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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: S.Stephy

I guess he is a lawyer... so I'm not very convinced by the statement that he failed to make an identity. To me it looks like he took up the same profession as his father. And his father is over-critical with him for not reaching his level. It could also be that his father might be expecting him to compromise on certain things in the profession to reach a certain success level which Arjun is against. Lots of possibilities for that statement and it's too early to judge Arjun in any way.

He is most likely working on his father's law firm and does not able to win any significant case.
One thing is clear Adi is more successful than this level headed, rational, mature brother in his professional life and he clearly earns more.than Arjun.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: mijanur


He is most likely working on his father's law firm and does not able to win any significant case.
One thing is clear Adi is more successful than this level headed, rational, mature brother in his professional life and he clearly earns more.than Arjun.



Even if he is working in his father's firm, it doesn't make him unsuccessful. Maybe he is genuinely interested in being a lawyer and contributing to his father's firm. We haven't been told he didn't win any significant case.

And I'm not sure how the success of a lawyer and that of a pilot can be compared. I don't know if money earnings have been compared in the show... but that's a shallow way of comparing success esp since they both belong to different professions. And how does earning lesser than a brother make someone unsuccessful?
Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshvi


Strongly disagree
I am not sure how can we come to this conclusion that he is a failure when we haven't even seen much of him yet..too early to judge...if u noticed then he did stood up to his dad...He always disagrees with his dad when he is wrong...He was the one who booked Adi's flight ticket as well

If he didn't have self respect then he would have obeyed every order of his dad and never questioned him which he Cleary does

Now also he will go to Masoorie to investigate the case..He is doing it for his bhabhi and his bro who needs a closure...so far there isn't any personal gain for him.

Also Adi listens to him if u have noticed...he is the mediator between his parents and Adi

Also we can't be sure if he has done anything significant or not..He is a lawyer who fights cases..He must have win cases for sure..or he might still be new in this profession...so we can't come to a conclusion that he is a failure simply coz he raised one question that was sort of rational too.

Arjun was not giving bhashan but trying to talk to his bro..what he said was not wrong..everyone is worried for Adj but he is lashing out and he is also hurting himself...Arjun is Adi's brother and thus I think it makes complete sense if he tried to talk to his brother

Also the concept of the show is a show which brings out the question of what forces 2 people to find love outside d marriage , why they cant share their probs with their spouses. zoya & adi will be heartbroken when they will know d reason of betrayal, that how their so called perfect happy married life was not so happy or perfect

So yup the question he raised and the show is raising is not irrational entirely

Also the show is not comparing And and Arjun...they are bros not competitors

And I don't think Adi resents his bro as much as u do

Let's wait and see how Arjun's character will progress..I am looking forward to some good bro bonding moments between the two


Again strongly disagree
Arjun is a paper tiger, all talk no action.
Also Arjun thinks cheating is no big deal and cheating is justified if your spouse has flaws.
Tell me one time when Arjun showed any resentment for his father's cheating.
Arjun has more sympathy for his cheater bhabi than his real victI'm brother.
For him his bhabi is flawless and it is brother's fault completely . He was a disgrace in the name of a brother. You should see how much he hurts his brother in his attempt to justify cheating .

His family totally failed to understand Adi's moral conviction of not tolerating cheating. His family showed zero respect to Adi's feelings by glorifying a cheater.

Arjun always tries to prove that, he is more superior than Adi in maturity.
In Indian Tv brothers always become competitors.

I can bet you will see Adi will slap hard Arjun if Arjun continues his praise for his cheater bhabi.

Adi can't become closer to a person who justify cheating. For Adi tolerating a sin is a sin itself.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Are we watching the same show? There's nothing in today's scene which requires Arjun bashing or declare him a professional failure.

In today's scene, Arjun straight away questioned his dad as to why he is closing Pooja's case. In fact, now he is going to Mussourie to investigate the case.

In the 2nd or 3rd episode, Adi mentioned about some high profile case that Arjun was handling, forgot the case name so I don't think he is a failure career wise. U need to chill! I know u r Harshad fan so u r feeling bad when his character is bashed. But it's ok. Take everything with a pinch of salt.

Regarding why Pooja's body was dressed as a bride, that's a Hindu custom that a married woman has to be dressed as a bride before doing her final rites.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Clearly your and my thoughts are poles apart...better agree to disagree and move on

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: mijanur

Arjun does not look so young, he will be just two years younger than Adi in my opinion.

Adi's family never tired to minimize Adi's anger any meaningful way.

No, he is a professional failure, who failed to make any mark in his professional life and he is still financially dependent on his father.
One thing is clear he is professionally less successful than his brother all of his samajdari can't hide this fact.

No, Adi's family never tried to minimize his anger
Giving a cheater like Pooja a bridal look was surely done to control Adi's anger. They glorified a cheater as a bride who already dishonored her marriage and by doing this they play a cruel joke on Adi. They mocked Adi's feelings.
In the name of protecting so called family reputation, they were forcing Adi to do last rites activities of Pooja, did not they know performing those activities was like a mental torture to him.

Still now, nobody from Hooda family spelled one bad word for Pooja in front of Adi. They were singing bhajan of Pooja in front of Adi and trying to find his faults in everything.

A good brother would feel angry on the person who cheated on his good natured brother, he would not worship the woman who broke his brother's trust. He knew how his brother had problem with cheating but he was still expecting that his brother would ignore his bhabi's cheating. Very rational.

Arjun is just another member of Hooda family who normalize cheating. For him it is not a big deal. For him Adi should just move on after mourning 20 days for his cheater bhabi's death. For him, Pooha was flawless who could never do any wrong and it was always other person's fault.
Mark my work Adi will never become closer to Arjun. Because for Adi tolerance of a sin is a sin itself.
A concept which is unknown to Arjun. Arjun also has superiority complex, he always thinks he knew and understood things better than his brother which is not healthy for brothers.


Like many members pointed out, Aditya is a lawyer and even if he is a little less successful in his professional career, I won't say that he has no right to speak or advice his brother in the time of such a huge personal loss..

I agree that Hooda's are not great while trying to console Aditya.. Senior Hooda comes across as quite selfish.. His mother seems to be at loss of words.. With Arjun I feel he was not able to strike the right cord, though what he was telling Aditya was quite rational... It happens... There are times when a person wants to listen what he wants, words that could give him some solace.. Guess that's what happened with Pooja's mother.. She expressed exactly the multiple emotions she was feeling and Adi was able to relate to it.. Hence the breakdown happens only in front of her...

About Pooja's departure, I don't know what to say.. She has died.. What would they do now.. They cannot disown a deceased person.. Sr. Hooda might have wanted it for publicity but I think his mother and Arjun wanted Adi to give fire and to let Pooja go... They wanted him to do the Antim Sanskar .. Of course he does not do that and in a way that also means that he has not released Pooja out of his mind and life so far...

You and me may straight away tag Pooja as a cheater as its convenient but Adi's character needs answers... That's what the story is.. What happened ?? Why it happened ?? His grief is making him insane day by day and he is questioning his looks, his success, himself.. If he has to come out of it he needs to get those answers.. If it had to get closed by tagging Pooja as a cheater and moving on, it would have happened by now.. But its not happening.. He needs answers to let pooja go .. He has to do that Antim sanskaar in real sense if he has to move on and Arjun tries to direct him towards that .. Definitely other elements will also play there role.. But I don't see Arjun having any bad intent or any intent to shame Adi IMHO.. What Arjun did, I believe is just the first seed of thought he planted into Adi's mind..

Rest let us see how the story proceeds.. 😊
Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Tulips-

Are we watching the same show? There's nothing in today's scene which requires Arjun bashing or declare him a professional failure.

In today's scene, Arjun straight away questioned his dad as to why he is closing Pooja's case. In fact, now he is going to Mussourie to investigate the case.

In the 2nd or 3rd episode, Adi mentioned about some high profile case that Arjun was handling, forgot the case name so I don't think he is a failure career wise. U need to chill! I know u r Harshad fan so u r feeling bad when his character is bashed. But it's ok. Take everything with a pinch of salt.

Regarding why Pooja's body was dressed as a bride, that's a Hindu custom that a married woman has to be dressed as a bride before doing her final rites.

One thing is clear Arjun still lives under the shadow of his father. As his father said he yet to make his mark in his professional life, so he is a failure.
He can stood up for his cheater bhabi but he can't remain silent when his brother was stressed.

Hooda family loves to hide the truth for saving their reputation. The moment Pooja started her affair she dishonor her marriage and did not deserve the honor, by hiding the truth and giving her a bridal look they mocked Adi's feelings. So, they should not complain if Adi does not like their fakeness.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshvi

@TM

Clearly your and my thoughts are poles apart...better agree to disagree and move on

Ok lets disagree, we are seeing things from different perspective. Truce.
Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pearl100

How will he solve the mystery behind the accident I donno,,before that I'm sure Adi will find out the truth about Pooja's secrets one by one. Yeah I agree too much defense isn't making any sense at all.

Arjun will not able to solve anything. It will be Adi and Zoya who will decode the mystery.
Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: S.Stephy



Even if he is working in his father's firm, it doesn't make him unsuccessful. Maybe he is genuinely interested in being a lawyer and contributing to his father's firm. We haven't been told he didn't win any significant case.

And I'm not sure how the success of a lawyer and that of a pilot can be compared. I don't know if money earnings have been compared in the show... but that's a shallow way of comparing success esp since they both belong to different professions. And how does earning lesser than a brother make someone unsuccessful?

Arjun has his father's support in his professional life while Adi is a self made man.
Adi has earned fame in his profession but Arjun does not able to make a mark on his profession. So Adi is the superior one here.
In rich family money matters and Arjun is in a profession whre he can earn more money. So earning less is a sign of his professional failure as it indicates he is getting less cases.
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