Why does nobody seem to notice Shikhar's pain? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Love_Ashvik

Hey!

I don't mean to hurt you...but i just wanna ask you something!!

You seem to be in love with shakti...which is a good thing!

He's a wonderful human being!!

But do you know shakti played a role very similar to that of shikhar in pavitra rishta!!

He played onir in PR..& as an ashvik fan...i always wanted Arjun n purvi to unite!!

But somehow I also felt bad for onir!!

Now plz tell me...would u also laugh at onir/shakti's emotional scenes..knowing that arvi are meant to be together!!

Sorry...i had no intention of hurting you...but this is what i feel!

And for those who felt bad for onir, its not necessary to feel the same with shikar too!! THere the female lead married onir for the name of Dr Onir and then left him and married her lover..

Originally posted by: bbishveer

Firstly I would like to know whether shikhar felt bad or for that matter did you felt bad at all while he was busy with his philandering ways. He professes to love ishaani but can't see her pain and can't feel her emotions one bit.No one has ever said so that he can't fall for ishaani as she is married to ranveer but it's his ignoramus like EH pointed out before which made us apathetic mind it not antipathetic with regards to his feelings.Oh really ranveer was interested in ritika that is why he told shikhar to buck off and not to meddle in his and ishaani's affairs as she is his wife.You've pretty vehemently pointed out the pain that shikhar went through as a child but never did you cared to mention about any pain that ranveer has went through for ishaani since their childhood because of his unconditional love that he has for ishaani .His love was never subjected to her loving him back.All he has been doing all this while has been nothing but expressing his unflinching love towards ishaani. And lastly it was ranveer who had set ishaani free though she was still her wife but still since she made him presumed that he didn't wanted to be with him he'd let her go because like I aforesaid his love has never been forced and for him the only thing that matters is ishaani's happiness.

So it seems that most people feel Shikhar's pain is of no consequence because Ranveer's pain is greater.

Originally posted by: OriginalsFan

On that note RV's love is a joke! Claim to love one woman and becoming pet dog of another woman😆😆so desperate to get married to his Ritika! What a joke he claims to love ishani! At least Shikar is doing everything to keep ishani alive and help her the woman he claims to love!👏

Pet dog of ritika,ur hilarious, he knows orgAnised life is in danger,why can't Ranveer put a secret guard to protect her ,if he had at least donevthst. He could have not seen ishani stabbing and looking for help to save her,tommorow is shikhar save her from death ,still people will tell he didntccried properly ,if ranveer he will forgot taking hospital and cry over her as if she is leaving this world,so his love us great.

People reacting one situation differs from person to person, to me and my sibilings they are so many differences,I I can't show like them crying ,but I will think in mind ,they Wil put before people ,all my relatives think I am such stone hearted lady, no one knows I always sees emotional drama to know the sensitiveness of a person in my family too.

No one is comparable, ishani is again at fault regarding shikhar ,not telling him truth

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

So it seems that most people feel Shikhar's pain is of no consequence because Ranveer's pain is greater.

We seem to have a numbers game here. In Place A, 50 people have been murdered, and in Place B, 500 people. The casualty in Place B is greater, so the death toll in Place A is a joke.

Similarly, Ranveer's pain is 'greater', hence everybody else's pain is 'lesser' or a 'joke'.

Is that so?

Let me tell you my POV... For eg, take the current political scenario: In Kashmir, people die everyday bcoz of terrorism. So far thousands or even lakhs have died. Where as terrorist attacks in US or elsewhere in the Europe occurs occasionally... But who hogs the limelight? Its the one that occurs occasionally i.e US / Europe and not Kashmir...
Similarly in MATSH, Ranveer's case is like Kashmir. He is dying everyday... He has faced so much pain and is continuing to do so... and Shikhar's case is like US / Europe.

So its upto each one to decide...

Its just my POV, no offense intended to either people of Kashmir / India / US / Europe. Apologies if I have hurt any one's feelings!

Originally posted by: fan.matsh

Let me tell you my POV... For eg, take the current political scenario: In Kashmir, people die everyday bcoz of terrorism. So far thousands or even lakhs have died. Where as terrorist attacks in US or elsewhere in the Europe occurs occasionally... But who hogs the limelight? Its the one that occurs occasionally i.e US / Europe and not Kashmir...
Similarly in MATSH, Ranveer's case is like Kashmir. He is dying everyday... He has faced so much pain and is continuing to do so... and Shikhar's case is like US / Europe.

So its upto each one to decide...

Its just my POV, no offense intended to either people of Kashmir / India / US / Europe. Apologies if I have hurt any one's feelings!

Originally posted by: fan.matsh

Let me tell you my POV... For eg, take the current political scenario: In Kashmir, people die everyday bcoz of terrorism. So far thousands or even lakhs have died. Where as terrorist attacks in US or elsewhere in the Europe occurs occasionally... But who hogs the limelight? Its the one that occurs occasionally i.e US / Europe and not Kashmir...
Similarly in MATSH, Ranveer's case is like Kashmir. He is dying everyday... He has faced so much pain and is continuing to do so... and Shikhar's case is like US / Europe.

So its upto each one to decide...

Its just my POV, no offense intended to either people of Kashmir / India / US / Europe. Apologies if I have hurt any one's feelings!

Haha, I can see both th e guys are suffering candidates will suffer till ritika truth coming out ,both are in pain, I can add a point here,if ritika is good and pregnant , then ranveer and ishani will sacrifice and again she will be with shikhar. Nothing putting him in dark and marrying him for Ranveer sake ,how fault it is ,she told she can't love him but still ,she should what exactly her relation with ranveer,if she loves Chirac as. She is telling there is a hope for shikhar that one day she can understand and can love back as he is dead ,but if it is ranveer ,the scenario us completely different, that shikhar can analyse and can help these two mahaan dumb leads,

Who on the earth will go back to the husband who pretended to marry and another girl, it I'd ishveer web of misunderstanding s where shikhar caught ,they will get love ,what is he will get is. Only happiness as he will happy in ishveer happiness, he knows both done because of ritika evil deeds or else they need to face this situations facing death with emotionally and physically.

Good guy who can see ishveer happiness, really loved him a lot by his character

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

The comparison does not ring appropriate. Take a look around the forum and see who's 'hogging the limelight', Shikhar or Ranveer. Ranveer's case is rather like Palestine, where dozens die everyday and the casualties gain international attention, while the terror attacks in India gain none.

I dont necessarily agree... These days see how many posts that are pitying Shikhar... Hardly one or two which speaks of Ranveers pain

Didn't want to reply to this thread anymore but shall have to given how dirty it has become by some folks blatantly bashing Ranveer only because they don't understand him. There are certain reasons we don't feel lawyer's pain at all and Ranveer's pain being greater doesn't mean other's can be ignored. Here are my views-
Should lawyer have loved a woman like Ishani? This girl told him the man she loved married someone else, but this guy forgot the fact when he fell in wuw with her. Also, he knew Ranveer loved his wife so much that he didn't want to move on even after her supposed death. And when Ishani hurled all those abuses at Ranveer, shouldn't it have made lawyer doubt Ishani's character? Because how can someone hate/not love the person who loves her so much? Lawyer could have given ONE thought to it. What does he do? Goes awawawa over his wuw and announces he's marrying Ishani.

Lawyer mocked Ranveer's love. How can I forget the instances he was over-confident about Ishani loving him back and rubbing it all at Ranveer's face? It also discards your point, krystel, that he didn't "mean" all that shit about her falling for him back. Sometimes he looked like a sadist taking sadistic pleasure in mocking Ranveer and his love.

Lawyer's deliberate PDA with Ishani hurt Ranveer immensely and he seemed to ignore that. You could argue he is unaware of Ranveer's story, but why? Because he's an ignortant idiot. Ishani's claims, Ranveer's statements about his own sacrifice and love since childhood should have stirred his brain cells to find out more about Ishani and Ranveer's relationship. What does he do? Goes out, announces his marriage with Ishani and tells Ranveer he's jealous of Ishkar's happiness. Just like Ishani he too assumed everything and played all that hurt Ranveer. It seemed like he saw Ranveer as his rival and that's why all the shitty things he said. Anyone with sensitive heart would have felt guilt, apologetic towards Ranveer instead of mocking his love and hurting him too bad.

He ignored Ishani's feelings. From the start she always said she's marrying him for Ranveer's happiness, and she became extremely vulnerable whenever he was around. What does this damned lawyer do? IGNORES HER FEELINGS. She danced with him, half-heartedly, her eyes never leaving Ranveer and lawyer was busy in his own world of happiness.

After all the crap he did, hurt Ranveer to the extent that I felt better Ranveer dies at once instead of suffering like this everyday at the hands of these cruel idiots, his over-confidence crumbled and then he saw and noticed Ishani is not interested in him that much. I don't know how great his love was, but it all seemed like he was of the opinion Ishani-would-be-happy-if-she-marries-me. Explains her ignorance towards her feelings too. And why the eff he always thought Ranveer was there to hurt Ishani?
On another note, why he had to be in taunting mode whenever Ranveer was around? This guy was marrying the girl Ranveer had loved all his life and still loved her, why he couldn't be little decent and not as disgusting he really was?
Also, my sympathy has literally nothing do with the actors. They both are very good actors although I love Shakti as I have known him for quite sometime now. For AB I hardly listen to any positive things. And it is the underlying emotion that I talk about, not it is portrayed. During RR wedding crap episodes I felt nothing for Ranveer. Whenever he cried it seemed fake and meaningless. It's always about the emotion that moves me. Always.