On the Arav and Oviya discussion. This is my POV.
Someone commented saying isn't it wrong that Oviya came into Bigg Boss with the intention of finding love. That was not her intention. Her falling in love, she did not see coming at all. She came in with the intention of playing and winning the game.
And I would say that both Oviya and Arav had made their mistakes.
Oviya invading his personal space is considered harassment which is not correct. However, I don't think she is at fault completely because if he had allowed her to kiss him in the past i don't think pressing his shoulders was a big deal. he reacted, which got her confused and she continued to become inappropriate in order to provoke him(Which was wrong). If he did not want to kiss her, he should have told her that very moment. But he accepted it. I think his problem was the affection that was shown in front of others. He really is concerned about the opinions of others (Gayu and Shakthi). I think he is very paranoid about his image and career so he does not want to be projected in a certain way. He could have explained this to Oviya instead of avoiding her. I think their whole issue got worse when others started to become involved. Arav should not have let other people in this matter and he should have dealt with it himself.
Also something that is confusing is that. To kamal and Raiza he had mentioned that he had kissed oviya at the end in order for him to stop her with her behavior. However to Ganesh he has mentioned that they had kissed each other before she had professed her love for him. and intially to kamal he had said that he did not kiss her at all. So i am unable to believe his statements.
Them kissing each other is not a big deal at all. That is their personal and the housemates and public do not need to know about this. But when it came to the point where oviya was blamed for leading her self was wrong. Arav should not have lied, because he knew very well that he played a part for leading her on. He knows very well that Oviya is vulnerable and she yearns for love. He should have been more careful when talking to her. what was the need to flirt with her even after he knew that she loved him and what was the need to sing "innum konjum neram".
But does Arav need to leave the house because of this incident ?
I don't think so. This one incident does not mean that he deserves to leave. yes everyone makes mistakes. As long as he realizes his mistakes then its fine. he still deserves a chance to play the game. If anything shakthi and gaythriri who still have not realized their mistakes deserve to leave before arav.
Edited by m_30996 - 7 years ago
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