Hi There/Hello Everyone! Before "welcoming" me, I would like to all of the registered users/visitors of India-Forums to have enough time, correct environment/situation and obviously, an open-mind to read and understand my complete "letter"/message firstly. Keep on reading, I'll explain why I haven't [ideally] introduced myself into this forum by firstly posting into the relevant "topic".* And I hope you may then understand and of course, will hopefully get your answers too. While "Disclaimers" are contrary to rules/guidelines of India-Forums, but this is just to inform everyone priorly that sometimes, for the referential/humorous purposes, my words may hint at several topics (literal meaning, not the India-Forums' one 😊) which seem to be "[grossly] off-topic" from the show. But as it's a positive formality/nice gesture, I'm introducing bit of myself followed by the little explanation of my intention for joining India-Forums and writing this letter today. 😊
*I have updated my profile "just a while" ago, so whoever is "interested" in knowing me/my details, may visit my profile. As expressed, I still consider my "hands tied" as few of the positives don't seem to be enough to be "welcoming" here for me, so as said, will only "introduce" myself in that "Members Introduction" "topic"/"thread" if/when someone from the contributors here clearly asks me to do so. 🤔
Introduction: My name is what my username is. While I'm a "newbie" to this world/all of you but if having the status of being a "member" wouldn't be considered, then I'm not "alien" to this community ("world"). I can recall being familiar with India-Forums since the times of Colors' NBTNMKK2 show. And for that matter/for the matter of fact, my young sis[ter] used to follow India-Forums about her favourite show Star Plus' "magnum-opus/numero-uno" mytho[logical] show Mahabharat. And as said, since that "era" (😃), I've been frequently visiting India-Forums to keep a check on my favourite shows/keep a check on the shows of my interest. Now moving on to the reason for joining today and writing [in] all these.
Reason for joining now only and intention of creating this "topic": I didn't joined India-Forums before only because I thought I could never "commit"/contribute much actively on any of the forum on the website. So it's definitely not that I never wished for joining this "amazing" community. Often, the discussions in various forums [obviously of the shows of my interest] were so-engaging, healthy, insightful that I always thought of "jumping in-between" the conversation and be a part of it. But as I was never able to contribute to some 2-3 forums which I'd joined [out of my own will], sometimes to fulfill the necessary T&Cs of any contest and sometimes to gain access to that "exclusive" to get some really/urgently needed [useful] gyaan. And it's not that I never encountered any "exclusive" stuff, there were adequate number of them, but I resisted myself from joining and quelled my desire to view such contents by "placating" myself thinking of them as "entertainment i.e. gossip" rather useful contents and moreover, the reason aforementioned was enough to quell any "but[s]" thinking I can't "cheat" with the community members by creating an account, then staying dormant and "making appearances" at least once a month or so like a President [of any country] if not six minutes [only to avoid getting the account-deactivated in that case]. 😳 But it's very unfortunate to see that even after "monitoring" for long, While it's the case with every one forum or the other that [the stipulated] rules and regulations are followed very loosely, but in this case, around early to mid-September [2015], there's has been "blatant" violation of rules by surrounding most/majority of the topics of this forum to a one character/cast member of the show giving the impression of bias to the visitors and mostly likely, even raising question marks on the credibility of this forum and for that matter, India-Forums as a whole. Yes, it has very rapidly started giving impression to non-contributors/visitors to wonder "whether this is a show-centric forum or a[n] actor/fictional character-centric forum?". I'd trust in the other India-Forum's communities was just watching all these like a "mute-spectator" from a far-away distance but then, not-surprisingly-but-unfortunately, that bias turned into bigotry over a rumour of their favourite actor quitting the show thus bringing an end to that character as well. And while this fact shouldn't be avoided that since 2-4 days, that have "calmed down" to a large extent [due to the storyline hinting of the character's return and no new "offending" gossip-articles to share regarding that matter] but surprisingly, no one seemed/"bothered" to be vigil enough to crack-down on the offending contributor[s] or even a humble/polite rebuttal of their act[s]. So clearly, it's like a gang-up for the "support" of one and do whatever you may deem right to support your "agenda". Since I've used a political language a bit, let's sum-it-up saying that it's just like "firstly, polarisation of votes and then keep-the-drive going with either hook-or-crook to ensure the vote bank stays loyal" thing. And reading all this, almost 99% of contributors have to which actor/character I'm referring to, but to those which didn't, "don't worry, I'll surely name him". While it pains while writing too-long Tweets but since I've read enough number of long-posts on India-Forums, I think it won't be a new/cumbersome thing for any. But to those who [apparently] "lost the interest" after knowing the main motive behind my "topic", they're independent in their own capacities to feel so, and after all, "no-comments" is also a kind of reaction/"response". Will cover some additional subjects pertaining to the show too which have been occurred since the original issue. Now starting the main [contents of the] letter (to comply with the Forums' rules, I won't be defensive much or clarify everything for [the sake of] my defence as that would be deemed as putting "Disclaimers" and I think I'll be humble/polite enough to avoid doing so).
Message: Contrary to the show's concept/format, I'm starting this letter on the auspicious occasion of a festival of Hinduism called 'Dussehra'. It's because as explained in previous column, there is much of negativity ("evil") here so why don't we try to burn the "devil"/"demon"/"evil" inside us just like we publicly "burn" the Ravana or to do it enjoyably, also blast off the "inner demon" of us by blasting it off like crackers? So as said, what's the better occasion than 'Vijayadashami" to do so? After all, this is that one of the rare and probably, most-famous occasion in our country where people celebrate and [through the "plays" based upon the base-story of the festival called Ramleela, which are itself based on holy texts of Ramayana] try to believe in the mantra of "triumph of good over evil". So, Ahem... Gonna start my words from now on: May I know that why this quote, "Ignorance is [a] Bliss" is being taken too seriously here?? 😛 Before "Sameer-frenzy", the environment of this wasn't perfectly, but still balanced that much to be worthy of being called a forum for the TV show (strictly)! But [with open-mind and closed-heart (I know that I'm speaking typical TV lingo but as the ones who need to realise it seems to be too senti, it's the "perfect" choice, I guess 😉 please try to understand that it isn't a forum dedicated to actor Himmanshoo [A] Malhotra or fictional-character [Dr] Sameer [Purohit], it's a page dedicated purely to the show (this is what rules say, I know that no one likes to follow rules, even me at times but shouldn't we have iota of respect for every sensible clause of rules and regulations 🤓?) but occasional posts are fine (considering actors/actresses don't have dedicated forums here, same case as with channels), but chalo theek hai ("let it be"), "reasoning" ki zaroorat nahi. Then postings about each and every image-sharing of cast members, chalo ye bhi theek hai, ismein bhi reasoning ki koi zaroorat nahi. Then comes the character-degradation/-malignment, now this definitely can't be okay [e]specially if you're targeting a character with even no [apparent] grey shades (earlier, IF's rules even restrained negative characters to get "bashed" but it seems, over time it has been "liberalised" to allow the "mild-bashing" of such characters i.e. much narrowly within the limits of civility and this shouldn't forgotten that this relaxation still doesn't allows for the "bashing" of positive/neutral characters having [a] grey shade[s]). It all started seems to be started [at large scale] when people/"contributors" of this forum started calling the character Nik as "unwanted"/"useless" as their responses after reading self-created stories (inspired by the storyline) by another contributor which are called something like "FF". Oh, maybe, it's their "opinion", and if somebody gets "offended" or "misinterprets" it, then it's his/her "problem". Point taken! After all, those contributors are not... wo kya kahte hain, haan, "CVs" (the word which made me scratch my head for years until I finally knew what does it mean 😆)! Regardless of whether there is no existing rule addressing this or not... 🤔 Then this kept on going i.e. the "polarisation drive" and resembling comments/remarks were being made occasionally, which is neither rare, and I repeat, not that much big point to intensely stress upon! Now, "to cut the long-story shot" or as Sameer used to say: "Let's cut the c@#p", the "real-drama" started on the day of temporary departure (words [deliberately] in bold to stress upon them) of the character Dr Sameer Purohit from the show when several hours before the premiere of the episode, an article [sourced] from a gossip-website TellyChakkar mentioned he's gonna leave the show because Nik has entered and he is "of no use" to the makers (herein referred to as "CVs") anymore. 😆 Well, the "intensity" of the article and reasoning given by them was clearly hinting that it was [primarily] targeted for/towards India-Forumites' [which seem to have established a very "exclusive-relationship" with entities "professionally designated" as "CVs"] and others influenced by them. Just pause for a while and use your memory-power, wasn't it the same publication which took at least 2 articles and 1+ months of time to bring back Nik to India (samjhe? nahi samjhe? will explain later) for this and that reason (all reasons were quite good/convincing, if given the perspective of typical/youth love stories, but if seen through the lens of the show in question, it was clearly absurd/impractical but kya karein? "CVs"...! na? 😛). So the article triggered anxiety in many of the contributors which, after seeing their respective "reactions" had various levels of effect [and even after-effect 😉], depending on their mental-status [at that/the time]. The reaction was as if any of the USAAF's sources have informed them that: "a source shared with us that Japan is forgetting/ignoring its status from a very long time, it was supposed that at any fine day, it will realise but it seems Japan is in no mood to lose its Imperial Governance system thus unwilling to surrender, therefore with this being the case, we've decided to finally teach Japan a [strict] lesson. While on the other hand, another source jumped in-between without even being invited and claimed, Japan has been given enough fair-chance to realise their place and surrender, but this didn't worked [out] and instead, they'd the audacity to call upon our most powerful enemies to counter us, so now it's high time to teach them a lesson by cherry-picking two cities to [whispers} experiment our cool, oops, fatty-ugly bombs without being held liable{whispers}. It was a mutual decision between US and its allies to bomb Japan as they themselves want to be at the receiving end of the experiment is what we hear. On the contrary, Japan said that "they've never consulted with/sought for permission from us to use our soil for "field trials". We're completely devoted to stabilising Imperial Governance at this time. Once our enemies attack us, we'll see whether to surrender or not, depending on the outcome. We hope these nerds will instantly learn the outcome of their stupidity once they've the taste of the "trials"." and the actually party at the receiving end i.e. the citizens of Japan were obviously, the contributors so it's very natural to go overboard. 😛 Isn't it? 😉 So the first person, being a "veteran", tried to be objective by defying the news with her 3 points in which 3rd point needed infographic but yeah, this isn't Quora so "who gives a d--mn"? And the last para claimed that this has "happened with him before, too", while I admit I don't follow much of his work, but I liked his character in Star Plus' "aviation-drama" in which he used to do stunts to keep a check on Inde Air and earn positive PR for it. So if you're referring to that then please don't forget that show itself faced a lot of mistreatment from the channel, so blaming makers would be wrong but the channel. And yes, during his relatively short-stint in that ill-treated and ill-fated mini-series, he used to be challenge for Aakash, na? Well now moving on! Then, 2nd one who "incidentally" turned out be a "topic"-creator herself and said she wanted "RoshMeer" anyhow, 3rd one was just neutral and hopeful, 4th one was the only whom I agreed to the most-extent [but not totally] i.e. @russhmeSS, 5th one was "so-so" like the 3rd one. 6th one turned-out to be the same whom I earlier agreed with but now humbly disagree until proven "inaccurate". Conversation continued - in the 7th one, once again a "hopeful" reply as the 8th one, convo again in the 9th, "god-swearing" in the 10th "threatening" the makers to "stop". 😃 And, here comes the 11th and last one! Wait... Woah-Woah-Woah!!! 😲 The 11th one got affected the most i.e. "true citizen of Japan", went as far as name-calling to Nik, seemed to me like a Punjabi Dhaba owner/proprietor getting grumpy against Punjabi Munda for "biraadari ki naak kata di" (Punjabi: "bharaapann da naakk kaat[te]ya"; Sorry for my "bad" Punjabi, I'm not a Punjabi-speaker that's why, would be appreciated if any native Punjabi-speaker corrects me. 🤔 😊). 😆 Well, as expressed above, it's not a matter of least concern so jokes-apart for a while. The [live] best example of "gang-up" is evident that no-one presumably reported her comment nor she repented and if these weren't enough, the most-"veteran" from the contributors actually "condoned" her conduct by "liking" her post. 😲 H--k, nobody even tried to humbly point out her mistake and advice about not repeating again!!! A very shocking-fact indeed! Not sensationalising but truly, an unforgettable event about this forum [albeit we tend to say "unforgettable" for positive things but here negativity won that "accolade"]. "Humour" continues... And then, the same news got posted in Times of India's Entertainment section (has its own share of "fame", remember Deepika Padukone, anyone? 😉) which was as usual, cross-posted here. But thankfully, to keep oneself original in an era of "plagiarism", they shortened the article to make the article a "boon" to its readers. 😛 The 1st reply came from that "Ronick[sic] hater", but just like that TOI-Deepika Padukone case*, after name-calling, she remained within the bounds of civility this time and switched from "hater-mode" to "pleading-mode". Probably as a measure of damage control. *Just kidding, the accurate scenario is that she firstly posted on the "TOI article" thing, then just 5 minutes later she "lost the cool" and posted an abusive post targeting "Ro[sh]Nik" and specifically, Nik. It seems she was browsing/surfing this forum after days and opened the "topics" in "top-to-bottom" order rather "bottom-to-top" which would've been serially-accurate order (just like we check SMSs and other messages). So in the earlier post, she remembered chai and said they're "d--n thanda couple" so "CVs" (CVs=Chai Vallahs), either prepare "garam couple" or best-of-all, "masala couples", Yay! 😆 Now, "sparing" her and coming to 2nd one, she's seeming to share the voice of 1st one but in a civil manner, the 3rd one is the same who "swore to the God" in the "TellyChakkar article" location, this time she too went from "I swear" to "swearing" but thankfully, far-away from the "best example" but wondering are "Mods" aware that which age-groups visits their site daily anonymously, no-no! I'm not claiming that I have [access to] that data but was just asking. And really can't get/understand masking only 1 alphabet/character from a long cuss-word, is this form/kind/type of new[est] [self-]censorship? If so, then please enlighten a nerd like me with that gyaan. 😊 Reply #4 to #6 (the last one) are conversation between each-other. Ahh...! "Nuff of the description! Now, it's much late so I need to just do-it-hurry if not much earlier, someone's favourite [youth] actor "took a jibe" at TellyChakkar on Twitter (part of the IndianTelevision.com group, the same body which conducts/hosts/organises 'Indian Telly Awards' [abbreviation: ITA] every year) for calling him "unprofessional" and even "knowing his-future projects before he's yet-to-sign on them" apart from the aforementioned Nik saga, TOI Entertainment is already much famous [over the world] due to Deepika Padukone controversy (oops.. it's called "scoop" [for them]) and as an additional example like the former, their flagship web counterpart/portal Indiatimes.com published website a "9 unknown/behind-the-scenes facts" of Colors' house-arrest reality show (which have [at least] 1 "connection"/similarity with the show) have enough enjoyable language that it was clearly reflecting its shade of tabloid-journalism, yes I know that it's an "entertainment news" so it may be like that but almost similar article on another website didn't have that shade of sensationalism, why? Are the latter's employees not "creative" enough?? And yes, while I still have to complete the letter and thought to give you the glimpse of that "shocker" but it seems it's better for that "shocker" to unveil at later point of time with rest of my words, otherwise it would surely bring the unnecessary misunderstandings. 🥱 After all, the "evil" inside us actually never dies. 😳 But still if someone believes that I'm being "rebellious" and "propagandist" by not following the flow as rest of others.😳
{To be continued}
P.S. Since I don't have time to proofread it, it would be much better if someone would mark/pinpoint any grammatical/lingual/typography error. 😊
P.P.S. I originally intended to post the entire message (this message is only-half of it 😉) by yesterday morning but due to the disturbances in my body clock, I couldn't make it. 😔 Then I tried to give rest to my body and failed in even this too, so I decided to start writing anyhow by 6:15 PM/18:15 hrs (IST) and started doing the same by around 6:30 PM/18:30 hrs. Then I took minor breaks to complete my chores, watch the prime telecast of the show and other special screenings on TV, etcetera and finally came back to writing non-stop around 12:00 AM/00:00 hrs at midnight until 05:00 AM/05:00 hrs early morning (co-incidentally the first repeat time of the show [nowadays] between Tuesdays to Saturdays on [both channels of] Life OK network). But due to the reason aforementioned at the end of the 'Message' column, I couldn't complete it. 😔 And when I proceeded to post it, I got the CAPTCHA error saying "CAPTCHA is wrong", but I mostly fill-CAPTCHAs by double-checking so I couldn't have made mistake even though I was feeling sleepy. Then I went back by pressing the 'Back' button of the browser, and yes CAPTCHA was still the same, then I realised that the CAPTCHA was almost 10 hours old that's why it might have expired (after all, they must be having their own time-bound "sessions" too, otherwise, even though much slowly, "bots" will learn to defy CAPTCHAs too. 😉) but wait...! I got the biggest shocker when I realised that my entire text field/"text area"/"message area" got "whitewashed" as if there was nothing moments before, I got so much tensed that I started scorching the Internet. Downloaded add-ons, toolbars, viewed temporary Internet files, all in vain! 😔 And meanwhile, I then realised "what the h--k" this 'Clear Form[sic]' button is for! 😒 And the links of 'Preview Post[sic]' button in browser history were of no use. So all of my Internet-hounding revolving around this and other ideas were going in vain! 😔 There was really a moment when I thought: "Is this all the thing which I preferred over having the complete sleep for my 2 [consecutive] days, am I dumb enough for wasting so much of my time, energy and money for a thing which can disappear in a blink of an eye? Now I think I shouldn't be deserving a moment more living in this world, at least then I would be free-of any disappointment, grief, remorse, stress to live with for not trying "again" so I would be devoid of all these "negativities".". 😳 But then with Supreme Being's grace (I'm not an atheist but consistent with the story format, I'm avoiding any sort of acts which may be remotely defined as "religious-propagation" so I avoided my God's name to maintain the [extreme] "secularism" here, [the word] otherwise referred as "sickularism[sic]" or "pesudo-secularism" on social media), somehow I used my "geeky-mind" (🤓) and used an-inbuit browser webpage scripting-feature to recover my all text-matter albeit in HTML format as it wasn't possible to recover it in the original, formatted-version due to the difference of 'programming-language' and the length of the "texts" to edit i.e. copy those texts in "plain-text" format. And then, I took a moment of relief and all those depressive/negative ideas disappeared from my mind. 😊 So here's that recovered original-text along with a short-story length of 'P.P.S.' (😆) and with few edits/modifications. 😊 Well, enough of the personal talk/"stuff", getting back to the point! So as said, while this portion of message was mainly focused upon [pin]pointing mistakes/"offences" and that's why [potentially] "offending" to some too, but the second and hopefully, the last-one will explain why I said so. Starting with a "shocker" to give an idea of my post not much later since first-word (to save the "time" of those who "don't have time" to help them avoid reading my "useless junk" 😛), and [better] explanation of all things which haven't been answered here [well/"properly"]. And to those whose "sentiments have been hurt", they may report my entire post as much as they want or even try their influence (if any) aka netagiri, "powergiri", "baahubali"[-]giri. Will start writing the next-part after 2-3 hours [at least/to the least], and as the next episode is set to broadcast in 15 minutes, will modify my "ready-made" raw "script" [present in my mind] to suit accordingly and also, as per other applicable factors.
Thanking You
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