he did lot of hardwork , plz ab koi use uska credit mat cheen lena, he didn't get it in one year bohot saal kam kiya phir mila . If any one should be credited for his success dan it should be meenu . Mein agar kuch asa karti toh phir bhai muhje mummy se jhoote chaapal sab parte!!! This is not d way to behave in your own home sasuraal toh dur ki baat hain . 

Mishti mata plz abir ki baat suniye aur mishbir house mein shift ho jaiye. Itni kya family se pyaar 🙄🙄 konsi insecurity hain bhai aapko 🤦‍♀🤦‍♀ homebreaker ka tag lage ga.???Seriously tum sirf pati ke saath alag house mein shift hogi dusri city mein nahi. Apni aur apne pati ka sanity maintain kare. Abir is not referee jo hamesha kuhu aur aapki problem solve kare  ya unn problem ke wajah se apni saare family  peace ko bali de,. Y should he n his family suffer for dis??? .kripiya kar ke 🙏🙏apne pati ko bhi bachia nahi toh kya patha  aapki so call out of control  behen phir apni "SO CALLED INSECURITY " Mein abir ko hi kuch kar de. Very much capable of it.apki behen kabhi nahi sudhregi  . 

Meenu kya sahi kehti thi yeh dono uske parivaar ke liye sahi nahi hain 👏👏👏 kya mast shanti break kar rahi hain uske ghar mein. Abir hi nalayak hain apne saath saath kunal ki bhi zindagi kharab kar diya. Bechaare kunal kya sorted tha apne life mein. Kaha phasa diye aur kis ke saath phasa diya.  

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

First of all I am really pissed of with sister issue which every where ppl r screaming like hell.Bhai issue kya hain??? Mujhe yeh samjhao koi !!! Konsa issue hain bhai ??? 

R dey really 5 yr old 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀ insecurity 🤣🤣🤣 I should laugh  out loud 🤣🤣🤣now. Bhai konsa insecurity kis baat ki insecurity!! It's a plain jealousy when u know d other person is doing better dan you or being more happy then you. 

Ek photo kya nahi aiyi cover page mein toh pure ghar mein tandav kar diya. 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀ phir poore ghar mein  chilaa chilaa ke kisiko curse karna. 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀ she should be grateful meenu ne kuch zyada nahi kaha. Varsha seriously should know what kind of behavior her daughter is doing for just a mere photo jo uska tha hi nahi in first place . Kisiko dukh hona chahiye woh hain kunal 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀ he did lot of hardwork , plz ab koi use uska credit mat cheen lena, he didn't get it in one year bohot saal kam kiya phir mila . If any one should be credited for his success dan it should be meenu . Mein agar kuch asa karti toh phir bhai muhje mummy se jhoote chaapal sab parte!!! This is not d way to behave in your own home sasuraal toh dur ki baat hain . 

Mishti mata plz abir ki baat suniye aur mishbir house mein shift ho jaiye. Itni kya family se pyaar 🙄🙄 konsi insecurity hain bhai aapko 🤦‍♀🤦‍♀ homebreaker ka tag lage ga.???Seriously tum sirf pati ke saath alag house mein shift hogi dusri city mein nahi. Apni aur apne pati ka sanity maintain kare. Abir is not referee jo hamesha kuhu aur aapki problem solve kare  ya unn problem ke wajah se apni saare family  peace ko bali de,. Y should he n his family suffer for dis??? .kripiya kar ke 🙏🙏apne pati ko bhi bachia nahi toh kya patha  aapki so call out of control  behen phir apni "SO CALLED INSECURITY " Mein abir ko hi kuch kar de. Very much capable of it.apki behen kabhi nahi sudhregi  . 

Meenu kya sahi kehti thi yeh dono uske parivaar ke liye sahi nahi hain 👏👏👏 kya mast shanti break kar rahi hain uske ghar mein. Abir hi nalayak hain apne saath saath kunal ki bhi zindagi kharab kar diya. Bechaare kunal kya sorted tha apne life mein. Kaha phasa diye aur kis ke saath phasa diya.  

Yah bechara Kunal ek unhinged ladki ke saath shadi karna pada sab apni Maa aur Bhai ki vajeh Se 

We would all love it if Mishbir move into their ashiyana Mishbir House! But then show will end! RJV madhouse and Meenu are needed for drama to continue 

But please CVs no more Kuhu torture 🤢

I think kuhu feels insecure bcz

When mishti did not come to Mah house..she had to share her room,things etc...which is all hers before..(in kuhu POV)..that time they were kids..if that time only she would have shared her POV to family..this issue would not arise..

Also some examples they showed like..in 2 nd epi I think..they both are supposed to sing and dance but mishti with emotional turmoil ended up on singing solo..though she did not do intentionally...kuhu got hurt bcz her chance to perform was gone...may such issues would have happened...dono involved the aur last me mishti ki ek kaam ki vajase..sab kuhu ko bhul jati he...so, this insecurity was established deeply in kuhus mind

Kanina kahi mishti bhi responsible hai..may be unintentionally..par jab peglibar e log insecure feel hua..that moment they would have discussed with family...

But now in my opinion the best thing to resolve the matter is dono ko bithake let them let out all the insecurities they faced...and should suggest them to resolve it and make them to trust each other...dilasa should be given that if we praised one that means it's not against another one...

There’s no sisters issue really, it’s Kuhu’s issues with Mishti! She’s the one who has the deep rooted hatred for Mishti which is illogical and venomous at times! Mishti on her part has forgiven Kuhu countless times and tried to be sisterly and affectionate towards her! But all she got in return was more hatred and jealousy!

Kuhu needs treatment for her issues! Mishti is a peaceful person who would be very happy to be left alone by Kuhu and not blamed and abused everyday