This may feel like a double whammy, I posted this in the episode analysis thread. I just wanted to get y’all’s view on it, I am not being insulting right or hurting anyone right?
“I think part of it is Kuhu’s childishness, not the way Abir or anyone in the show says it 😂, but in general. She cannot take responsibility for her actions, and that’s where the Mahashwaris’ have failed, they basically encouraged it and spoiled her. Both Kuhu and Mishti have their own set of flaws because of that! Mishti in a way, is very hateful towards her own self because people in the Maheshwari household actually or inadvertently made her feel like an outsider. But she also has a streak of “I can do no wrong” as well (not totally a bad thing!). Kuhu doesn’t take ownership of her actions and is very spoiled, but at the same time she is bitter because she feels she is ignored. I remember one of her dialogues: “If you cry than you are sad and upset, but if I cry than I am throwing a tantrum.” (Something like that) And again, the Maheshwari family ignored her as a child to take care of another child. So she sees Mishti as the root cause of everything! I am repeating it again, but Kuhu is not correct. But both MishKu have their own demons to fight, it is very important it address both, because both have a lot of flaws!”
Very nicely explained aishu👍🏼👏
No you've balanced the tone of your post very well, not ranting or insulting at all. Just simply trying to put forth your thoughts, with a clear explanations😊
I completely agree with you.👍🏼 I've also mentioned the same thing about Kuhu's immaturity much earlier (few weeks ago maybe during the shaadi n divorce track).
The maheshwari family have done a pretty awful job at managing these two sisters. I mean partly, at the start it was because Mishti and Kuhu never allowed their real bond be shown to the family. But at the same time, the parenting has been quite superficial and biased according to the family situation, so one or the other sister had to always end up bearing some level of pain which only added further to their deep childhood insecurities. BP BM nor varsha and Shaurya never tried to dig deep into their daughters' real psychological issues, even after coming to know about mish-ku's hostile relationship, they acted and tried to patch-them up with superficial baatein and advice that honestly doesn't make any of it better. Now that both girls are married, and to make this even more problematic, living in the same in-laws; the maheshwari family have seem to just let their responsibility loose. 1, they have put pressure on the girls who already never get along, to ensure they keep the rv house/bhai relationship intact. So basically, they are pushing the girls into the deep end of the pool, asking them to learn how to swim by themselves, which obviously hasn't worked for the last 10-15 years. How will they solve their issues amongst themselves, when all it has done over the years, is just aggravate their volatile bond. and 2. The unfinished and inadequate parenting by mah family, is now left to the rv brothers? more precisely, Abir. arre if BM, BP and varsha don't understand (or refuse to see) the depth, complexity and severity of the sister's hostile relationship...bechara Abir (who only knows the girls for 1 year), how will he know or understand how badly damaged these sisters are? That's why Abir's approach to deal with Kuhu and her issue with Mishti, is both right and wrong. It makes sense from his p.o.v., but at the same time, his flaw of looking over his bro's mistakes as just bachpana (just like he did with nanko before), is hitting his relationship with Mishti. Abir is being watchful of many things; kuhu's behaviour, Kunal's reactions, Parul-Kunal bond and ofcourse Meenu's fake act. The poor guy doesn't have anymore eyes, so he seems to be unable to see the collateral damage, hid "band-aid" theory is having on Mishti and their relationship. It's simply because he is trying to figure this complication sister situation out, with the constant underlying threat of his mother, he is unable to explain himself and his thoughts properly to Mishti. It is definitely complex. Not easy to handle, one open direct talk between mishbir is just not gonna be enough. mishbir have dug into this rabbit hole (kuhu and meenu drama) so deep, that now they are starting lose themselves in the tunnels. But their love is much stronger than these bumps in the ground, they will sooner or later find each other and realise the strength and power as a team. Mishbir's love will conquer❤️
omg oops I'm so sorry, my reply became soo long. Hopefully I didn't bore you out😆😕 haha I didn't realise I went off track from mish-ku to abir n mishti. Ahh well, I'll have to save the rest of my analysis for another post.
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