Arjun the man who does not have his own identity - Page 4

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

I don't think he is a failure. What his father probably meant is that both his kids were served everything on a silver platter unlike him who had to build everything by his own. I think Arjun probably works for his father whereas Aditya decided to do something else by his own. It's not about salary or who is more successful. If I am not wrong Pooja even said that if they will go to Paris at the end of the month he will have to borrow money from her. 😆

Originally posted by: -PhoenixD-

He is a lawyer n there is nothing wrong in joining ur fathers office!i think he is a great guy n a matured one too!
Adi is a man child n quite immature too the first scene where he crib abt waking up then tooth paste showsit...adi became what he wanted n Arjun also must b doing what he loves!
An as for their fathers taunt im sure he will do that to aditya too...justice hooda saab is an over achiever so he will expect no less from his kids!
Im kinda rooting for pooja to b innocent !

Originally posted by: -PhoenixD-

If the said SIL actually end up innocent then u can say that Arjun is the mature n understanding n Aditya an a*** who dint evn believe her for one sec , that girl deffo deserved better lol

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I just caught up to the show and I disagree that Arjun has no identity. He himself is a lawyer. Of course he cant become a judge overnight. Even his Father knows this. Hence that taunt that "I am where I am without the help of a rich father!". He meant that he didnt have the "Advantages" that Arjun had. Maybe even Aditya. Yes Adi is a pilot and has a different career. But he still had the privilege of being from a wealthy background with influence. Men like Harsh Hooda like to taunt their children with what he has provided for them and point out that those were not provided to him, but he is still ahead of them!

Arjun is more laid back, but I think that is more by choice. He is more like his Mom, as in he tries to keep the peace, but at a personal cost to himself. He has opinions but sometimes he doesn't share them.His Father and Brother are always fighting and in that situation, someone needs to not add to the fighting but mediate sometimes.

The question of WHY did Pooja cheat on Aditya when they seemed to be in love is a very valid question that a rational person should ask?

He asked that question and he also asked his brother could you not notice she was not happy with you? Yes that was a hurtful question, but if she cheated, that means something was wrong right?

Not everyone cheats coz they are characterless or that they are cheap. Some people move away from their spouse and become close to someone else because this other person was bringing something to the table their spouse was not! I DONT agree with cheating. I am married myself. I 100% Disagree with it. But when it does happen, we have to ask WHY it happened? That is what Arjun was asking? He was not saying Pooja is right, or that she is justified. The issue here is that Pooja is dead! They cant question her. They can only try to find the answers themselves.

Harsh Hooda knows something and so does Zoya's Father. But they are both hiding those things and that is why the truth of that night and the full truth of Yash and Pooja's relationship has not come out yet.

Yes, Aditya deserves respect for his professional achievements. But that doesn't mean that Arjun deserves to be insulted for choosing the same profession as his Father. But this is a good subject to discuss and debate. Thanks for making the topic.

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

@TM:

I have seen no launch videos. Can you tell me if it's on Youtube? I will watch it. I thought that if Yash and Pooja really cheated or not was open to interpretation at this point. Even Seheban's interview which I saw did not clarify that Yash is a cheat.

The story though is clearly about how two betrayed persons meet and overcome this betrayal together! That part I am very excited for. So far Aditya is a very watchable character and my favorite. I feel sorry for Zoya and I can feel Aditya's broken heart so I feel very bad for him. But each of them is dealing with their pain in different ways.

One with anger and one with denial. Neither is right and neither is wrong at this point in time. The pain is too raw to make any rational decisions at this time for either of them.

Originally posted by: .IPKKND.

I dont think Arjun is spineless

He must have been too young to understand the actions and consequences of his father or the gravity of the issue

Hence he is not damahed like aditya

As far as his professional identity goes, working in the same profession as his dad does not make hin dependent. He is the heir to their law firm.

And it has been constantly shown that he is independent and the most mature character of them all. Like he has taken it upon hinself to investigate the accident

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

@ TM:

Yes cheating is cheating and it's better to divorce someone than to lead them on or live a double life, I totally agree with that.

But unfortunately in life not everything is that black and white and not everyone makes those decisive decisions to do one thing or the other. Sometimes they are trying to figure out how to end one thing before starting another. Or maybe debating if they want to end this or not? Not everyone makes those cut and dry choices (which are the ones I personally prefer)

Aditya is a Black and White sort of guy, there is not much grey in his spectrum and that is why he has decided to deal with the reality of a cheating spouse the way he has. Also, trying to deal with that as well as your grief in losing someone you were lose to for years will drive anyone over the edge and that is what has happened to him.

Arjun was trying to understand why his sister in law would do this? It looks like they didnt think that was something she was capable of? Aditya's behavior has been hard for everyone to handle and their nerves are probably frayed. He is grieving but they are grieving too. Aditya has tunnel vision right now and I understand why. But like Zoya said "There are other people in this world besides you!" Which is a home truth for him.

As for career, yes it's good to build your own. My family have many lawyers, but I am a banker myself and I have built my career after graduating from Uni. So I understand the importance of career and identity. But just because Arjun works for the family firm we have not seen enough of him to deduce that he has achieved nothing. Some cryptic words from a man like Harsh Hooda does not sum up the sum total of a person and their achievements. He was being sarcastic. I will reserve my judgment on Arjun till I have seen more of him. At this point, he is the only one who is actually trying to investigate what happened to Pooja and questioning why she did what she did. Which I think is valid in the circumstances. Pooja was a member of their family too. So he is trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. not declaring her guilty till he understands things a bit better. Snap judgments never take us to the right conclusion anyway. Being a lawyer he should know that.