Originally posted by: iamthat2019
Hi
This is very well written ......I'm glad you have taken up this topic again as this is something which generally needs attention by our society at large.The way mental abuse is shown in the show has actually stirred a few reactions,as more often than not all of us have witnessed abuse around us.
I also agree with your view on various defence mechanisms which people adapt to overcome this . It could be either giving it back or ignoring Whatever may be the coping mechanism,but we all cannot deny that this definitely leaves a lasting impression on the personality of that individual. Mishti ,as you rightly pointed out ,is weighing various aspects of all relationships before reacting.To her people that matter are Bm,Bp and Abir.Others are in the periphery so their thought process or what they think about her is now not so consequential. You would also agree that she has grown up suddenly with all the trauma she has faced recently like her goddhana issue or getting blackmailed by Big Ben.Yes she did initially hesitate to muster up enough courage to confide in Abir or Bp as in the event of her exposing all the blackmail drama ,a Pandora's box would have opened .She also cannot go against the mother of the man she loves as eventually she knows she will have to live with her in future.So I guess she's just not reacting impulsively to all that nonsense these people are throwing at her.but weighing pros and cons of each reaction as these are lifelong relationships and have to be dealt with care.Im sure all of us also look at these aspects when dealing with our own set of people.Though I would definitely want her to confide in Abir now as both of them have decided to walk together.
Mishti is a loner but has a tremendous will power to do whatever she thinks is right and I'm sure she's definitely going to gather herself and move towards creating her own identity.
Wow...this was so well written... exactly what I am trying to get at..
Bold- this sums up my post...I just wanted to say this!
Also I agree Abir and mishti both need to share things ...n now its very much required...to solve the kuku problem they need to know the missing parts...Mishti needs to know Kunal ran away...Abir needs to know the warning given by Kunal to Mishti...only that will help them see the bigger picture and solve it...I hope this happens soon
But it's ITV so I keep minimum hopes...😆
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