Originally posted by: Picasso9
I was neutral towards her.
I never judged her based on arhaanâs behavior or association with him nor did I judge her based on Shuklaâs biased and crass presentation of her.
I judged her purely on her interactions and behavior in the house.
She has always given back when necessary not just for the sake of it. She picks her battles. Her outburst at shukla was building up over several weeks of receiving threats from him, suffering slu* shaming and sexual innuendos at his hand. After a time, enough was enough and when she gave back it was like a dam bursting. It was very liberating and I felt the relief and decompression. So I never judge her on her outburst either because it was much needed. To the outsider it seemed like an over reaction and a prolonged reaction but I understood that we are not living or lived her life so we cannot thopo our feelings on her. Anyway hindsight is always 20/20.
She never claimed to be always right. She never seeks conflicts.
I never understood peopleâs claims that they donât like her because âshe seems disinterested or not giving backâ.
People seemed to have bought into Pahira and Devoleenaâs claim that she is disinterested and playing on Backfoot. What would they have said if they had Rimi Sen in this season. đ
So for me, Rashmi is NOT a drama queen, she does not constantly seek the limelight, create unnecessary conflicts. She has been strong, steady, dignified and has shown growth (befriending Asim, Virima) and not dwelling morosely on Arhaanâs departure or clinging to friendship with Arti. Her independence on this score and strength to recognize she is enough is what appeals to me.
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