We have heard Dev say this multiple times. Maa ke aage mujhe sahi galat kuch nahi dikhta.
And each time he has said this he has justified his own actions and convinced himself that he is not wrong.
1. We heard this when he removed Sona from her job .
2. We heard this again when he tried to win Sona back waiting for 5 hours
3. Again when he broke Sona's rishta with Kushal
4. When he broke off with Sona.
All for his mother
5. When he stalked Sona , had Ritwick lose his job , his loan, that time his own life ( Sona ) was at stake.
6. When he had Ranveer lose his job, again Neha's marriage was at stake.
So at every stage whenever Dev has given an extreme reaction, in his mind he was justified. He looked for temporary solutions without looking at the repercussions.
What if the slapgate is not Sona to walk out but for Dev to realize that there is simply no justification sometimes. One needs to evaluate the consequences of ones actions.
Dev wanted to stop Bijoy from screaming or wanted to ask Bijoy to back off he needed to handle it that way slapping a man in your father's place is not justified. It cannot be justified I don't think the CVs will want to justify it eitherways.
We heard Sona speak to Dev about his temporary fixes and trying to keep everyone happy. But did that get him to introspect.
Dev and Ishwari have a "different relationship". For Dev to even stand up to his mother he needs to see the impact that this relationship is having on all the other relations around him. Dev was always respectful of his elders. He prides over his mother's upbringing. So did Ishwari.
This slap is not on Bijoy but on Dev and Ishwari's face to see what they have become.
Will we actually get to see Dev introspecting??
Dev respects Bijoy. Dev also prides over Sona like Bijoy does. But when it comes to Ishwari he can get disrespectful towards Bijoy too. We saw that last week when he asked Asha to take him and go. So Dev has started walking on the path where he can sacrifice even close relations for his mother. Question is does he realize it?
It has to reach a crescendo for him to slide back on track. If there was an incident directly with Sona would it be too late for him to salvage the situation.
The pressure for treatments is one such act. Ishwari wants something Dev is actually ready to inflict physical pain to Sona but does not realize it.
Is the physical action just a depiction of how the Boses feel when Dev convinced his mother to come back and agreed to Ishwari's condition? Wasn't that already a slap on all their faces? Or am I reading too much into it I don't know.
Dev will never question Ishwari about the prenup if he doesn't see the impact their relationship has on people around him.
If Dev's extreme reaction to protect his mother cannot be justified with him slapping Bijoy then neither can Ishwari's extreme reaction to get the prenup signed by deceit be justified?
For Dev to question his mother doesn't he need to know that in the process of leaving the " Dev - Ishwari " status unchanged they are sacrificing all the people around them.
For Dev to take a stand for Sona he needs to take a stand for himself. For him to take a stand for himself he needs to realize where he and Ishwari have faulted over the years.
Is this slap indirectly on Dev to see how ugly he can get? Will we eventually see a leap of growth in Dev's character?
One can only hope!!
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Now that the episode is telly cast no one can say that Dev was cornered to react like that. Had Dev reacted in the right manner the situation would not seem so bad. Dev only needed to say "Bas" and everyone would have stopped screaming..
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