Sanchi givng her agnipareekhas yet not able to win them

How men change after marriage? Aryan is an example. He was running after Sanchi like a puppy and suddenly he started showing all his irritaion on her for the mistakes committed by her father. Yes, her father should not have helped sethiyas with 25 crores because it is nothing but a sort of huge dowry to keep his daughter happy. He is angry with his sister and wife for those gift of honeymoon package but did he not give a huge amount of money in the name of loan? Can that thing be hidden for long if there are incometax quewries and raids?

Aryan is immature and he has to growup. He is taking Sanchi for granted. She entered into an assorted family of various jokers and she has to put up with their tantrums and behaviour. Especially Neelima. And she cant say anything except keep a sad face when Neelima started her tirade against her mother who was shaking with nervousness. And she has to run after irritable and moody Aryan, beg him and almost fall at his feet. She has to give agnipareeksha for the sons of omision and commission of others.

Why it is always girls who have to swallow insults and adjust?

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Originally posted by: Missesha

Good to see you here Leaves.

Yes it sort of hurts that Saanchi is getting a cold shoulder treatment from Aryan for no fault of hers.

And I feel bad that Aryan only manages to think of his (or Sethias) insults, and doesn't really think of Saanchi or her efforts or her sacrifices.

But what Sethias faced, was nothing less than a huge betrayal. The wounds are deep and fresh. They will take time to heal.

On the other hand, Aryan doesn't intend to be rude to Saanchi specifically, but he is just so boiled up that nothing allows him to be happy. So in that situation, it is good to see that Saanchi understands him and is trying to work on their relationship 😊

The drama till this point doesn't feel like a drag yet, but yes it can't go for too long. Aryan has to start melting soon.

Otherwise it hurts to see Saanchi just busy covering up for Mittals' mistakes one after another.

Mittals need to give a break to Sethias for the time being. And Sethais need to learn to look beyond the "betrayal".

But Chandra and Neelima - they are always up to something.

I like how Sarita and Dsa balance it all.

Tumne bulaya aur hum chali aayi.😃

While I agree that Aryan is hurt and angry but his using Sanchi to take out his anger is not justified. An ordinary girl would have turned back, answered him back and left him for her rich mayka.
But Sanchi will have to be diffeent with extraordinary amount of patience. Ideal bahu!

No... Saanchi wouldn't go back to her maika or throw such tantrums, because she knows that her family is at fault and the matter is quite huge for Sethias to simply brush it under the carpet.

In Indian society, boys and girls are raised differently from their childhood hence this difference in mindset. While girls are being taught that after marriage, they should treat husband's family as her own, their problems, happiness everything is hers, so adjustments, compromises and sacrifices have become part of their trait ,while the boys , since they dont have to go anywhere after marriage need not make such compromises.

90 percent of people are basically good. It is their behaviour in trying circumstances that betrays them.

Who ever can keep their calm and compose in these trying times i say is a winner