Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight
Ok ammu is interested in creating thread so informed her she will get permission n also message them about idea... lets see... vaishu you make some Vm naa for one year celebration song must be unique... maybe title song ??
Yup I was thinking about that only I will make a vm with all yrhpk songs mixed together 🤔
Ooo discussing one year epi celebration 😳
Actually meen opened 100 epi celebration thread , guess she took the the permission and it was a sticky thread too ...I actually liked her idea
She made a preparation thread for us where we gave our ideas and inputs , she told us to come up with our write ups and edits n related stuff and pm her ...whatever you can do and then in the separate main celebration thread she posted that with our names ...it was a surprise because no one knew what the other one was coming up with
Apart from that vaishu if you remember we impromptu did an award ceremony here ...I guess it was a huge hit back then ..we got more than 60 votes n all ...we should plan that hatke award ceremony again , we have so many different categories now
We can also go up for different games n stuff ...riddles and puzzles and photo stuff ...there is so much we can do ... now we have many members out here , it will be a good opportunity to get along and restore the forum atmosphere
Last time nandu opened 200 epi celebration thread ...we did questuonare stuff there...
Let's all join together and bring back our old forum vibes
😊
Originally posted by: Onyourface
Ooo discussing one year epi celebration 😳
Actually meen opened 100 epi celebration thread , guess she took the the permission and it was a sticky thread too ...I actually liked her idea
She made a preparation thread for us where we gave our ideas and inputs , she told us to come up with our write ups and edits n related stuff and pm her ...whatever you can do and then in the separate main celebration thread she posted that with our names ...it was a surprise because no one knew what the other one was coming up with
Apart from that vaishu if you remember we impromptu did an award ceremony here ...I guess it was a huge hit back then ..we got more than 60 votes n all ...we should plan that hatke award ceremony again , we have so many different categories now
We can also go up for different games n stuff ...riddles and puzzles and photo stuff ...there is so much we can do ... now we have many members out here , it will be a good opportunity to get along and restore the forum atmosphere
Last time nandu opened 200 epi celebration thread ...we did questuonare stuff there...
Let's all join together and bring back our old forum vibes
😊
oh yes the award ceremony was huge hit, now we have many more scenes.
We can have riddles, treasure hunt games, os writing competitions , and many more
We have almost 10 days for preparation, we can do it 👍🏼
Originally posted by: Cool_wonder
What’s going on guys...
1 year celebration discussion Cool
Originally posted by: Onyourface
Confuse ho gayi
the thing is truth never broke them apart, it's their decision , it was one decision by abir that lead to break up and it was one decision by mishti to come back that lead to their patch up .... jab do logo ke beech rishta toot ta hai toh un do logo ke wajah se hi toot ta hai aur phir jood ta bhi un logo ke wajah se his hai
The thing is both mishbir know each other quite well , so abir knew that haldi act was planned by meenu , meenu is trying to frame mishti in baba case and mishti also knew that abir loves her and can't really say those harsh words and hence decided to come back , abir was manipulated by meenu and there was a scene also between meenu and mishti before going to London where she says that I know you are after all this...but what mishti didn't knew that exactly how she blackmailed abir to go for a break up ...
No the actions and reactions aren't the same exactly ...even the way they handle the things are different which you explained yourself only in later part of your post
Mishti tries to be this one woman army but what she dosent realise that people are just using her in the process ... she gets all the time to decide the correct course of action be it in haldi fiasco or baba fiasco but ultimately she gives in to meenu's demands.... runs away and then also hopes that abir will come to save her
how much ever you want to deny , but in every step she had bade papa and abir with her ... but she never tried to talk to them or take their advice...why ? I fail to understand this kind of attitude at times ...if you have a guiding figure around you then why not open up to them at difficult times ....in my opinion mahs never encouraged her to do anything expect for maintaining a peaceful bond with kuhu... rest other things mishti takes it upon herself on her own like " main abir ki bodyguard banugi , main usse protect karungi " .... she didn't think about the consequences of bringing out kuhu's illegitimate identiy in front of her family on the haldi day ...she didn't think about the consequences when kunal gave her dhamki on kuhu's bidaai...and then she was quick enough to judge abir ke tumne mujhse chupaya kyun ke kunal shaadi se bhaag gaya tha ...arey they why did you hide that abir's mom and kunal gave dhamki to you ? she didn't think about the consequences of sharing the details of baba's proofs with meenu ,first she didn't even think that why meenu is asking her only to go to rajgadh and collect the proofs , okay meenu wanted mishti to tell the truth bcoz then abir would believe them but proofs toh koi bhi la sakta hai ..laxman bhi
Mishti makes that extra effort when she dosent have to and dosent say anything when she actually has to ...like when actually mahs encouraged her to go and stand by abir ...she was like " yeh uska family matter hai "
...that's what I am trying to say ...that inspite of having a bitter experience with meenu in the past , and having an idea of what she is capable to do , she still ends up believing her only in the way inviting trouble to herself
In case of abir , first of all he never trusts meenu at all , so there are very less chances that he gives to meenu to play him , he dosent try to be the one man army ,like you said , he shares his feelings with ppl whom he believes are their own....be or with naanu ( when he fell in love with mishti) with mishti ( all his feelings ) with kunal and parul at times ...and they all guide him in the right path ...he had his own share of mistakes too ...the biggest mistake he did was breaking up with her and actually at that point of time he didn't take anyone's advice also because he was not given any time to think at all unlike mishti ...., but with abir, he is shown to be learning from his mistakes, going into introspective mode and realising that where he had gone wrong too and even apologising for for same ...he knew that his decision to break up with her without telling her the real reason was so wrong ... that's why after marriage the first promise he wanted that there shouldn't be any secret between them because he knows that when they try to solve the matters on their own without informing each other the real reason , they end up creating more troubles for themselves....he only wanted mishti to confide to him first before she takes any big step
because together they are strong, abir also informed mishti first and messaged her about kuku divorce ...from his side he has started taking these baby steps already ...
In the end I believe that's how the characters are designed in a way....
Thank you Uru for the long post....🤗🤗I think I got what I wanted to ask......lemme see if it will come out now🤣
First of all I agree with what u said abt lack of judgement on Mishti's part. Yes, she has that. She is a black/white person when it comes to other people. She never thinks beyond what is right or wrong. Always on the move and needs to be in the centre of action.
Abir on the other hand has a better understanding of people and relationships. Even Mishti has admitted the same in initial episodes🤣 And somehow I believe we had the same discussion before.
Okay coming to my point, despite their contrast in discerning situations and their reactions to it...aren't they the same in their motto to protect each other from harm.?? Aren't their intentions always the same when hiding stuff that needed to be revealed??
Mishti never confessed her rajgad adventure after baba's revelation because she wanted Abir and meenu to have that mother son bonding moment. And the stunts Meenu pulled before too was never revealed becoz of the same. Wasn't that her way of looking out for Abir?? Likewise Abir never revealed nishant's drunk drama and that he had revealed the truth to nishant. Wasn't that his way of protecting nishmish relationship because he knew nish was important to mishti??
Despite of Abir learning from his mistakes and asking promises from mishti to not hide anything from him, would he ever reveal things when he knows it would hurt mishti??
But I think this is where the lack of judgement thing comes into play.
Abir's motto in asking for promises from Mishti is because he somehow knows that Mishti lacks the judgment when it comes to reading people or doesn't know when she is being taken advantage of, especially by Meenu.
Abir on the other hand knows his mother pretty well and is equipped to handle her, more so now because he already made a mistake by giving into her blackmail. So he is being extra cautious.
I hope u got what I am trying to explain and I think I somehow got what you were trying to explain.😆
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Ammu's wish became true instantly😆
I think I got it diyaa.....just quoted Uru....😆
meraaa kabhi nahi Hota
haina i love the fast forward mode of song.. 🤣🤣
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