Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor
Isn't that the whole point of the story? Like, we can argue over the premise of the love story and still jot down pros and cons, again the target audience has to come in play, people who have known about Romeo-juliet, heer-ranjha, or even Khaani-Hadi, they all have justified the tragedies, tragedies are not meant to be practical or realistic, if people watch KAM3 by expecting that the male lead has to be pitch perfect then they have chosen the wrong show. The male lead is FLAWED, but his feelings are not, his approach is definitely flawed, but was/is it harmful, not yet. What we fail to understand in the narrative is that we are already set to watch a tragic hero, and we expect him to be realistic? these two things are completely contradictory, tragedies are made from flawed, and auto-destructive love, and here is what our male lead falls into place.
And, nobody is blaming Mahi, nobody will blame Mahi, nobody even wants Mahi to accept Feedi, because in per with the tragedy, they are also holding their female lead with high importance, but the catch is that the male lead here is the central character, no matter how flawed he is, it is his story, so we have to think from his perspective, more than how in real world someone like Farhad would behave. He is not rational, if he would be rational enough then he wouldn't have left his loving mother for a girl in the first place, he was a soul with no purpose, he found his purpose in the object of his affection (read Mahi), now being stupid and delusional is a human flaw, we all have been at some point. Yes, he is too muc stupid to even think that someone like him can win Mahi's heart, but the friendship was a catalyst, and just like how wealthy and educated women like Mahi never accept people like Feedi's love, in the same way such women do not even care to make friendship with them, isn't it? Mahi knew that Feedi was a fool and she fooled him into being a friend, however, some fools are extreme and Feedi is one.
For Farhad Mahi still is the hyper-chanchal, vocal and the happy go modern woman he saw in Lahore, she managed the whole wedding, if she does 'bagabat' for her love, she will win it, that is why he did not see the status but just her consent. Yes, I repeat that he is dumb, he has been too naïve and dumb to leave everything for her, but that is how it is, you reap what you sow, he fell in love, he will get the trauma too. As far as Naheed is concerned, Naheed has never told him about his love, in Naheed's defense, Feedi is just as ill-fated, infact worse fated like her, he did not care for Naheed and Mahi does not care for him, both the equations are same if you remove the class difference.
And about how Farhad mistook Mahi's behavior as Love, well there were 50 more male servants in that house, did Mahi go around being all jolly good and chilled with them? No .. Did Rida, aur any of he rother friends take Feedi into confidence? No.. Did Mahi's bhabi, Fakeera, and Rida, all notice Feedi's inclination towards Mahi and warn her? Yes.. in all these scenario, who should be blamed? Nobody, because again falling in love cannot be deliberate, it is misfortune that he fell for the wrong woman.
Also, the people who are writing the comments are apparently giving the show views too, their will always be a section of the audience whom you can never please, I am sure the writers never promised anything realistic in the first place, it was always supposed to be unrequited love leading to worship, it is going to be like that, Mahi will remain what she is, and even if she never falls for Feedi, I have no qualms, because I already know that it was never promised, why argue over something which was never promised.
I agree with you, in reality no one will fall for their servant, in that way they are showing reality too. But to say that whatever Farhad is doing making no sense is a bit over board because, again it is his story, and he has been led on, no matter even if it was for an hour, I would be upset with a man for my entire life if he would use my friendship, flirt with me just for fun? I do not know about the majority, but I would know that he is not worth it, Feedi does not realize that.. On a personal level, I have mistaken friendship as love too, and I know that dimag kam nahi karta yaar, I cannot tell you everything since it is a public forum, but I can definitely tell you that if it is your first love then nothing makes sense, not even religion, not even distance, leave the money and power.
I am sorry for the long writeup, I just feel that the reactions are contradictory to the ratings and viewership. that is why I liked how Aamna talked about Farhad, he was a loser, he was treated so well by everyone, he found his queen, he lost his sanity, he thinks he is right, but he is not, that is what makes him a tragic heroes. Tragic heroes are never right, but they still make up almost half of the romantic sagas, because only they have set bars for unattainable love and faith in two people's union.
@bold: again in his defense, he thought Mahi was angry with him for the door shutting scene, so he came to apologize and confess😆. I believe if he would know Mahi's POV in Lahore, he would not have reached bhawalpur. The difference is that he brought his own proposal, whereas Taimoor sent it through parents 🤣
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