I don know why I take a show so emotionally but sometimes it's hard to avoid it when you can relate it to your real life. I was in deep thinking about the show and life in general for sometime. And I have come to realise maybe the show is trying to reflect us what's reality. Oru lengthy post on my thoughts.
Whatever I'm going to say next, pls don judge me or my family wrongly.
Intha kudumbam kudumbam thing is all fake show. I feel that even my own family is fake sometimes towards me. Just like in big boss. They do talk behind my back, especially my mum she doesn't like when my dad gives me money to spend. At times I'm like Oviya I keep a straight face. At times I'm like Raiza, I say ya ya papaya to everything my parents say. Sometimes I get bullied like Gayathri bullying Julie, all in name of being sibling. My Father sometimes is just like Ganesh who doesn't thatti kekkuraan. Sometimes he is also like Arav who is loving towards me one day and another day he ignores me.
Yes everyone is unique. Everyone can be like how they want themselves to be. Oviya sonna, nee neeyaave irunu. Aana none of them changed. Yen? It's because athuthaan avange reality. Scripted or not, we all believe it's morally right to be good. But sometimes it's very hard to be good. The world today is such! No one will ever allow us to be good. But even those who are good, the world will definitely misunderstand. Human emotions le santhosham mattum ille. It has the ugly side as well. Gayathri maari evil ah iruppathu. Shakti Namitha maari mattavangale mela jealous aaguvathu. Snehan Julie maari double headed snake ah iruppathu. Raiza maari opportunist. Ganesh Vyaburi Arav maari ellam therinthum theriyaatha maari nadanthukkuvathu. Even these are human emotions. Aana namma samuthayathile ivai muraiyaana emotions illenu solvaange.
My point is simple. Ange irukkire ellarume avanga padithaan irukkaange. The show can be scripted but emotions and feelings cannot be. They are who they are. Good or bad they are that way. Sometimes we go blind in support to Oviya because we start relating to her, we see her as a hero against the villains in a movie. We tend to support because in our real life also we may go thru such situations but we cannot punish them or win over them immediately. So we vent those frustrations thru such avenues. It's not wrong also but it's also not the model behaviour. Anyways model behaviour enbathu kidayathu. Avange evil ah thaan iruppaangane athu avange choice. Namma Oviya ku blind ah support pannurom na athu namma choice.
It's rare I get inspired or enlightened by a show and that too from a corrupted channel like Vijay tv. But it happened. Sometimes when u think openly u get to understand things from the third person pov and become more rationale.
ps : I'll still be part of Oviya army. Love Oviya. But tomorrow whatever situation there be, I'll ready to face it cos life still has to go on.
Edited by .sajitha. - 7 years ago
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