Did Aryan's dad do right by Sachi by going ahead with the marriage? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Missesha

I think Diwakar did it right to get Saanchi married to Aryan even in that tension. Because they both loved each other, and had they both not married, they would lost too much in life. Right now, it is just a phase, which will fade away, but their love won't. 😊

Originally posted by: malikakas

See if it was just about them loving each other it would be fine and make sense. But Diwakar's reasoning was that Sachi would be more hurt in society by the marriage not going through.

The thing is its a story. So we all know Aryan will eventually come around. But if Aryan's behavior were to continue then I can't see she's any better off in the long run.

In real life people wouldn't know that Aryan would come around. Starting a relationship with that kind of crack that may have life long repercussions more so than temporary societal embarrassment. If they really loved each other then it would definitely be worth the risk. But given it was more of an arranged marriage, I don't know.

Originally posted by: Beautiful...

Yes. It's only Sachi who is trying to make their relation ship work.

But Aryan is not making any attempt other than acting normal infront of others.

If the truth about archi relation came out.will sethiyas be happy? No.

Is Aryan doing anything good for his family by behaving weirdly to Sachi. . No.

The first thing they all should try to keep their honour upright is to pay back the loan.

And fighting with Sachi gives nothing to Aryan except for pain to both of them

Originally posted by: malikakas

This is exactly where I am struggling here. There is no end point to Aryan's behavior. And I really don't think its right that Sachi has to give a trial by fire for this relationship to start working. It will always feel like a lopsided relationship.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Now u sound like bhuaji😆

A negative experience of life turns a person negative , then they cant see good in anything ..or doubt everything..like bhua..may be this was thw reason for her breakup too...her ego is supreme...but whoever is married knows that one single conflict or multiple conflicts or difference of opinion cannot decide whether u will have a happy marriage..conflicts can occur after marriage too not oncw but often ..a relationship which can crack with an argument or getting angry doesnt stand a chance only..where does sajhedari come into picture then...when one is upset other tries to cheer him /her..what sanchi is doing..she knows this is not the real aryan she knows..they share a sweet relationship & both r very understanding ..

This has nothing to do with love/arranged marriage either ..i've seen love marriages and love affairs breaking up more often than arranged but that depends on person to person..