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Originally posted by: ~*sindhu*~
There is no point meeting a dead person who neither knows of ur visit nor cares about it anymore. One should visit while they can still feel ur presence. Everything else is just u getting out of ur own guilt of not making that time. Its a personal feeling watching relatives pour in when grandfather died. Barely have I met any when he was alive. Such is life, we all say we are busy until one day we have all the time but not the person.
Having said its good that only those who are close to the family made a visit at the ghat. I don't know if he was taken to his home or not. But the public would be uncontrollable if all stars poured in making a bigger problem for the grieving family. We gotto remember they are celebrities and Indian public are not very sensitive to their grief thus the pictures. Also maybe they couldn't reach on time or were informed late.Everyone is not sitting at home hooked to the media.Some maybe away some maybe working who knows what.We can't just judge people and decide their obligations for them. Rishi Kapoor should be happy present day stars meet him when he is still alive. He wouldn't even know who did what once he is gone.
btw,... There is an other side too,... Few families remain conservative of their privacies, let not others be knowing their things... and perhaps let say, do not like when they are in their last stages and serious... and ppl come and inquire about diseases and then knowing all secrets ,.. so propaganda to media, outer film-family,...,.. and ultimately deterioration of that family,.. and hence many a times the suffered family also intends to keep privacy,... and wish that ppl do not come to visit them...
e.g. I remember, when Kaka was in last stages and every one knew that he will last in 4-6+ days,... Big B kept on calling Akki,.. if he can come,.. and they gave another reason that,.. it will be Zhamela and disorder,.. n' Hospital services be out of order,... So,.. dunno come,.. and that will be better,.. yada yada,..
But who knows,.. even Kaka must had told Dimpy and akki,. that let not that man to come here,...( who knows !) Even Big B offered last time a life time achievement award to Kaka, a 2-4 yrs ago,.. except that stage's professional showmanship for 2 min,..the fact was, they were not speaking or calling to each other in outer life and preferring to keep their faces away,.. from each other,..
Here too, the khanna family, kept tight-lipped from media, about the serious stage and disease recognition, also to avoid impacts on perhaps VK's political career or the Hoobala in Bollywood family, during this low time,
Also I still dunno understand the mania of wearing black glasses by Celeb,.. soon after tragedy event.
Is it to hide the emotions being noticed by media and public about the pain and agony ( more or lesser it may seem physically and hence not to allow media to comment or penetrate in this,... ??) I still remember,... at the time of Sanjay Gandhi's plane crash death,... Indira soon had come on the site, where she had a dark over sized goggles,... and few said,.. she had no tears or pain,.. but her eyes was simply looking for SG's wrist watch,... as Swiss bank's secret code account-word was in his wrist-watch, that he was wearing... )
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