She used āflipperā because everybody was BULLYING her with it and she finally owned up to it. Nobody blames the rascals who used the tag- why does the victim never get any sympathy? How many times did those who called Sana by āflipperā get chastised for it in public? Did she get any of the support Mahira got from Paras for example?Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg
Sana is doing really well and her trust and faith in whatever sid tried to tell her abt all contestants will be strengthened. Its tough but part she brought it on herself jyoti. Sidharth time and again warned her. Even I never ever liked the term flipper. But she kept using it herself so there was no way out. Many a tikes I cld see ev3n salman didnt like her using it .
Her stance in MSK has helped her a lot in clearing off that tag. I hope all her fans also just wipe it out . I see many have that as their handle name. Its time they change it.
But all this shall pass and in terms of experience its going to be a great learning curve for sana. And the best is having a mature and experienced person like sid besides her ,supporting her completely and most importantly loving her . That is what matters to her. (The difference between the way she behaved regards to himanshi and now is so telling and so admirable)
Sone ko nikharne ke liye aag me tapanaa padta hai .!!!!!
I am happy Siddharth helped her too by not standing up for her then except when it really mattered in exceptional situations- he made her self-reliant by asking her to do it herself. She had to handle it herself and she did it her way and came out well for it as well. Even with regards to Himanshi she handled it extremely well even when Himanshi came down. She had her breakdown, Siddharth was with her then and she wanted to get out but not once did she go at Himanshi or lug in past baggage or speak ill of her for whatever reasons. She apologized and bore with Himanshiās nonsense. And every other HM now hates Sana for winning massive popularity, work after BB and the love of her life. She did NOT bring anything on as you say.
And there is nothing wrong in being a āflipperā . Fifafooz too said the same at the PC- it takes guts to change oneās stance whatever be the reason- be it emotional or practical and to own up to it. We do it in our life and at work every single day. We modify opinions, we adapt to situations and we move on. She was bullied with the tag thanks to Paras while others who flipped around was never bullied with it. She then owned up to it bindaas. Period. I am absolutely proud of her.
Bitchy, jealous imbeciles are around in every profession. One learns to live with them as she has and when one has the absolute trust of the love of our lives with us, it grounds us even better. Stuff like MV view count or verbal bullying etc is not the end of the world. What matters is real life and the body of work one does.
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