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i tell you funny initially i read gel and i thought why are we talking about hair gel ???? it took me few to think hinglish...lol you mean JAIL
@DEDE
women are treated unequal every where. when it came to keep women oppressed society used customs and when that did not work used religion. Honestly it has no religion or country that has been better. Some are open and some are closet cases. USA world's biggest and so called liberal country gave rights to vote for women way later than men. we as a nation voted black president before voting for women just to show its still boys club here.
as to multiple wives is a way something that worked in a days of war when all moguls were going from turkey /north to fight in india on feet and would return less than half and werent home for lots of the years due to wars. Burkha and multiple wives were created to avoid harrassment from few left off men in town and lots of widows survival. now this was said in the name of religion because people will believe it and obey it with out opposing it but now after so many decades later women also feel that is ok because its allah's order and men feel privileged gender. women are working and can survive with out men ever than before but our total social thinking has yet to evolve. religion was made to better social norms. police and jails were not there for social causes in society .. you tell person god said be good,do good and be fearful of wrong doing. it worked for then society for the most part. woman need to educated and smell the coffee . not need to be on fights and wars at home over this but we can change by one day at time by changing things for young girls and doing right by them. Education is the key to all and sometimes just use common sense. How can god tell anyone to have four wives and women can not even use their peripheral vision in burkha... is god really unfair/bias to women ? maybe he is a man too. ...
this is the time think out side of what was written in BC ages and apply it in today age.
Narrated Hazrat Abdullah and Hazrat Abu Musa: The Holy Prophet said, "Near the establishment of the Hour, there will be days during which religious ignorance will spread, knowledge will be taken away (vanish) and there will be much Al-Harj, and Al-Harj means killing."
[Sahih Bukhari, Hadith no. 184]
Lastly, you are right about women being educated which I would say both worldly knowledge and correct understanding of Quran. And they have to be strong and be able to stand up to wrong and wrong doer.
i tell you funny initially i read gel and i thought why are we talking about hair gel ???? it took me few to think hinglish...lol you mean JAIL
Even though, I dont watch this show, but how in the world does this makes it's any better? I don't think this marriage is valid, isn't in Islam marriage is not considered marriage if it's forced on one party. It was to be consensual on both sides.
It worries me what Pakistani dramas are showing and how it's going to effect the audience especially the young generation.
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